01 Separation may be good.
In this world, each of us has many relationships, whether with friends or family. Our relationship is like a network, and these networks reach different culminations.
We will know so many people in this world, but there are so many people, and not everyone will stay in our world.
Some people will choose to leave, and some people will choose to stay with them forever, and your choices are actually their own decisions, and we don't have to care too much about other people's decisions.
Since someone else has made a choice, they want to leave you, and they don't think it's worth it to be with you, so why should we dwell too much on these things?
They already feel that we are not worth it, so why should we put ourselves in a sad situation all the time? A lot of times, in fact, being separated can be a good thing for us.
For example, in a special relationship, two partners are noisy and noisy every day, making each other feel tired.
After reconciling, they started to quarrel like they did at the beginning, so what is the meaning of the existence of this relationship?
You always believe that you are in a difficult run-in period, so you always give him patience.
I always expect him to change, but he doesn't actually do that, because he doesn't really care about you that much.
Since we are in such a relationship, we consume each other, it is better to choose to separate as soon as possible.
02 Gone through this difficult period.
We know that we will feel very sad for each other during this time of separation.
This kind of sad and sad feeling is also understandable by many people.
Because we all go through several such relationships in our lives.
Some people may be in a state of stumbling in their emotions all the time.
This difficult time is called difficult, and it is also because we have a lot of reluctance in our hearts.
We had agreed to go to the place we were going to and never went again, and we made an appointment to meet the next time, but we never saw each other again. We always think that there is a future for each other, but when we reach a certain end, we really never see each other again.
But let's not be overly sad and go through this difficult period.
Even if you're in a state of anxiety right now, even if you can't sleep all night, even if you're feeling like a knife in your heart, don't look back.
Your frequent turning back will only make him feel as if you care about him very much, and you will always make him think that you can't live without him.
Then he will use your care as a kind of bargaining chip.
All kinds of unreasonable demands, as well as all kinds of behaviors that make you sad, he will continue to give you something.
Now that we have made up our minds, let's not always look back.
03 Divert attention.
When we feel really sad inside, we need to learn to find our own interests in order to divert our attention. For example, to earn more money, to add an economic foundation to yourself, and to give yourself a better life.
Or learn some other skills to make yourself stronger, which is also a great way to distract yourself. Or do something you didn't dare to do before, and it's also a chance to give yourself a chance.
As long as we can get ourselves out of this sad situation, then we can do some of these things.
Don't always focus on one thing, after all, there are so many things around us, and you should always keep an eye on this one thing.
In fact, in life, we will find that in our free time, we always think about things and things.
Or when we are in a busy period, our hearts, including our bodies, will be surrounded by other things.
So keeping yourself busy is also a way to save yourself.
04Find someone to talk to.
Although we often say that if we have a problem in our heart, we should not always find someone to complain, because this will bring negative energy to other people.
But sometimes it is really difficult for us to open our hearts and persuade ourselves to become cheerful, then we can also find some familiar friends to confide in our inner thoughts.
Because emotions are generally digested internally, but if we can find a correct exit, it is also a good way to dissolve our emotions.
Some people can indeed come up with some right solutions for you.
And these people can also be an important trigger for a turning point in your life.
So when we really can't bear these pains, we can also go to some friends to confide in our hearts. Don't always feel how bad it is to bring negative energy to others, how unhappy your heart is.
In fact, when others look at you in such a sad state, others will also feel very worried about you.
So when our hearts can't dissolve these emotions, we can try to find some outlets.
These outlets are not only up to us, but also to be appropriately dependent on others.