Tourism is the spice of our life, and it is the poetry and distance that many people yearn for, which can make us relax, broaden our horizons, and increase our knowledge. Our country has a vast territory, and in our lifetime, we must always go out to see the great rivers and mountains of the motherland. Looking at the mountains, the sea, the sunrise and sunset, and the customs of different places are all my ideal life.
Over the years, I have to travel several times a year, as the saying goes, no matter how good the scenery is, you need to share it with others, and it is very happy to have a good travel partner, but such like-minded people are often hard to find. Below, based on my experience from the past, I would like to give you a piece of advice, don't travel with the following 5 types of people, no matter how good the relationship is.
I work in a company, I have a few good hair, occupations are police, military officers, teachers, journalists, compared with them, whether it is economic conditions, or social and professional status, I am not as good as them, we usually have a good relationship, but after we went out in a group once, I will no longer go out with them. There are two reasons: one is that there is a large gap between wage income and them, there is a difference in consumption concepts, and the psychological impact does exist. The second is that they all belong to the scope of free tickets in scenic spots, and every time everyone fights to buy tickets for me alone, it feels really awkward. So, after thinking about it, I simply talked to them and agreed not to travel together again, and everyone understood and respected my thoughts. After that, everyone got together and became more emotionally harmonious, and there was more topic of conversation for drinking and chatting.
When I go out to travel, I always have the mentality of "coming and coming", cherishing the time during the trip very much, hoping to maximize the value of travel, so I always seize the time to visit the attractions and taste the food.
Once I traveled to Chengdu with a classmate, I was full of expectations for the journey every day, and I wanted to explore strange places with great interest, but she was like a castrated eggplant every day, no interest at all, it felt like spending a weekend at home, I didn't want to go out in the hotel, I was so anxious that I went out for a trip and came back She was still sleeping in the hotel, but what I didn't expect was that she actually asked me to order takeout together.
The reason why our behavior is very different is because we have different views and understandings of tourism, she prefers to be free, relaxed, how to be comfortable and how to come, while I want to know more about the scenery, humanity and food of strange places, she is not interested in these at all, so don't travel with people who don't have three views, no matter how good the relationship is, but would rather be alone.
Or the experience of going to Chengdu with my college classmate, she doesn't like to go out, she doesn't like to go shopping, and that time I made an appointment to travel together, just because she fell out of love and needed to find a strange place to relax.
When we arrived at the Wuhou Temple in Chengdu, she said that she was too tired and didn't want to go shopping, so she sat on the flower platform at the entrance of the scenic spot and waited for me, let me buy a ticket to go in, and just come out to find her after shopping, I felt like I was working together, and there was no fun of traveling at all. I saw Liu Bei's tomb in Wuhou Temple, and walked around, which made me very amazed, the cemetery could be so big, but I had no one to share and discuss. Therefore, when you go out to travel, don't go out with people who have too much physical strength, many times it may become a solo tour alone, and some have to take care of each other, and even more may be in danger of physical exhaustion.
I just went to Guangxi and came back, experienced the thrifty way of traveling, it is completely to go out to find guilt, as long as it is a project that pays for it will not participate, I can only not play, and I will not eat delicious things, I have to treat myself to eat, and I am not comfortable at all.
Once, I had breakfast in a restaurant with this friend, he was the first to finish eating, standing at the door waiting for me, and I also went out after eating, but the boss stopped me and said that I hadn't paid yet, I said my friend paid, and the boss said, "No, he only paid his", I was very surprised, I didn't expect such a good relationship with a friend, he actually divided it so clearly, I thought about the day before I invited him to have lunch, and he would pay for breakfast together.
Immediately, I found a reason, saying that we should go back, and went home directly, but I felt that I couldn't avoid it, and on the way back, he also asked me to calculate the expenses, saying that I owed him five dollars, and I immediately transferred it to him, and I didn't want to say anything else. So don't travel with people who are stubborn and calculating, even the AA system is a kind of mental torture.
Tourism is a kind of luxury, going out to travel food, clothing, housing and transportation have to spend money, if you want to have a good time, too frugal may not even be able to eat, then it is not tourism, but practice.
I went to Sanya with a friend last year to play, his living habits are very economical, to Sanya seafood is not willing to eat, water projects are not willing to play, the island is more decisive decision not to go, thinking about the cost of ferry tickets, accommodation and other expenses, although the journey is not suitable for extravagance and waste, but too economical to play well, eat bad, live badly, the journey is very unpleasant, I feel that the whole journey is very heavy, I didn't think about how to play, just think about how to save money.
It is not easy to choose a suitable travel companion, with the same interests and hobbies, little difference in economic ability, basically similar physical condition, and basically the same three views. People who do not have the above conditions go out to travel together, that is, they are not happy.