I'll tell you about the "benefits" of "not getting married"!
First of all, you can live alone without getting married, and you don't have to worry about whom.
Clause. Second, if you don't get married, you can have a fantasy about "love" or a fantasy of "purity and innocence"; For example: "You hold hands and hold hands" is not interesting. Love and innocence remain only in "fantasy".
Clause. 3. Love is mutual, you have to pay for others, and you always have to look at other people's faces; Moreover, women have a lot of "things"! "It's always endless"; Moreover, with trivial things, how can there be so-called love? It's just a day for everyone to cook. "Troubles are greater than sorrows."
Clause. Fourth, it is better to maintain a little "mystery" in many things. For example, a woman's mouth, a woman's **, a woman's body, ......, once you see "not precious". So, I'd better keep my "virgin" nature! Or is it better not to kiss, not to be affectionate, not to touch? It's like "left hand touching right hand".
Clause. Fifth, and love is "selfish", or "the relationship between men and women is "self-reliant"? For the longing for love or physical contact, they will give up a lot of things. For example: innocence, friendship, simplicity, narrow-mindedness, selfishness, ignorance, ego, chance encounters, elegance, generosity, unity, independent thinking, language skills, ......; In short, with love, a woman will give up a lot of things.
Clause. Sixth, everything will be "born without bringing death and not taking away", in the end you will find that "you have pursued" half a lifetime "", as if you have not gained anything, but you have fought with others for a lifetime, or it is called: "I have fought with the people around me for a lifetime" and "I have been fighting for a lifetime"! Or to put it more clearly: "Many of us live for a lifetime" is to compete with ourselves, fight with ourselves, and even compete with the people around us, and fight with the people around us.
Clause. Seventh, it's not good to have children. I have been worried about him since I was born, and I get more happiness than sorrow! Moreover, I am afraid that he will fall ill and "die". From childhood to adulthood, people have not worried less, looking at the child always feels that he is a lot older, and the burden on his body has also sunk a lot! "Losing oneself has fulfilled others". The so-called marriage and having children is "done for others to see". Maybe the suffering in my heart can only be experienced by myself, maybe it is suffering and being happy.
Clause. 8. As for when you are old, who will think of whom? Will you still think about your children? They don't know what they're doing? Or will you still have time to think about them? Does that only mean that you are selfish? This also exposes the purpose of you giving birth to them in the first place!? Therefore, no one should think about it when they are old, lie in bed and "meditate", is "raising children to prevent old age" is our original intention and ultimate goal! Do we live in a society of the times of quick success? Will our children be true to us? When we open our eyes when we are dying, will we be "at peace"!? After a long day, we lived to "wait for the moment of death"!
Clause. 9. I have a lot of brothers and sisters, two sisters and an older brother, and cousins, cousins, and cousins. Besides, I still have a little bit of money and some insurance!? It doesn't matter if there is no human touch, even if it is "left to fend for itself", it is quite "good". It's a big deal to be like Yang Kang when he leaves: "roll a mat" and slip away. Come in a hurry, go in a hurry, hate to meet. As Xu Zhimo wrote a poem: "I came gently, just as I walked gently, I waved my sleeves and did not take away a cloud"!
Clause. 10. I have loved and hated, and I have also tasted the pain and sorrow of life; I also know that life is not easy, and I have also experienced the prosperity of life; A life and a way of living without attachment and nostalgia may be more suitable for me.