There are a large number of older unmarried men in rural areas, and there are even many unmarried people in their 37s
Preface. This year's Chinese New Year, many families are talking about marriage. In particular, the widespread existence of post-90s marriage has attracted widespread attention. Why is it that there are so many young people who do not want to marry today, and even in the countryside, there are still a large number of elderly single men who are facing the dilemma of not being able to find a spouse? What's the secret here? Let's take a look together.
b.There is an imbalance in the ratio of men to women in the population.
In national surveys in the 21st century, the ratio of men to women shows that there are five more men than women. The post-90s generation is even more unbalanced in terms of males and females, with far more men expected than women. In the 90s of the last century, due to the relatively conservative thinking, many families were "one child and two children", so the number of men in this generation far exceeded that of women. The survey shows that the number of post-90s men in China exceeds that of women by 18, and many of them have encountered difficulties in finding spouses, resulting in an increase in the number of elderly single men in China.
The imbalance in the sex ratio of the population will lead to a series of social problems, and changing the concept of marriage and marriage that favors sons over daughters, and creating a fairer and more harmonious family, has become the goal that all countries in the world should work together to achieve today.
Tight financial situation.
In modern times, the financial situation of the family has become a major factor in determining whether to marry or not. The cost of raising a house, a car, and children is a big expense for many young people. In a county, a house of 80-100 square meters is at least 300,000, and if you count a car, the cost of raising a child to the age of 17 is 485,000 yuan, while in the countryside it is cheaper, only about 300,000. All in all, the cost of raising a child is nearly 500,000 yuan, and in the early days of marriage, a man's family must prepare at least 400,000 yuan. Faced with such huge expenses, the younger generation must be more diligent, and at the same time, when they cannot afford it, they will postpone marriage or simply not consider marriage.
In such an environment, society needs to raise the level of income, reduce the cost of living, improve the social security system, and provide young people with a good environment for marriage and development.
A change in the mindset of society.
While the people receive basic education and improve the quality of life of the people, it also changes the people's concept of marriage and family. Many people have realized that marriage is not the only option in life, and they can postpone marriage to pursue their careers and dreams. In modern society, men and women are paying more and more attention to their own development and development, and are more and more inclined to pursue a high-quality life, so delaying marriage has become a common phenomenon.
The change of social concept requires us to constantly change and adjust, advocate giving full attention to personal choices, break through the shackles of traditional love and marriage concepts, and let everyone have more opportunities to choose life.
Brief summary. Marriage is a major issue that a person must face in his life, however, with the changes of the times and the development of society, people's views on marriage are also undergoing subtle changes. Gender imbalances, economic pressures, and changes in social thinking have all influenced the marriages and marriages of young men and women to some extent. In the future, we should look at all kinds of marriage methods with a more open and tolerant attitude, and create a beautiful love and love atmosphere for everyone, so that everyone can get their own happiness.
Marriage not only means the "union" between two people, but also the "harmony" between the family and society. Let's explore the story of this married life with a tolerant and understanding attitude, and strive to build a harmonious marriage! I wish everyone to find their own happiness and write their own happy ending.