First of all, I would like to state a point of view: if you can avoid suffering, try not to suffer hardship.
Who doesn't want to be born with mountains of gold and silver?
However, as ordinary people, we have some bitterness, which cannot be avoided, and some bitterness, so we must eat it early.
I remember when I watched the TV series "Dream of Red Mansions", Mrs. Jia said: Bring that child quickly, don't bluff him. The children of small families are all pampered, and they see this powerful faction there. If you bluff him, it's strange and pitiful, won't his old son and mother panic in pain?
When I heard this at the time, I always felt **weird.
Later, I understood that what she mainly meant was that the children of small families are also the hearts and minds of their parents, so don't scare him ......
However, today, I agree more with her superficial meaning, that is, some children from small families are likely to be more pampered.
I once saw a migrant worker father who was dressed in tatters, but his daughter forced him to buy a new mobile phone.
I also saw a **, a half-grown boy beating his mother for what he wanted.
There are many more ** on the Internet, and you can see the idea that "both parents are evil".
My first reaction was that these children were too spoiled by their parents and should suffer some hardship.
However, what their parents didn't teach, when they enter society, society must teach them.
Let's talk about us ordinary people, we are not born with a golden key, we can only fight ourselves in the future, and hardship is an indispensable link.
First of all, suffering makes us stronger. Just like building muscles, every hardship is a workout that makes our hearts stronger and stronger. Think about it, when we overcome difficulties and complete a difficult task, is that sense of accomplishment incomparable?
Moreover, enduring hardship can also make us cherish the sweetness of life even more. If you live in a honey pot all day long, how can you experience the taste of happiness? Only after experiencing hardship will we know how to cherish the hard-won beauty.
It's like when you study hard and finally get good grades, the joy of that moment can't be expressed in words. Or if you work hard and finally get a promotion and a raise, that sense of accomplishment will make you feel that all your efforts are worth it.
In addition, enduring hardships can also develop our perseverance and patience. In the face of difficulties and setbacks, do not give up easily and persevere to the end.
In conclusion, I would like to say that enduring hardship is not about suffering for the sake of suffering, but about making us stronger and capable of gaining a foothold in society and making our lives possible for the better.