During the Spring Festival, the most important traditional festival of the Chinese, Guangxi woman A Ling took her daughter Xiaomei on the way back to her mother's home. Parents at home can't wait for their return.
On Chinese New Year's Eve, the house is filled with a strong smell of the New Year, and relatives and friends gather together to laugh and laugh. Ah Ling looked at her daughter beside her, but an indescribable emotion surged in her heart.
Mom, why didn't Dad come with us for the New Year? Xiaomei asked Ah Ling innocently.
Ah Ling forced a smile and gently stroked Xiaomei's hair, "Dad is very busy with work, and he will come to pick us up after the New Year." ”
On the second day of the Lunar New Year, a traditional festival to welcome the son-in-law. Ah Ling was wearing a bright red sweater and dark blue jeans, a casual and comfortable style, and her long hair looked younger and younger. However, her eyes were full of loneliness.
How can you sit here alone, your husband? An aunt in the village asked Ah Ling curiously.
Ah Ling smiled bitterly, "He's busy with work, so he doesn't have time to come." ”
Looking at Ah Ling's lonely expression, her father was distressed. He walked up to Ah Ling, patted his shoulder, and said earnestly: "Ah Ling, if you really can't get along with him, then just don't go over, it's better to leave, and come back with the doll to live together." ”
Ah Ling's eyes gradually moistened, she held back her tears, and said: "Dad, I have also considered this, but now that the child is still so young, let's talk about the divorce, and I don't want her to grow up in a single-parent family." ”
Ah Ling's heart is full of contradictions. On the one hand, she couldn't stand her husband's indifference to the family, and the contradictions between her in-laws' family were getting worse day by day. On the other hand, she worries that the divorce will affect her daughter's upbringing.
Ah Ling, you see, this divorce lawyer's *** may be able to help you solve the problem. The father handed a note to Ah Ling. Ah Ling looked at her father with mixed feelings in her heart.
Ah Ling's marital status has aroused heated discussions among netizens.
Ah Ling, your situation reflects the dilemma faced by married women, who have to pursue themselves while taking care of their families. You should be brave in your pursuit of your own happiness. A netizen left a message of encouragement to Ah Ling.
Another netizen said: "Divorce is not separated, mainly depends on the husband and wife in marriage." Don't talk about your child. ”
Despite the advice given by her father and netizens, Ah Ling still needs to choose between marriage and family. She is well aware that no matter which path she chooses, she will face challenges and difficulties.
Xiaomei, mom will always love you. Ah Ling hugged her daughter tightly, tears sliding down her cheeks. Ah Ling will continue to struggle in the quagmire of marriage and find her own happiness.
Write at the end:
The embarrassing situation that Ah Ling is facing is indeed very troublesome. However, for the sake of her daughter, she chooses to sacrifice her feelings and continue to endure a marriage that has already existed in name. For this choice of Ah Ling, we can only express our deep respect and understanding.
In married life, both parties should communicate and exchange in a timely manner, and do not accumulate infinitely because of temporary contradictions and conflicts, which will eventually lead to the breakdown of the relationship between the two and the breakdown of the family. After all, family is a person's warmest harbor, and we need to manage it together.
Ah Ling's choice, although distressing, also let us see the greatness of maternal love. She is willing to endure all the pain and pressure for the sake of her daughter.
While respecting Ah Ling, we should also remind her that proper communication and exchange may be able to change the current predicament and make her married life shine again.
In addition, we should also pay attention to Ah Ling's daughter, give her enough love and support, and help her grow up healthily. At the same time, let Ah Ling know that she is not alone and that we will always be by her side to provide her with strength and help.
In short, in married life, we need to understand each other, support each other, communicate in a timely manner, and avoid the accumulation of contradictions and conflicts. Only in this way can we build a harmonious and happy family and make our lives better.
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