The love story of Xin Baiqing and Zhu Yuanyuan is deeply touching and moving, and it is a true legend.
31 years of acquaintance and marriage make people have to think: what makes Xin Baiqing and Zhu Yuanyuan's hearts always closely dependent on each other in the polishing of time?
The first time the freshmen met, it was the opening season of the acting department of the ** School of Drama.
This is an important first gathering, where new teachers and students get together to introduce each other, which foreshadows the next four years of study life.
Zhu Yuanyuan is lively and cheerful, she soon formed the "Little Tiger Team" with her classmates Li Naiwen and Tang Xu, and the three of them are inseparable, often singing and dancing together, and rehearsing dramas.
Xin Baiqing is introverted and shy, and he doesn't like to talk much, but he often stares at Zhu Yuanyuan silently, his eyes are full of admiration and yearning for her.
The two have very different personalities, and they are destined to have a special relationship as soon as school starts.
Zhu Yuanyuan likes to make friends, is eloquent, and is loved by everyone; Xin Baiqing looks indifferent on the surface, but in fact, he is passionate inside, but he is not good at expressing emotions.
They gradually get closer because of their complementarity to each other, and over time they develop feelings.
In order to win Zhu Yuanyuan's heart, Xin Baiqing decided to disband the "Little Tigers" who were inseparable from her first.
At a party, he asked Li Naiwen lightly about Zhu Yuanyuan's conduct.
Li Naiwen and Zhu Yuanyuan grew up together, so they know Zhu Yuanyuan very well. He said that Zhu Yuanyuan has an optimistic and cheerful personality, kind and upright, which makes people involuntarily approach her.
After receiving the praise, Xin Baiqing plucked up the courage and asked Li Naiwen bluntly what he thought of his pursuit of Zhu Yuanyuan.
Li Naiwen and Tang Xu looked at each other and gave up the topic tacitly.
The shy and introverted Xin Baiqing successfully made Zhu Yuanyuan nod and become his girlfriend with an unexpectedly bold pursuit. That's it.
Since then, they have often walked hand in hand on the campus paths, talking freely as they walk, listening carefully to each other's ideas, sometimes laughing, sometimes arguing.
The bits and pieces of those green years left by these two people in the living room have now become their most precious memories.
As soon as Xinzhu confirmed the relationship, he faced his first challenge: the teacher's opposition.
Ms. Wang, Xin Baiqing's acting class teacher, is deeply worried about the phenomenon of new students falling in love at the beginning of their school year, because he believes that it can easily distract them and affect their normal learning.
He then approached Xin Baiqing, seriously discussed the negative effects of love, and said that considering his future, breaking up was a better choice.
Two young hearts could not heed these exhortations at all.
In the few days when Zhu Yuanyuan was separated, she burst into tears all day long, and she couldn't even eat a few bites; And Xin Baiqing was absent-minded in class, and his mind was full of Zhu Yuanyuan's crying appearance.
After a week, they found that they couldn't change their thoughts of each other, so they secretly got back together.
This time, Mr. Wang did not raise any objections again, because Xin Zhu's results were still firmly at the top.
One can imagine how torturous their brief parting will be, and what kind of joy they will have after reuniting.
Tempered feelings will become stronger, stronger than ever.
During his college years, Xin Baiqing's careful care for Zhu Yuanyuan was touching.
One day when Zhu Yuanyuan went out to film, she needed to get up early, but there was no hot water in the dormitory**.
Xin Baiqing stayed downstairs in the dormitory all night, lighting candles. At half past five in the morning, she was woken up by a knock on the door.
He carried her bag and put on his thin coat and trotted to get a taxi in the cold wind outside, fearing that she would catch a cold or be late.
The two once missed each other deeply when they were filming in other places.
Xin Baiqing decided to go to Zhu Yuanyuan's crew to visit the class.
Xin Baiqing waited for her all day, until she saw Zhu Yuanyuan's piles of dirty clothes and offered to help wash them.
He patiently dried, sorted carefully and washed his laundry thoroughly until a week's worth of laundry had been washed before leaving.
These tiny details embellish the campus love, outlining a youthful memory full of Xinzhu's poetry.
Reminiscing about the past, many years later, tears may still well-up in the corners of the eyes, because of the sweetness and uncomplaining dedication of the past.
Zhu Yuanyuan quickly made a name for herself in the entertainment industry with her excellent acting skills, while Xin Baiqing was successfully admitted to the National Theater and continued to hone her acting skills on the drama stage.
In the choice of spare time, they gradually developed distance.
Zhu Yuanyuan focuses on film and television drama work, with high work intensity, and likes to rest as soon as she goes home; And Xin Baiqing stayed in the Internet café almost every night, indulging in online games, often staying up late and sleeping until noon.
Zhu Yuanyuan persuaded him softly at first, then became serious, and finally developed into a quarrel.
Although Xin Baiqing self-reflects and promises to make amends, like many children who are addicted to the Internet, this promise is quickly forgotten in the night breeze.
For the first time, serious problems arose in the love lives of the two.
After a fierce quarrel, Zhu Yuanyuan was finally exhausted and tears rained down.
She expressed the opinion that I respect your habit, but it is taking a toll on our relationship.
Xin Baiqing finally realized the seriousness of the problem.
Finally one day, Zhu Yuanyuan used praise ** to successfully inspire Xin Baiqing's withdrawal game and start again, she sincerely appreciated Xin Baiqing's progress in returning home from the Internet café half an hour earlier than the day before.
She always gets the upper hand in an argument, and he prefers to make concessions.
Zhu Yuanyuan is eloquent when arguing, and she is often able to overwhelm Xin Baiqing.
She was always able to find out a lot of "incriminating evidence" and analyze what he was not one by one.
Her rebuttal made Xin Baiqing speechless and in a disadvantageous situation.
This is a communication barrier caused by the difference in thinking between the two people.
Zhu Yuanyuan is accustomed to stating her views in a logical and clear way, while Xin Baiqing pays more attention to perceptual cognition.
He realized that instead of obsessing over judging right from wrong, it was better to take a step back and understand the other person's intentions.
Whenever they had an argument, Xin Baiqing always waited for Zhu Yuanyuan to calm down, patiently communicated his thoughts with her, and finally reached a consensus between the two parties.
They have developed a unique way of getting along.
Zhu Yuanyuan is straightforward and stubborn, while Xin Baiqing is gentle and tolerant. The young couple often got into arguments, however in the end they were more understanding and trusted each other.
After thirteen years of love, the two officially registered their marriage.
Zhu Yuanyuan put forward two conditions, that is, not to beat people and not to have extramarital affairs.
She solemnly stated that this was the minimum she wanted as a wife.
Xin Baiqing nodded solemnly, and they exchanged rings in a simple ceremony.
Only a simple registration with the Civil Affairs Bureau was carried out, and no grand wedding was held.
The two finally had the time and energy to re-host their wedding reception after 8 years.
Perhaps for them, the true meaning of marriage is not embodied in the outward form, but in the feelings and inner emotions that have accumulated over many years.
Because they have the same heart and soul with each other, they are willing to support each other.
came the good news of Zhu Yuanyuan.
The first 100 days of pregnancy are particularly important, and Xin Baiqing resolutely canceled all work arrangements and stayed by his wife's side wholeheartedly.
Including a supporting role, in the domestic spy war drama "Latent", which later swept the country.
It was originally planned to star popular superstars Sun Honglei and Yao Chen.
The producer also specifically contacted the Xinzhu couple, hoping that they could co-star in order to increase the topicality of the film.
Zhu Yuanyuan saw at a glance that the script was a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity: "I read that character and knew how good it was. I also know what acting Yu Zecheng means to Xin Baiqing.
He knew that as a husband, the security he gave me was more important than anything else, so he didn't go in the end. Later, she sighed.
The birth of the daughter of this happy couple can be described as the best blessing from heaven.
Despite the loss of the cause, it was worth it because the most precious existence of life was gained.
Career: Work together again to move towards the peak.
Zhu Yuanyuan and Xin Baiqing re-devoted themselves to their acting careers when their daughter was about to go to school, and devoted themselves wholeheartedly.
In recent years, Xin Baiqing has frequently shined on the drama stage and film and television dramas; And Zhu Yuanyuan has also successfully attracted the attention of the audience, and has played a lot of roles in many popular movies.
She once again became a high-profile "national daughter-in-law", and her career is thriving.
The two still maintain a close relationship, which is the most precious.
Zhu Yuanyuan said with a smile that now Xin Baiqing can't coax her to go out, and just wants to chat with her at home and talk about daily trivial matters.
They used to be a bright couple on campus back then, but now they have gray hair and grow old together.
After 31 years, they have gone through countless ups and downs and borne too many good memories.
Under the pressure of career and life, many couples choose to divorce, but Sinjoo never gave up on the promise he made - I will always be there for you.
Faced with another question, what is the force that allows them to reunite even after separation, and to love each other again even after quarrels?
There is only one word that can answer this question: trust.
Both sides deeply understand that no matter how the external environment changes, each other's hearts will always be each other's home.
Even after going through the ups and downs of life, feeling disappointed and frustrated many times, they still firmly believe that they will eventually snuggle up to each other in the harbor of love.
This is the key to happiness shared by Xin Baiqing, Zhu Yuanyuan, and every loving couple.
Love is waiting for endless years. Zhu Yuanyuan