"Please, Mom, swallow this mouthful! ”
In the hospice ward, a woman was crying out heartbreakingly, and after a while, she wiped her faceHe continued to pick up the spoon and took a mouthful of food, and forcibly stuffed it into the mouth of the old man on the hospital bed.
But looking at the old man on the hospital bed, she didn't even have the strength to chew and swallow, even if she was in the city's first-class oncology department and found the best oncologist, the old man's condition still deteriorated to an advanced stage.
The woman's name is Wang Jie, who used to work as an accountant in a company, and on the hospital bed is her 71-year-old mother, Xue Yulan, whose condition has been reducedIt has progressed to an advanced stage of bone cancerThe ** big festers on the body, and even a slight touch of the body will break bones.
The cancer cells that torture people get into the bones, the pain is very fatal, at first it is just a faint pain, and it only occurs after a long time, and it can be controlled by painkillersLater, it felt like thousands of insects gnawing on the bones at the same timeWhen I went to bed at night, I couldn't sleep at all.
The old mother in the ward was tormented by such illness all the time and was dying.
The old mother lying on the hospital bed has reached the advanced stage, and her desire to survive is already very low, and she only wants to be relieved by death, but her daughter Wang Jie is like crazy, grabbing the doctor's arm and crying loudly"Doctor! Save my mother! Save my mother! I can't afford to lose her again! ”
The doctor had no choice but to say, "We'll do our best." Wang Jie's face was full of tears, and she continued to shout in a hoarse voice: "No matter how much! No matter how much money it is, we will cure it! Please, doctor, save my mother! ”
The doctor and Wang Jie both knew it in their heartsCancer plus chemotherapy for half a year, tortured people to life is worse than death, Wang Jie, who was extremely sad, sat helplessly on the ground and cried.
In Wang Jie's village, the villagers all know that Wang Jie is well-known for her filial piety, since she was a child, her mother said that the east does not go west, she never quarrels with her mother, and she often buys things for her mother after work.
But the old mother is critically ill with cancer, but Wang Jie is crazy and unscrupulous to save her mother, and the relatives around her can't understand it, is this too much filial piety?
"Doctor! Come on! My mom is ** again! I vomited all the food I ate at night! Come and see! ”
With a sharp voice, the hospital at three o'clock in the morning was lively, and the doctor on duty hurriedly took the stethoscope and ran to the ward.
Through the dim light at the head of the bed, the doctor sawBlood stains and vomit on the pillows at the head of the bed
The doctor on duty didn't make a fuss, as if he had seen such a scene, these vomited porridge,It was Wang Jie who forcibly stuffed it into her mother's mouth one by oneNo matter how much her condition deteriorated, Wang Jie had to feed her mother half a bowl of gruel every day, even though the old mother was almost losing the ability to swallow and digest.
Nearly half a year of chemotherapy,Xue Yulan had already been tortured without human appearance, so thin that her skin and bones were covered with skin, and her thighs and calves were completely four bamboo poles, which were placed on Xue Yulan's bodyWhenever the doctor saw Wang Jie forcibly stuffing food for the old mother, he would kindly remind Wang Jie that the old man's desire to eat was very weak in the end, and the saline rehydration of the infusion was enough to support the nutrients needed by a patient.
At this time, Xue Yulan's body was skinny, and there was no trace of the ruddy past on her shriveled and sallow face, and the corners of her mouth were twitching slightly, as if she wanted to say something, and the doctor squatted down after seeing it, and his ears were close to Xue Yulan's mouth, so he heard Xue Yulan's weak and intermittent voice:"Let's. Let me. Die. I think. Extrication.
At this time, her daughter Wang Jie's emotions were out of control again, and when she saw that her mother wanted to die, she went crazy and lay on her mother, shouting regardless of it:"Mom! You can't go! What should I do if you're gone! You must live well! ”
In 2011,Wang Jie's father unfortunately suffered from lung cancerWang Jie and Wang Jie's mother were grief-stricken about the incident, and it took three years for Wang Jie, who came out of her grief, and then heard the bad news of her husband, who worked in the cable factoryI accidentally touched a high-voltage line while working and had an accident and died on the spot.
This is a fatal blow to Wang Jie, the two have not been married for a long time, they have no children, Wang Jie, who was originally fragile and sensitive, lost two close relatives in three years, and she was during that timeHolding her husband's urn, she cried until she fainted.
After her husband died, Wang Jie was likeIt's like a marionette has lost its soulShe worked as an accountant in the company, and the calculated data frequently made mistakes, and the leader just remembered that she had no husband, but after a few months of continuous errors in the data, the leader couldn't bear it anymore and fired her directly.
Without the economy, and losing her father and husband in a short period of time, Wang Jie looked at the portraits of her father and husband all day long, and even in her mindThoughts of suicide.
The mother in her hometown knew about her daughter's situation and decided to let Wang Jie move to her hometown, motherA pension of 4,000 yuan per monthis still able to take care of the lives of two people, coupled with her mother's daily guidance to Wang Jie, Wang Jie's spirit slowly stabilized.
But recently, when Wang Jie got along with her mother, her mother always talked about herselfI have a swelling pain all over my body, and I vomit out every time I eat a few bites, Wang Jie didn't dare to delay, and took her mother to the hospital to check, and it turned out to beBone cancer
Considering that Xue Yulan is nearly 70 years old, she can only be conservative about cancer, but Wang Jie, who has experienced the pain of losing her husband and father, was very nervous when she heard the conservative **, for fear that she would miss the best ** time because of conservatism, and she didn't want her mother to be dragged to death by this cancer, soForcefully let the hospital operate and directly scrape off the tumor on the mother's body.
The metabolism of the old man's body is very slow, Xue Yulan is no exception, the effect after the operation is not very ideal, the cancer cells follow the extensive metastasis of the bone nerve, the spread is too fast, even if chemotherapy is taken, the symptoms are very unsatisfactory, the ** on the body begins to fester, and the feet are even more rotten, and there is an unpleasant smell.
Under the persuasion of relatives at home, Wang Jiecai, who was always unwilling to give up her mother, cried and sent her mother to the dying ward, washing her face with tears every day, begging her mother not to leave.
What can make Wang Jie see hope is that there is less irritation in the hospice ward**, Xue Yulan's symptoms have stabilized a lot, and she couldn't take care of herself before, but now she can come out on her own.
Seeing her mother's improvement, Wang Jie hurriedly contacted a better oncologist, thinking of finding a better hospital for her mother to completely cure her mother's illness.
For Wang Jie,Mother is all she has nowIf her mother also leaves, then Wang Jie's only thought is gone, and she doesn't dare to think how collapsed she will be then.
Wang Jie imagined that her mother could be ** good, but Wang Jie was too optimistic, just when she contacted other hospitals to call an ambulanceThe mother suddenly shrunk into a ball and let out a miserable cry of painWang Jie realized that it was the cancer pain that broke out.
Lift the mother's bed,I saw patches of ulcers on my thighs, and the urine pad under my body was covered with black blood from the stool.
Wang Jie was so frightened that she cried, her legs were weak, she couldn't care about anything, so she had to call the doctor desperately, but when the doctor saw the old mother's condition, he only prescribed a small amount of painkillers and tranquilizers to calm the terrible cancer pain.
Wang Jie saw this and asked"Doctor, is my mom dying? ”
The doctor said very seriously"This is in line with the performance of dying in medicine, and what we can do is to try to alleviate the last pain of the elderly. ”
This sentence made Wang Jie feel the five thunders hit the top, let the lastThe little luck that was left was shatteredShe sat down on the ground with her legs limp, and her swollen eyes began to shed tears again.
In the last few days of Xue Yulan, Wang Jie barely closed her eyes, looking at her old mother all day and night, grief-stricken.
Wang Jie touched her motherCold, cold, so he ran home and brought two quilts and quickly covered his mother, for fear that his mother would be a little cold.
During the evening rounds, the doctor was shocked to see that the patient was covered with three quilts"The patient is particularly fragile in the last period, the thin quilt is very heavy for them, and the thick quilt will weigh her like a stone on her body! ”
When Wang Jie heard this, she hurriedly hugged the quilt down, but when she heard the dull voice in the throat of the old mother, she was about to die.
After the death of the mother, according to the customs of the old home,The body of the old man was to be laid to rest in the funeral shed for three daysWang Jie's uncle rushed to help deal with related matters, and Wang Jie was already crying so much that she had no strength in her body.
Xue Yulan has no son, only Wang Jie has a daughter, so byWang Jie knelt in front of the ice coffin and guarded the oil fireWhen relatives and friends came to mourn and bow down to the ice coffin of the body, Wang Jie wore a filial piety hat and put a few pieces of yellow table paper into the brazier.
But when she saw her relatives kneeling down, Wang Jie thought of her mother again, and sadness came from it, and the weather was very hotWang Jie fainted several times like this.
There is no choice but to let Wang Jie's cousin take her place to keep the spirit, and the relatives see Wang Jie so sad, and they all think that this is a very filial child.
Until the funeral, Xue Yulan's body will be transported from the funeral shed to the funeral home, and the ashes will also be stored in the cemetery in the village.
But what people didn't expect was that as soon as the ice coffin was opened, Wang Jie was like crazy againrushed up to grab his mother's body, and a series of tears in his eyes fell on his mother's face, This is regarded as a taboo in the village, and this kind of behavior will make the deceased feel unsteady, so Wang Jie's uncle hurriedly dragged Wang Jie away.
was afraid that Wang Jie would have something to do on the way out of the funeral, so his uncle asked Wang Jie to wait at home, and only after Xue Yulan was cremated did he let Wang Jie go to the cemetery in the village together.
After the funeral, the relatives went back to their respective homes to work and farmWang Jie stayed in the cemetery all day, sitting next to her mother's tombstone and shedding tears.
The sensible cousin couldn't see his sister like this all day, so he took Wang Jie to see a psychiatrist, only to know that Sister Wang had suffered from it at that timeSevere depression, the successive deaths of her father, mother and husband made Wang Jie unable to stand such a big blow, so her cousin let Wang Jie live in his own house, and took her out to relax on weekends, which made Wang Jie's mood much more stable.
SometimesExcessive filial piety is also a knife, so that the elders are forced to bear such "filial piety".For those elderly people who are plagued by illness, instead of struggling painfully on the hospital bed and stepping into a dignified death, I hope that every old person will be free from pain and healthy. I hope that Wang Jie will be emotionally stable and live a good life in the future.