During the Spring Festival, the horn of the blind date sounded in the village again, the blind date for the Chinese New Year is not only a mental war for boys, but also a test of the wallet, most of the cases are the wallet is deflated, but the love is still not settled. How to chat with the blind date to get closer and make our blind date a beautiful encounter, here are a few small methods that you can use on a blind date.
The first trick is to speak quietly when communicating.
Because whispering is easy to produce ambiguity, if you are in a crowded place, you whisper to a girl, in the eyes of others, you are whispering, it is very much like a couple.
The second trick is to ask her how she feels when communicating.
If you are looking for a topic on a blind date, don't you ask, has your work been going well recently? Can you ask her if she is happy today? If a girl mentions something, don't you say it, do you need my help? Are you going to ask him if it's hard? Happy? This kind of communication is called concern and ambiguity.
The third trick is to change the way of communication.
When communicating, you have to change the negative to the positive, for example, when two people are communicating, you can make fun of yourself, you change me from not handsome to I am handsome, change me from having no money to change me to improve my ability to make money, change me from not being able to speak to coax girls, to I must be a good listener, as soon as you say this, your shortcomings will instantly become advantages, no matter how ordinary your conditions are, it will instantly make girls feel excited for you.
So when you go on a blind date, there are always more ways than problems, don't feel that the other party's conditions are very good, the gap between the two people is big, so you choose to give up and feel inferior, you don't try, don't work hard, there may really be no chance at all, but if you choose not to give up, hope is still there.