February 4, Zhangjiajie, Hunan. The two children provided free hot water for the stranded driver, the boy hung "free ** hot water", and the girl hung a fee*** which attracted the attention of netizens.
On February 6, the child's sister Ms. Luo said that the hot water is absolutely free**, and many women are inconvenient to go to the toilet, and they are also responsible for guiding, **because the family is originally a small business of village vendors, all of whom are farmers, and some of the rice cakes are free, and some are sold for 2 yuan apiece.
I was originally a military wife, I can't do things with a bad conscience, there are too many people blocked, everything that can be taken out at home can be released, and some of the people who collect money only charge the cost price, and the family pays salaries to younger brothers and sisters to encourage them to help others.
Not only that, in this disaster, there was a traffic jam on the highway in a certain place, and the people in the car were hungry and cold, and a villager carried a basket of instant noodles on his back, and soaked it with boiling water, selling it for 10 yuan a bucket. Unexpectedly, some people are too expensive, and the yin and yang say cool words:The store only sells 35 yuan a barrel, now sitting on the ground and selling it for 10 yuan, it is really profitable and lacks morality.
It's cold, people carry dozens of 100 pounds of things and run so many roads, and the thing sold can be said to be too much to continue life, and a bowl will earn you six yuan, is it too much?
Even if one person even brings water and noodles, it is not easy to carry fifty bowls, and he can't earn much. For those who are trapped at high speed, don't count on hot instant noodles, if there are no surrounding villagers, the water source is not available, and the taste that can't be bought with money is uncomfortable. Think about the breakfast on the train for 20 yuan, just porridge and pickles with a boiled egg, instant noodles for 10 yuan a bucket you have to soak yourself, and you think that others are good to make and sell for 10 yuan expensive?
Recently, the news of free rescue of villagers around the "disaster area" of the expressway has been very loud, some say that the villagers "go door-to-door" to send hot water to the car owner, and some say that the villagers use hanging baskets to deliver food to the overpass driver, and the theme of "free" is written in a big book. There is a suspicion of local performance: look! We have a high quality of people here and provide rescue free of charge.
There is great love in the catastrophe, and we must give recognition to those who provide free help to those in need. But thisIt also forms a moral kidnapping for those villagers or traders who sell thingsWith the act of giving away for free, many people use moral standards, values, etc., to impose their own opinions, wills, or attitudes on others, and deprive them of their free will and the right to choose. Such behaviour is disrespectful of the autonomy and diversity of others and violates the principles of individual rights and dignity. Under the guidance of such values, who can have the "strength" to rescue for free? Who wants to volunteer?
Those who eat noodles save their lives, those who sell noodles support their families, and those who are too expensive cherish their money. We should avoid using moral kidnapping to force others to accept our point of view. On the contrary, communication and dialogue should be conducted in a rational, friendly and equal manner, respecting the choices and positions of others, and jointly finding compromise and consensus. In this way, positive, healthy and respectful social relationships can be established. In the face of disasters, we must seek truth from facts, and only by basing ourselves on reality can we truly solve problems and help the trapped people tide over difficulties.