With the continuous progress of society, more and more people choose to live a dink lifestyle.
They usually pay more attention to their careers and pay more attention to spiritual pursuits.
Cheng Fangyuan is one of the singers who belongs to the Dink family.
She has been married twice, the first time was to marry her university teacher, and the two fell in love for a year before ending in divorce.
She was full of pain deep inside, and she once thought that she would never find true love again.
She didn't expect that in a blink of an eye, she met Wang Gang, who was 12 years older than her.
She once thought that Wang Gang was the salvation of her love, but they divorced after 5 years of marriage.
Now 63 years old Cheng Fangyuan, what is her relationship status?
Cheng Fangyuan is an authentic Beijing girl.
Her parents are both literary and artistic workers engaged in the film industry, and the family conditions are not bad.
There is an older sister in the family, and my parents dote on these two sisters very much, and often take them to play where they work.
Subsequently, the unit assigned a spacious courtyard in the film studio for the parents, and the family of four settled here.
The people here were influenced by their parents and environment, so they all had a strong interest in literary and artistic work. Cheng Fangyuan watches movies, reads** and listens** every day.
Every night, my home becomes a small stage where I sing and dance.
Her parents saw that she had a soft spot for **, so they began to teach her to learn erhu.
She was gifted and showed an extraordinary ability to learn at a young age, mastering the art of erhu in just a few months.
After mastering the performance skills of erhu, Cheng Fangyuan is full of more persistent love for **, and he is determined to make achievements in the literary and artistic circles in the future.
When she was in junior high school, she participated in various literary and artistic activities at school, whether it was singing or playing erhu, she was able to play it with ease.
Whenever the performance ended, she could always feel the warm applause from the audience, which made her feel more confident.
After graduating from high school, she applied for the ** Drama Academy.
Due to her great talent and hard training since childhood, Cheng Fangyuan was able to enter this school smoothly.
She excelled in school and excelled so much that she was invited to join an orchestra and serve as an accompanist for Li Guyi.
She once thought that she would be closely connected to erhu all her life, but one incident completely changed the trajectory of her life.
The school had planned to hold a show, but encountered a difficulty: one member of the band was unable to attend.
When everyone was worried about this, someone suddenly remembered Cheng Fangyuan. He is not only good at playing the erhu, but also often sings in the dormitory, and his singing voice is also very beautiful.
She has a soft spot for Teresa Teng, and she can sing all the songs.
So everyone unanimously agreed to let her take on the role of a singer for the time being.
It was the first time she had appeared on stage to show her singing, and she was the first person to sing with a guitar.
The audience was greeted by a crisp and loud voice, and the warm applause resounded through the audience at the end.
Your erhu is so good at playing and singing so well, I really didn't expect it. The classmates around him said.
The teacher saw that she had potential in singing and suggested that she consider developing her talent in this area.
When Cheng Fangyuan heard this, she was a little entangled, because she had dreamed of becoming an erhu player since she was a child.
After thinking about it for a long time, Cheng Fangyuan felt that he already knew a lot about erhu, so he could use his extra time to learn to sing.
She then set out to learn singing skills.
Her fate changed dramatically at this moment.
She realized that she seemed to enjoy singing more, so she made up her mind to become a singer in the future.
After graduating, Cheng Fangyuan joined the Oriental Song and Dance Troupe and began his formal career as a singer and actor.
When pop ** prevails, she will adapt many classic songs and interpret them in her own unique way.
At that time, there were still some people whose minds had not changed, and they could not accept this popular way of singing for the time being.
Someone criticized: "What kind of bad singing is this? If you're not good at singing, don't come out and be embarrassed. ”
He Cheng Fangyuan was not willing to be angry, so he directly scolded them: "Maybe you want to try?" ”
The audience was no longer afraid to express any opinions.
Her singing style has proven to be increasingly popular.
Many of the songs she sang later were loved by the audience and won a lot of fame.
Cheng Fangyuan successfully opened up his popularity with a song "The Wanderer's Yin" and became a well-known singer.
She also followed up with the recording of "Childhood", which further boosted her popularity.
A few years later, the CCTV Spring Festival Gala extended an olive branch to Cheng Fangyuan.
She sang the song "Please Come to the Ends of the World" on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala, which was appreciated by the audience and CCTV leaders.
Since then, her career has been smooth sailing and she has achieved great success.
Her love life has always been bumpy and bumpy, in stark contrast to the success she has achieved in her career.
When he was in college, Cheng Fangyuan had a soft spot for English courses, and when he encountered problems that he didn't understand, he would take the initiative to ask his English teacher for advice.
Her English teacher was a handsome and knowledgeable young man, and the two gradually developed feelings for each other.
Whenever a class is conducted, the teacher will pay close attention to Cheng Fangyuan's state and learning.
Even if she makes a mistake, the teacher will correct it in time.
The teacher is very literary and artistic, she treats the students very gently, and they get along more like friends, perhaps more appropriately than called teacher and student.
He has a charismatic demeanor and often surprises those around him.
The two gradually got closer, and finally talked deeply about the love affair between teachers and students.
After the classmates learned that Cheng Fangyuan and the teacher were together, they came to ask her one after another.
Everyone agreed that Cheng Fangyuan was too impulsive, and it was quite rare to fall in love with a teacher in that era.
She doesn't mind the gaze of others at all, but enjoys her boyfriend's pampering of her to the fullest.
After graduation, Cheng Fangyuan began to look forward to a better married life.
She happily accepted her boyfriend's marriage proposal.
Her married life perfectly illustrates the phrase "marriage is the grave of love".
On the occasion of their wedding, they spent a sweet time together.
However, Cheng Fangyuan often has to perform all over the world, sometimes not being able to return home for days on end, despite her husband's stable job.
The husband thinks that since they are married, they should work together to run the family.
When you are in love, you only need to take care of your emotions, but when you get married, you need to face trivial matters and trivial life.
When arranging household chores, you need to consider who will cook, who will wash the dishes, and who will handle the chores.
She has her own pursuits and is not interested in the trivial things in life.
She began to come into contact with a wide variety of people, and her work life was very different from her husband's daily life.
The two have less and less common topics, and when they finally sit down to chat, they always end up arguing.
The two were exhausted by frequent quarrels, and as a result, they decided to divorce after a year of marriage.
Cheng Fangyuan suffered greatly from this failed relationship experience, and she suddenly realized that her marriage was not so good.
Cheng Fangyuan felt deep pain in his heart, he thought that he would never meet true love again in this life.
She soon ushered in a second relationship, which is where fate is wonderful.
Cheng Fangyuan was invited to become the host of "Variety Show", thus getting to know his partner Wang Gang.
Cheng Fangyuan is 12 years younger than Wang Gang, his marriage once ended in failure, and he has a daughter with his ex-wife.
However, due to his busy work, he gradually reduced the frequency of his home, which led to a gradual weakening of his relationship with his wife.
Eventually, they came to the point of divorce, and the court ruled that the daughter should be raised by his ex-wife.
When Cheng Fangyuan met Wang Gang, the latter had already become famous for his ** "Harbin at Night".
When Wang Gang first met Cheng Fangyuan, he had a good impression of her.
Not only is she beautiful in appearance, but she also exudes a unique charm and personality.
Wang Gang took the initiative to introduce himself to Cheng Fangyuan, because they would become colleagues in the future.
Hello, my name is Wang Gang, and we will become colleagues in the future.
Cheng Fangyuan said humbly: "Hello, my name is Cheng Fangyuan, please take care of me in the future." ”
Since they were working together for the first time and didn't know anything about each other's personalities and hosting styles, they went to have a meal together before work to get to know each other better.
Wang Gang talked and laughed at the dinner table, and his speech and demeanor were refined and measured, giving people an impression of elegance.
Cheng Fangyuan likes this way, she feels very comfortable and happy to listen to Wang Gang.
The two soon began to concentrate on their work, as they already had a preliminary understanding of the situation.
The two were a little nervous at first, but they didn't expect them to cooperate so tacitly for the first time.
Wang Gang could understand the meaning conveyed by Cheng Fangyuan's eyes.
They communicate frequently in private, and their feelings for each other grow deeper.
During a dinner together, Cheng Fangyuan learned that Wang Gang had also experienced an unhappy marriage and had a similar experience to himself.
She understood and told him about her past.
Perhaps because they can deeply understand each other's feelings, they begin to crave each other to comfort and give each other warmth.
Wang Gang fell in love with this beautiful girl who was 12 years younger than him, and he longed to build a warm home for her and give her a happy life.
During a meal, Wang Gang confessed to Cheng Fangyuan at the dining table without hesitation: "Yuanyuan, I have a good impression of you, let's be together." ”
Although the age difference between the two is 12 years, in the face of love, age does not constitute an obstacle at all.
This mature, steady and talented man had already fallen in love with Cheng Fangyuan, and she nodded shyly.
And so began a love story.
Both of them have achieved success in their careers, and they have shown good cooperation in the show, and everyone has expressed their blessings.
After Wang Gang was with her, he showed a more considerate and caring attitude, and took care of her more carefully than before.
They tacitly cooperated, co-hosted the show, and performed very well, to a level that is difficult for others to achieve.
At this time, Wang Gang had a new plan, he had a soft spot for foreign ** plots, and this also happened to fit Cheng Fangyuan's wish.
After much deliberation, they decided to quit their jobs together and go abroad to further their studies.
They encourage and help each other abroad, and always confide in each other when faced with difficulties. Wang Gang's patience and sense of responsibility gave Cheng Fangyuan a great sense of security.
The two got married naturally, and after returning home from school.
Problems began to emerge after the two got married.
He was immersed in the world of songwriting, just like before, and Fang Yuan still did.
Only when she was fully engrossed, all the sounds of the outside world could not reach her ears.
Once, Wang Gang returned home after filming.
He had expected his wife to greet him at the door, but instead of the warm embrace he expected, he was replaced by a kitchen that he hadn't had time to clean up.
Instant noodles are served with a bowl, porridge is served with a spoon, and the cup leaves a lipstick imprint.
When he heard the voice of **, he knew that his wife was at home.
No matter how much he shouted, no one would answer him.
Wang Gang pushed open the door and said to Cheng Fangyuan: "The house is so messy, you can't clean it up." ”
This problem led to frequent arguments between the two.
Ke Cheng Fangyuan is a person who records inspirations immediately, and she fears that she will soon forget.
Her scruffy demeanor shows how important ** is to her.
However, marriage is full of trivial matters.
Husband Wang Gang's mood began to be a little unhappy as time went on.
Wang Gang's later daughter, born to him and his ex-wife, plans to study abroad and needs to pay a lot of tuition.
Wang Gang then devoted himself to his work and worked hard to earn money.
The couple was busy with work day after day, and when they got home, they began to relax after a hurried dinner, and there were fewer and fewer opportunities to communicate with each other.
Due to his busy work and the huge pressure he faced, Wang Gang began to develop a habit of drinking heavily.
He and his friends would get together every day and spend long hours drinking at the same time, often until late at night.
Cheng Fangyuan still went to pick him up in the middle of the night because he was already drunk and unconscious.
During a car ride, Wang Gang suddenly decided to jump out of the car, but fortunately, Cheng Fangyuan reacted quickly and grabbed him in time to avoid the tragedy.
There are many similar situations, and the frequency of quarrels between the two sides gradually increases.
He just didn't listen, even if Cheng Fangyuan advised him to quit drinking.
Even though he knew that alcoholism was bad for his health, he also had a desire to change the habit in his heart. However, once he didn't drink, he felt sick all over, which left him helpless.
Gradually, Cheng Fangyuan began to ignore him.
Not only do they differ in their lifestyles, but they also have serious differences in parenting.
Wang Gang is over half a hundred years old, and he longs to have a son in his heart. However, there is still room for expansion in his career, and if he has children at this time, it is likely to have a stagnation or even regression impact on his career.
She would rather stick to her career than live a dull family life around her husband and children at home all day.
They quarreled over this matter, and Wang Gang's parents also urged them many times, but they failed to do so.
Eventually, the two of them couldn't stand this life anymore and ended their marriage.
I walked into marriage with joy, but I didn't expect it to end in failure.
Cheng Fangyuan has completely lost hope in marriage, and he has put all his energy into his career.
Cheng Fangyuan was invited to be a judge of the ** TV Singer Grand Prix.
She then launched ** "All the Way Style", which won the love of the audience.
In addition to this, she has also held many concerts, which has made her more and more famous.
On the Internet, Wang Gang met a girl who was 20 years younger than him, and the two began a relationship after they met.
Soon after the two fell in love, they entered the palace of marriage, and after marriage, the young wife gave birth to a son for him, making him a father again at the age of sixty.
However, Cheng Fangyuan has not made any new progress in her love life, and friends around her are asking her: "You have been divorced for so long, don't you plan to start a relationship again?" ”
Cheng Fangyuan shook his head and expressed his willingness to endure the pain of marriage anymore.
She didn't really hate Wang Gang, but she just felt that married life was not as she wanted.
In the eyes of the girl, marriage is a good time, and she herself has not tasted this taste.
It is not until you step into the palace of marriage that you will realize that although marriage is sweet, it will inevitably have countless sorrows.
After their divorce, they did not become enemies, but became close friends.
Every festive season, Cheng Fangyuan would bring gifts to visit Wang's parents, behaving like their relatives.
When the queen mother died, Cheng Fangyuan put down all the work he was doing and came to bid her farewell.
The 63-year-old Cheng Fangyuan is still alone.
Her friends around her have already ushered in the joy of being grandparents, and she spends time alone at home.
Whenever Cheng Fangyuan went home to visit his parents, they would always ask him, "Have you made any new progress in your relationship recently?" ”
She always answered "no", which annoyed her parents a lot.
Later, Cheng Fangyuan's mother was hospitalized due to illness. At the bedside, her mother said to her, "I want you to find happiness, and I don't want to see you alone and sad in the future." ”
Tears are in the square, but love can't be forced, it can't be actively found, everything still depends on fate.
As the years passed, she realized that her loneliness was growing.
There is not a single lamp in the world that is kept for oneself, and there is no one waiting to cook for oneself at home.
Occasionally, when she was lying in bed, she would think, "If only I could have a baby." ”
After the death of his mother, Cheng Fangyuan had only one relative left in the world.
She moved to her father's house and took care of his life wholeheartedly.
Her father often said to her, "I really raised such a daughter for nothing, but once I leave, you will be alone, what will you do?" ”
Cheng Fangyuan's eyes often turned red, and he listened to his father say something like this: "You are in good health, and you can accompany me for many years." ”
Although she can deceive others, she cannot deceive herself.
The idea of enjoying family reunion gradually germinated in her heart, but this can only be an extravagant hope.
Although she does not enjoy the happiness of her children and grandchildren in her later years like her peers, she enjoys the joy of her career when she is young, and she does not suffer from the pain of having children.
If life could be restarted, maybe she would make the same choice, after all, there is no regret medicine to take in life.
As long as you can feel happy and feel that your life is meaningful, then no matter what lifestyle you choose, it is good.
Cheng Fangyuan grew up in a literary family since he was a child, surrounded by people engaged in literary and artistic work.
Perhaps it was this background that inspired her great love for literature and art.
She pursues a realm, the pursuit of dreams and ideas.
Maybe this personality will be appealing, but at the end of the day, life should be realistic.
Falling in love is a good time, and marriage needs to be realistic.
Firewood, rice, oil and salt seem to be merciless in daily life, and they have destroyed the beautiful love in the hearts of many people.
She has achieved undisputed success in her career, but her misfit may have been the main cause of the breakdown of her marriage.
May Cheng Fangyuan be in good health and live a happy life in his old age.
May she find the one who is in tune with her. into a square circle