Why have children, this is the best answer I've ever seen.
Why have children? This may be the best answer.
Swipe your phone before going to bed and see such a topic:Why have children?
When I saw this question, I instantly fell into deep thought. After thinking about it for a long time, I didn't seem to find a suitable answer, and after having a child, life became a chicken feather ......
Having children is for the sake of having joy in the early years, fireworks in middle age, and worries in the old age. ”
Every day after work, when I see my child stumbling towards me, all the stress and unhappiness disappear in an instant. ”
There are so many reasons not to have children, but none of them have a reason to have children! ”
Looking at the replies of netizens, think about my experience with a baby over the years. It turns out that the child is the happiest existence in a place of chicken feathers, and it is indeed hard to bring a baby, but it is also happy.
It is undeniable that modern people are more rational when it comes to marriage and childbearing. When I think that after pregnancy and childbirth, I may lose my shape, change my job, and take care of the baby full-time, many people have no confidence.
But everyone ignores one point: the appearance of children is not to change everyone's original life. Rather, I want to bring new joy to my life.
There will be many emergencies on the road with a baby, and you may face the risk of unemployment and the hardship of taking care of a baby full-time. However, on the way to grow up with the baby, you can gain more touches.
Just imagine: if everyone is afraid of marriage and childbearing, they are unwilling to have children. As a result, the problem of an aging society will become more and more serious, and perhaps in a few years, the number of new population growth will become negative.
Generally speaking, giving birth to children is to extend life, which is a tacit law that people have been understanding for thousands of years. Children are not only the hope of the family, but also the carrier of the society from generation to generation.
1. Emotional sustenance
Children are the emotional sustenance and destination of parents. As they grow up, their parents will also experience many beautiful moments, as if they are living all over again.
The first time I walked, the first time I called Mom and Dad, the first time I went to school, ......These moments will make parents feel endless joy and become the most precious memories of their life's journey.
For a family, the child is the best emotional bond, because he is the crystallization of the love of his parents. Many times, it is precisely because of the birth of a child that the feelings of the family are closer.
2. Self-growth
A netizen's answer resonates very much: Raising children is a process of self-growth.
No one is born to be parents, so parents also need to keep learning, progressing, and growing on the way to educating their children. It seems to be teaching children to grow up, but in fact, they have gained a lot.
Some people say that taking a baby is like upgrading to fight monsters, and there will be different problems every day. If you want to become a better parent, you need to keep learning and master more education methods to help your baby overcome many difficulties.
At the end of the day, not only do children become excellent, but parents become more mature and responsible. It's no wonder that others use the word "superman" to describe parents, and in the eyes of children, they are indeed omnipotent.
3. The old have something to rely on
In the eyes of many people, raising children to prevent old age is a particularly selfish idea. But in fact, it's not that everyone is selfish, but that they hope that when they get old, they can enjoy the joy of family.
Everyone has a time when they get old, and if they don't have children, they may only be themselves and their spouses all year round. If my wife leaves first, how difficult will the next days be?
Even if the child is mediocre and has no great potential. As long as they can occasionally make a ** and send a **, they can have a meal together during the New Year's holidays, and they feel very happy.
Isn't having children just about enjoying the joy of family? It's just that at different ages, the happiness enjoyed is different. But no matter what, as long as you are with your children, it is a priceless treasure.
Write at the end:
Whether or not to have children is everyone's right, and it cannot be forced to force them. After all, when a child is born, it is necessary to take on the responsibility of upbringing, and if you are not prepared enough, you should be cautious.
If you use one sentence to describe raising a baby, it must be "painful and happy". Indeed, there is a lot of unspeakable pain on the road to raising a baby; But in the same way, there will be many moments when the corners of the mouth rise unconsciously.
Having children is an unparalleled responsibility and obligation. To put it bigger, it is for social inheritance; To put it mildly, it is for family harmony.
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