01.
Liu Fang walked out of the door with her things in her hand, but she was still a little apprehensive in her heart.
Why? Because she is at this time, she still has some expectations for her husband in her heart.
She wished that her husband could keep her, but her husband didn't.
She hopes that her husband will say that if she wants to go back to her parents' house, the divorce he said is fake, and she hopes that it is just angry talk.
It's not so much that she is gambling now, but that she is gambling on her husband's conscience and her husband's feelings for her.
After a year of married life with each other, no matter how you say it, there are feelings.
But I didn't expect that when I returned to my mother-in-law's house, in just a few days, they quarreled several times, and they said a lot of hurtful things every time.
Liu Fang is indeed too sad.
In addition, tonight, it was obviously a Chinese New Year's Eve dinner, but they didn't wait for her to eat directly, which obviously looked down on her and disrespected her.
Although she doesn't earn as much as her husband, she at least earns money.
Why do their in-laws look down on her so much?
The cold wind outside was whistling, and the wind at night was especially cold, but Liu Fang's heart was even colder.
Her tears were like a river bursting its banks, rushing endlessly, as if she was about to cry out the tears of the first 20 years.
It hurts, my heart really hurts.
Liu Fang turned on the flashlight with her mobile phone, took two steps to light the road ahead, and looked back again, but she didn't see her husband coming out to look for her.
This time, she was completely chilled.
She endured the pain and walked forward.
The trail is a bit rough, but fortunately it is all paved with cement.
It takes about 3 minutes by car to get to the outside road, but it takes 20 minutes to walk.
She cried as she walked, and called her mother a ** as she walked.
Truth be told, although it is not unsafe to walk this way this way in these years.
But after all, it was a mountain road, and she was still a little scared.
The mountain in the distance is so dark that you can't see the top of the mountain, surrounded by bamboo forests, a large number of bamboos on the right, and a mountain road on the left.
It is a winding mountain road.
She endured her fear, and could only move forward slowly, step by step.
After walking a little distance.
She called her mother's **.
The other side quickly picked up: "Hey, Fangfang, have you eaten?" Tonight's Chinese New Year's Eve dinner there is rich, right? This is the first time this year that you don't eat at home, and your dad and your brother and I seem to be a little uncomfortable.
When you celebrate the New Year on someone's side, remember to know something, don't do no work at all, you know how much you have to do......”
Mom was still in ** with all kinds of greetings, Liu Fang listened to it, and suddenly couldn't help crying.
Frightened, Liu's mother hurriedly asked, "Girl, what's wrong, why are you crying?" Isn't it too homesick? Or is something happening? ”
Liu Fang still didn't speak, just cried breathlessly.
Mom continued to ask, "What the hell is wrong with you?" Have you been wronged? Hurry up and tell Mom? If you're not used to staying with them, will your parents come and pick you up tomorrow? ”
Liu Fang cried and cried, and slowly finally stopped crying, she calmed down her emotions and was finally able to speak well.
Mom, I want to go back now. ”
Okay, you can come back if you want, what's the matter, let's go home and talk about it, I'll let your dad drive you to pick you up now, okay? Liu's mother comforted.
Liu Fang said again: "Okay, Mom, you let Dad come along the road, and I'm going out to walk now." ”
Liu's mother was worried, and told her anxiously: "This can't work, why do you have to go out now, their house is in the middle of the mountain, you come out now, how dangerous it is to walk at night." If it's Lu Hui who accompanies you to take it, it's okay, you don't have to go by yourself, just wait at home and wait until your father comes to pick you up. ”
Liu Fang had no way to deceive her anymore, so she could only say, "Okay, I know, then you tell Dad not to worry, drive slowly." ”
Mother Liu hung up with confidence.
After hanging up**.
Liu Fang's heart was finally not so scared, she continued to walk, and now her mood is a little better, and she is finally able to walk a little more normally, a little faster.
It took a while.
Suddenly, a car came in ahead.
Liu Fang hurriedly retreated to the side.
The car passed her slowly, and when it came to her face, it suddenly stopped.
Liu Fang started the faint light of the flashlight and saw the people in the car clearly.
She just wanted to speak, but the man spoke first: "Liu Fang, it's so late, why did you come out by walking at night alone?" Isn't it the Chinese New Year? What about Lu Hui? Why isn't he with you? Are you going to live in the town? ”
Liu Fang was very embarrassed and said: "No, I just went out and had a little thing, so I came out."
Why are you so late? Shouldn't they all have eaten Chinese New Year's Eve? ”
After eating, I'm going to pick up my girlfriend now, and I'll send her back tomorrow. ”
When Liu Fang heard this, it suddenly dawned on her, the man in front of her was Lu Hui's cousin, a 35-year-old young man, if it couldn't be talked about again, the uncle and his family would be in a hurry.
So, she glanced at her cousin's girlfriend next to her, smiled politely and said, "Sister-in-law, my brother is still good, be happy and sweet." ”
The sister-in-law smiled sweetly: "Thank you." By the way, you're going to town, and if you walk from here to **, it'll take at least 10 minutes, do you want us to drop you off? ”
Liu Fang hurriedly refused: "Forget it, I can go by myself." There's still a little way to go.
Go back, go back early and rest. ”
The cousin said; "Okay, then you stay safe. Liu Fang responded with a hello.
Then the cousin was ready to start the car, and when he started the car, his girlfriend said a word; "Your brother is really relieved that she walks alone at night, her heart is really big. ”
Although the voice was very small, she Liu Fang still heard it.
Her heart tightened again.
Yes, my husband is so relieved to let her walk alone on such a night road, and it is a mountain road, which is remote and difficult to walk.
If it were an ordinary man, he had been worried for a long time, how could he let his wife walk alone at such a night?
Forget it, ordinary men can't even keep their wives when they see their wives angry and want to leave, such a man is not without a heart, but his heart is no longer in you.
Otherwise, a man who doesn't love you anymore will see you off if he knows that you have to leave overnight, and that you are walking such a mountain road, and he will give you a send.
The more I think about it, the more sad I feel, the more I think about it, the more I feel sad, and the more I think about it, the more it hurts in my heart.
So, she really loves the wrong person.
remembered that when she and her husband first met, she felt even more sad in her heart.
At that time, Liu Fang was already a 27-year-old single young woman, her parents were very anxious, and even her relatives were very concerned about her during the Chinese New Year every year, and persuaded her to find a reliable man to marry, and if she continued like this, she would be almost 30 years old, and after 30 years old, it would be troublesome.
As for her husband, he is still one year older than him, with an annual salary of 250,000, a height of 1.83 meters, and a middle-class appearance.
The conditions are pretty good.
They were introduced to each other by others, and this is the condition, and they were urged by their parents to let her meet.
When we first met.
Liu Fang didn't have any hope, so she just casually wore her usual clothes and passed.
And Lu Hui, he carefully cleaned up.
At the first sight of him, Liu Fang was a little tempted.
Because my husband is a little handsome, and he is the kind of handsome Korean male protagonist.
So, she never thought that such a handsome man, with an annual salary of more than 200,000, would be single to almost 30 years old.
She even regretted that she didn't dress up in a special way, otherwise she would have added more points.
Who knows, as soon as I sat down, my husband said, "You're quite real, I think it's good." ”
Liu Fang smiled embarrassedly: "Huh? What did you say? Authentic? What do you mean? ”
Lu Hui smiled and raised his eyebrows to look at her: "That's it, you actually came to meet without makeup, do you care so much about blind dates?" ”
Liu Fang was a little embarrassed to explain; "That's because, I'm really too busy, I just got out of class and came in a hurry, I didn't think of it, you wouldn't mind, right? ”
Lu Hui smiled: "Don't mind, don't mind, you are like this, I think it is more real."
Most of my previous blind dates came to meet with heavy makeup, so I didn't have a particularly big impression of them. ”
Liu Fang thought in her heart, this man should have been on a blind date a lot, but why did he delay it for so long and not get married?
But she didn't ask, she was just curious: "You should have talked about girlfriends before, why haven't you been married yet?" ”
At this time, Liu Fang obviously caught a trace of frustration and panic in her husband's eyes.
After a pause, Lu Hui said: "That's the case, I talked about three girlfriends before, but because they are all more realistic.
It is the kind that requires a lot of bride price, starting from hundreds of thousands.
In addition, I also need a house and a car.
So later, because of various disagreements, they broke up. ”
This explanation is indeed a bit far-fetched.
It stands to reason that Lu Hui's monthly salary is more than 20,000 yuan, so the bride price of more than 100,000 yuan is not much.
A year's salary is enough.
But why was it so difficult in his eyes?
At that time, Liu Fang took a fancy to Lu Hui in her heart, not only because of his appearance, but also because of his honesty.
She selectively ignored the bad ones.
For example, if you talk about a girlfriend because of the bride price, it is understandable, but why are all three because of this problem?
And if it is really a girl he likes very much, if he wants to marry, he will earn more than 200,000 yuan a year, even if he grits his teeth, he can pay this part of the money.
Why won't he come out?
In the final analysis, even if you don't have so much money, you just don't want to give it, and you are reluctant to give it.
So, his love is not so deep.
However, he doesn't care about his girlfriend who is in love freely, how can he be so concerned about a girl who is on a blind date?
It turns out that his scum is traceable.
But Liu Fang just didn't care at the time.
After the two met, Lu Hui would greet Liu Fang on WeChat from time to time, and Liu Fang always responded enthusiastically.
In this way, two older single men and women chatted back and forth on WeChat, chatting about their feelings.
Later, I made many appointments to watch movies, eat, and go shopping.
Slowly, the two people really came together.
Liu Fang has never been in a relationship before, but she had a crush on a boy in high school and college.
But I didn't confess after graduation, so I missed it.
Later, when she came out to work, she concentrated on the teacher exam, and after being admitted, she worked very hard to improve her teaching ability and various problem-solving skills.
Later, I met several blind dates one after another, but none of them were eye-catching.
And Lu Hui is the only object she has a crush on.
fell in love for the first time, of course, she had no hesitation.
Ever since she had feelings for Lu Hui, she has been thinking about marrying him wholeheartedly.
Even at that time, Lu Hui always shirked with various excuses, saying that he was in the rising period of his career, but he didn't want to get married so soon, and he wanted to talk for half a year more.
However, Liu Fang refused.
Coupled with the persecution of both parents, Lu Hui was willing to put marriage on the agenda.
However, when it came to the bride price, Lu Hui insisted that he could only give 50,000 at most, and he would not give any more.
And Liu Fang felt uncomfortable at that time.
Because my parents said that in their place, basically the bride price starts at 80,000, and 50,000 is a bit less.
Especially a man like Lu Hui, who has an annual salary of more than 200,000 yuan, refuses to even give a bride price of 80,000, which is more or less unreasonable.
So, Liu Fang communicated with him many times, hoping that he would promise to give a bride price of 80,000, and it doesn't matter if the house is not bought, as long as the bride price is enough for this money, then she can take out her own savings to bear it.
But he couldn't do it even if it was asked.
Liu Fang was very conflicted at that time, on the one hand, she really wanted to marry Lu Hui, but on the other hand, seeing that her husband was unwilling to give in at all in this aspect, her heart was also very tormented.
At that time, they also quarreled a few times because of the bride price, and they all said some hurtful things to each other.
Especially Lu Hui, he said: "If you have to ask for so many dowries, then let's break up, I won't marry a fishing girl, I'm like this, marriage is a matter of love, I didn't want to get married so fast."
It's you guys who keep putting pressure on me. Now that I have agreed to get married, you have to force me to take out so many bride prices, to be honest, I don't have that much, even if I really have it, I don't want to.
If you can't accept it, let's break up. ”
Liu Fang was very sad, but because she loved him, she compromised, the bride price was only 50,000, and Sanjin still paid part of the money herself.
At that time, she was really naïve, how could she not suspect that her husband's annual salary was so much higher than hers, why didn't she save money?
This also laid a mine for getting married.
Later, there was a quarrel over the money for the banquet, Lu Hui refused to pay the money for Liu Fang's banquet, as well as the red envelopes for his relatives and other things, all of which refused to be paid, as well as the money for the clothes of the bridesmaids and groomsmen and the money for the hotel where he lived.
The wedding was notified to relatives and friends, and Liu Fang had no choice but to compromise step by step.
Bumpy bumps.
Finally, under her pleading and compromise, Lu Hui and her held a wedding as scheduled.
After getting married, Liu Fang realized that her husband really had no money.
Although his annual salary is very high, it seems that he failed to start a business before, and he owes a lot of debts, almost millions.
Since then, I have been paying off debts, paying debts, paying debts.
When he got married, Liu Fang did not know his property status.
At that time, he said that he would not buy a house for the time being.
But Liu Fang's parents always feel that getting married and not having a house is equivalent to drifting.
In this case, parents are not at ease.
So, he finally took out 150,000 yuan to Liu Fang and them.
It is said that it is a random loan to buy a set, it does not need to be very large, as long as it is enough to live.
So, Liu Fang took the 15,000 to marry and married willingly.
The names of the two people are written on the house, and Liu Fang's provident fund is used to repay the loan after marriage.
In the past, Liu Fang always felt that she was not good enough for her husband, so after getting married, she would respect him in many things and accommodate him in various ways.
Knowing that his work is busy and tired, even on overtime nights, he will never rush him.
Knowing that his personal hygiene habits are not very good, she only takes a bath once a week in winter, and she does not force him.
However, these are the habits of personal life, and Liu Fang naturally didn't care too much.
Until she found out that her husband's monthly salary didn't seem to be enough for him to spend.
Even though most of the family's expenses are paid by Liu Fang, her husband still has no money, and sometimes he asks her to give a little.
At that time, she felt strange, why the monthly salary was so high, and her husband had no money at all.
Later, under repeated questioning, my husband admitted that he owed a lot of money before, so almost all of his salary was used to pay off the debt.
Even so, he owes a lot now.
At that time, Liu Fang just felt that she had been deceived.
Before getting married, her husband didn't confess to her, although she now knows that she still owes more than 400,000 yuan, but Liu Fang is also very panicked.
It was the first time since getting married that Liu Fang had a big quarrel with her husband, and this quarrel made her really tired and tired.
But later, after learning from the pain, her husband will not invest anything indiscriminately now, and she still goes to work steadily, and her own salary is stable.
So, in addition to paying off the mortgage and various living expenses every month, she will give her husband an extra 3,000 yuan so that he can pay off the debt as soon as possible.
During that time, her husband was a little more enthusiastic about her, mainly in housework and married life.
Liu Fang feels that her husband is a very grateful person, so life is still quite happy and happy.
I just didn't expect to go back to my mother-in-law's house for the New Year in the first year.
Her husband ignored her like that.
As a result, it has become like this now, and even when she wants to go back to her mother's house on Chinese New Year's Eve, her husband does not keep a word.
Even if her mother-in-law repeatedly asked her to take out 200,000 to repair the house and study for her nephew, her husband did not help her, but persuaded her to be generous and not to care so much.
Actually, isn't the answer obvious?
Her husband doesn't love her at all.
A year of married life, but because she helped her husband pay off her debts, her husband was enthusiastic and respectful of her.
But now, the debt is almost over, and I go back to my in-law's house.
My husband began to help his parents.
In front of his parents, he insulted her and proposed to divorce when he walked out of the house.
So, what else can Liu Fang expect from him?
Perhaps, he has always been a selfish person, he doesn't love himself, let alone any of his previous ex-girlfriends, he is a selfish person at heart.
It's just that Liu Fang was covered by his huge light before, and he also has a filter, but now she is treated indifferently like this, she jumped out of the role of this wife and loving others, and she suddenly woke up.
Lu Hui, a phoenix man, is not worth all that women pay for him, because he has reservations about every girl.
And financially, even if he had, he was reluctant to provide it.
Liu Fang actually fell in love with such a man.
Fortunately, the two of them don't have children yet, so they can stop the loss in time.
Finally, just as she was reminiscing, her father's car stopped in front of her.
The moment Liu Fang saw her father, tears fell again.
Girl, why did you come out by walking alone at night so late? What about Lu Hui? Tell me, what is that kid doing? Did he bully you? ”
Liu Fang opened the car and sat in, the windows were closed, isolating the cold wind outside, and it was a lot warmer all of a sudden.
Dad, don't mention it, let's talk about it when we get home. ”
No, why did he bully you, you have to go home overnight? I'll go settle accounts with him now. ”
Liu Fang wiped her tears; "Dad, don't say it, don't go, I don't want to see him now. ”
Father Liu knew Liu Fang's temperament, so he could only rely on her and turn around and go home.
Back at home, neither mother nor brother had slept yet, and the family was waiting for her.
Mom didn't say anything, just hugged her gently.
And the younger brother also hugged him.
Later, Liu Fang cried and intermittently explained the general process.
After finishing speaking, his father and younger brother were very angry, and they wanted to go to Lu Hui to settle accounts now, but they were stopped by Liu Fang.
The family discussed the divorce.
Although the names of both parties are written on the house, most of it is paid by Liu Fang's side.
In addition, the mortgage was also deducted from her, and the expenses after marriage were also paid by Liu Fang.
If there is a lawsuit, Liu Fang still has a little more reason, and the house must be fought for.
In the end, a common opinion was reached, that is, the house belonged to Liu Fang, and the car belonged to Lu Hui.
Each of them is responsible for its own debts.
Liu Fang knew that she had suffered a loss in this marriage, and she also dragged down her parents and caused some loss of her family's property.
But there is no better way now, and a divorce is necessary.
Unexpectedly, Lu Hui naturally disagreed.
The next day, on the first day of the new year, he came in the dust.
His temperament softened, and he admitted his mistake again, hoping not to divorce.
But Liu Fang is sober, she doesn't want to be entangled with such a man, the only thing she is fortunate about is that the two of them don't have children yet, at least the damage can be minimized.
Later, the discussion failed, and Lu Hui refused to divorce all the time.
If he wants to divorce, he must be compensated by Liu Fang 400,000 yuan before he is willing to give up the house and divorce by peaceful agreement.
At this point, Liu Fang finally saw this man clearly.
She roared at the lover in front of her who had been with her for a year: "Lu Hui, if I still had a little love for you before, then since you asked me to compensate you 400,000 yuan like a bloodsucking mosquito, I have no feelings for you at all."
You've made the little love I have for you disappear. ”
Lu Hui was also furious: "You don't think I'm a philanthropist, since you are determined to divorce, then of course I want to fight for my greatest interests."
Although the down payment is from you, the names of both parties are written, and the house is bought after marriage, and I also have a share.
If you don't give 400,000, don't think I will sign the divorce obediently. ”
Father Liu looked at this handsome son-in-law who was neatly dressed and scolded; "You are shameless, calculating the money to the pillow man who paid you off your debt for a year.
You're really not a man. ”
Lu Hui scolded: "I'm not a man, are you?" I can't teach you a lesson. ”
Then it was the younger brother and his mother who kicked Lu Hui out of the house.
The divorce matter will not be resolved for a while, and Liu Fang can only find a lawyer.
Then she printed out all the year's running waters, and all her income was used to pay off the loan and family expenses.
He also gave evidence of her husband's premarital debts.
provided all the evidence he knew, and directly sued for divorce.
It is not yet the date of **.
However, this time, Liu Fang will never be stupid again.
She is very resolute, even if she never meets her lover again in the future, she does not want such a partner.
This kind of blood-sucking husband and in-law.
She really can't afford it.
This marriage was wrong from the beginning.
Therefore, Liu Fang will not let it continue to be wrong.
In communication with the lawyer, the lawyer said: "You can rest assured, according to the evidence you provided, 80% of this divorce case is won by you."
Don't provoke him now.
You can wait for the ** in March. ”
Liu Fang thanked him, and she also believed that she would definitely win.
However, even if she didn't win, she would divorce this marriage.
There are some wrong marriages, there is no need to stick to them.
For the rest of her life, she just needs to love her parents, her family, and herself.
Definitely won't be relentless.