Wen Cao Xiaowei
When I used to watch "Snail House", Seaweed's boyfriend Xiaobei was a person I was super sympathetic to, I thought he was kind and considerate and loved Seaweed, but Seaweed cheated on Song Siming, and I felt very worthless for him.
Now revisiting "Snail House", seeing that he and Seaweed can't even afford Häagen-Dazs for 25 yuan a ball, I suddenly understand why Seaweed cheated on Song Siming?
1.Xiaobei loves seaweed on the surface, but it is actually very picky
Xiaobei is a homely man, and the way he expresses his love for seaweed is to do laundry and cook for her, and go shopping with her.
This kind of life is very romantic for the ignorant seaweed.
In the play, Seaweed likes to eat Häagen-Dazs ice cream, but Häagen-Dazs costs 25 yuan for a ball, and Seaweed feels that 25 yuan a ball is too expensive, and every time the saliva is about to flow out, she can only swallow it back.
She told Becky that she didn't like to eat, or that the taste she liked was gone, so she took Becky and left.
But Xiaobei couldn't bear to make Seaweed sad, gritted his teeth and ran back to the store, hesitated for a long time and chose a strawberry-flavored ice cream ball, Seaweed was very happy to get the ice cream.
Seeing this, everyone will think that Xiaobei loves seaweed, right? In fact, Xiaobei seems to love seaweed, but it is actually very picky.
An ice cream scoop costs 25 yuan, and he is only willing to buy one, which is affordable for his salary as a programmer, and it costs 50 yuan to buy two occasionally.
But he only bought one, deliberately making the seaweed feel guilty, and the seaweed asked him to eat it together, but he didn't eat it, saying that as long as the little pig was full and felt heartwarming, it would be fine.
But the more frugal he became, the more Seaweed blamed herself, for she knew she had eaten another week's worth of lunch.
2.Xiaobei's economic strength is too weak, and he can only draw cakes
The life of Xiaobei and Seaweed is relatively poor, Xiaobei is usually reluctant to buy meat to eat, occasionally buy meat to eat, Xiaobei will only have one dish, and proudly told Seaweed: "Follow me to have meat to eat." ”
Not only that, Seaweed wanted to watch a movie, but Xiaobei said that movie tickets were expensive and wasteful, and he bought a lot of pirated discs and watched them as much as he wanted.
Seaweed said that she wanted the atmosphere of eating popcorn and watching the big screen, but Xiaobei coaxed Seaweed to lie on the bed and hug each other, how comfortable and warm it was.
As soon as Seaweed mentions money, Xiaobei will draw cakes for her, saying that he wants to save money to marry Seaweed home and save money to buy a wedding house.
Later, Seaweed asked him to lend 60,000 yuan to his sister, but Xiaobei didn't borrow it, and Seaweed directly cried and said that he would mortgage himself to Xiaobei and be a cow and a horse for him, but Xiaobei still didn't borrow it.
Even if Seaweed ran out crying and ran away from home, he just calmly pulled Seaweed home and made her burst into tears.
3.Xiaobei's ideological vision is too low to withstand Song
Xiaobei is just an ordinary office worker, not self-motivated, he keeps his salary frugally every day, but he can't open source.
He spends his time after work playing games, which he thinks is good.
Every time seaweed encounters a problem and asks him to solve it, he can't pay attention to it, and he can't change anything.
Either he persuaded Seaweed not to meddle with his sister's affairs, or he lost his temper and said that Seaweed was unreasonable.
And Song Siming is different, he has a successful career, mature and steady.
Every time Seaweed borrows money or encounters a problem with her sister, Song Siming will not only lend her money without hesitation, but also listen to her tell her sister's story.
Later, when he heard that his sister was under pressure to buy a house, he immediately introduced her sister to the work of a foreign teacher, and even her sister wanted to rent a house, but he didn't say a word and gave the villa for her to borrow.
Xiaobei picks and vegetables, Song Siming is powerful, golden and gentle, how can seaweed not be tempted?
Sanmao said: If youIf you can't give me a lot of money, you have to give me a lot of love
Seaweed's life is sad, and she is wrong not to pin her happiness on men.
Girls, when looking for a significant other, you must keep your eyes open, don't be moved by small favors such as serving tea and water and buying supper, and you must find someone who can walk side by side with you.
Of course, the important thing for girls is not men, but to be strong, only when they are strong can they have the right to choose, and they can not be passive in the relationship between the sexes.
Just like Dong Qing said: "It's better to rely on anyone than on yourself, this is the safest." ”
Hello everyone, I'm Cao Xiaowei, a worker in the post-90s system, chasing dramas and writing to heal yourself after work, I hope the text will inspire you.