looked at the woman in the ** on the Internet recently, broke down and cried in front of her father, kept slapping herself, and cried while fanning: "It's okay, it's still a fart year!" As a person who has come over, I empathize.
This woman is a native of Henan, called Xiangxiang, her father has been sick for more than ten years, she has been taking care of her, with the increase of her father's age and the severity of her condition, now it is more and more worry-free, in the face of just changed clothes, sheets and covers, and was soiled again, her father did not cooperate, and beat her, I couldn't help but break down and cry.
I remember six months before my mother's death, bedridden, black and white upside down, sleeping during the day, not sleeping at night, due to stroke hemiplegia, urine and urine need to be pulled, and almost ten minutes at night to pull up to urinate, for this reason, I, my father, and my younger brother work in shifts, each for one night, and when it is my turn, I can only serve for the first half of the night, and my father will replace me in the second half of the night. I remember that my mother just lay down, and asked me to pull up to urinate, just fell asleep, my mother's stomach or chest was uncomfortable, let kneading and kneading, and hallucinations appeared in the later stage, often let me get up to turn off the lights and close the door, you don't get up, she always said that the lights and doors were not closed, or that she saw someone coming, talking, and was so frightened that she couldn't sleep at all.
Such nights often make me collapse, but I can only cry in my stomach, what can you do in the face of my demented and disabled mother? Looking at her innocent and aggrieved eyes, I just want me not to trouble my children like this when I am old, but who knows what kind of situation will happen to me when I am old?
After about two or three months, at the age of 45, I suddenly had no menstruation, until two months after my mother passed away, and I resumed menstruation. In fact, I, my father, and my younger brother are the most relaxed among the three people, my brother works hard during the day, and my father participates in one and a half nights for three nights, I work more easily, only serving in the middle of the night, but I am weak and can't stand the comings and goings, envy the body of ** Zhongxiangxiang, more than ten years like a day, I really don't know how she carried it.
Serving his parents, he can only cry and slap himself after despair, what else can he do?
Now some families can hire a nanny or foster care, but they must have a certain financial strength and the cooperation of their parents.
My dad is now disabled and not mentally demented, and it is better not to leave people, so he is facing the trilemma of fostering, hiring a nanny, and serving himself.
May the parents of the world be free of suffering, and may the children of the world live a happy and peaceful New Year!