The ambiguous period before falling in love is like looking at flowers in the fog and the moon in the water, beautiful and hazy, which makes people happy.
However, this stage is also fraught with uncertainties, with some people getting through it smoothly and others getting lost in it.
Until 01 o'clock.
The emotional state of detachment is just like the poet Rabindranath Tagore said: "The farthest distance in the world is not life and death, but I am standing in front of you, and you do not know that I love you." ”
In this relationship, the relationship between the two parties is sometimes close and sometimes distant, making people's emotions go on a rollercoaster ride.
The ambiguity has its own unique charm.
In this subtle distance, the attraction to each other will become stronger.
It's like the classic verse: "Distance produces beauty." ”
The ambiguous relationship is like the autumn leaves, sometimes fluttering in the wind, snuggling up to each other, sometimes being blown away by the wind, and running to each other.
This emotional state of imminence and detachment keeps their hearts hanging in the air, both longing to be close and afraid of being hurt.
02 I want to talk about it.
The emotional state of wanting to say goodbye keeps their hearts hanging in the air, both eager to talk and afraid of rejection.
Every encounter is like a well-arranged drama, they convey each other's hearts with eyes and smiles, but they never have the courage to say it.
They wander in their respective worlds, thinking of each other, but they are unwilling to take the initiative to break the veil.
They are afraid of losing that special tacit understanding, and they are afraid that once they say it, everything will not be good.
So, they chose to maintain this ambiguity and enjoy the sweetness of their hearts.
03 How to do it.
Ambiguity is to indulge in the past, you have to find some topics to talk about every day, as long as he replies to your message, you don't have to respond to him for everything, and you can even delay the time of replying appropriately.
Let him feel that anxiousness while waiting, so that he will pay more attention to your news.
Don't wait to get back in seconds, it will make you look like you've been idle all day and overly attentive to him.
In this case, every time you appear and disappear, you leave a mark in his world.
If your social circle is pure and simple, you may want to post some updates once in a while, accompanied by vague but evocative copy.
If you are the kind of person who doesn't post news all year round, you can set only him to be visible when sharing**, so that he can inadvertently discover your careful thoughts.
In the course of the chat, you can show care and attention to him appropriately, but not too enthusiastic.
After he gets used to your presence, suddenly keep a distance for a while, so that he can experience life without you.
This kind of indulgence will make him cherish the time with you even more.
Remember, love is like a game, and if you want to win, you have to master the right sense of proportion and learn the art of indulgence.