Posthumous photo, graduation photo of life.
When it comes to death, it is always heavy, although each of us will experience it, although it is not very far away from us, and it is not very close, but we all know in our hearts that we will face death sooner or later.
When we are young, sometimes when we are extremely emotionally broken, we will have the idea of suicide, as if there is a feeling of sudden enlightenment, thinking that people will die sooner or later, and it is the same if the people around us shout and cheer, many people will really leave this world.
But such a departure is very irresponsible, he left in style, and the relatives he left behind lived in the shadows for the rest of his life, with endless thoughts, and kept living in memories.
When we reach old age, we seem to have suddenly come to our senses, begin to cherish life, and are very afraid of death, so there are people who sell health care products, and they want to try it, in case they can live a few more years if they eat it.
As the terminal gets closer and closer, I don't want to go, and just thinking that I am leaving this world will have a feeling of sadness.
However, after all, we still live more and more transparently, we know that we can be afraid of death, but we can't avoid death, so the sudden rise of the profession of taking posthumous photos of the elderly in the countryside has caused a very heated discussion on the Internet.
Some people think that these photographers are crazy about money, and the money of the elderly in the countryside is not spared, and how unlucky it is for the living to take posthumous photos.
However, some people believe that many elderly people have little opportunity to take pictures in their lives, at least take a beautiful posthumous photo when they are alive, so that they can leave a better memory for their families.
There are many people who are healthy one second ago, and suddenly die of cerebral infarction the next second, and some people are suddenly found to be seriously ill, and then they have been tormented by the disease, and they want to take a beautiful posthumous photo, but they have no chance.
Seeing the old man taking posthumous photos on the Internet, some netizens commented like this, she said that her mother died, because she didn't take a posthumous photo, so she chose her mother to travel ** as a posthumous photo, but when she went to get **, she saw that people were grandparents' posthumous photos, and she would feel too sorry, if her mother could also live to the age of these grandparents.
You see, there are a lot of regrets in life, and the death of others has nothing to do with us, but if you change your loved ones to leave, you will have endless sadness, as long as you think of the fragments of your memory, you will burst into tears.
The departure of loved ones is not a temporary storm, but a lifetime of dampness, many people are not afraid of death, but they are afraid of memories, because they will never see each other again, and they can no longer speak.
Compared with some netizens who think that it is unfortunate for a living person to take a posthumous photo, another part of the netizens are very optimistic, thinking that the posthumous photo is a document photo registered in the prefecture, and it will be shown to the ghost after going down, so it is natural to take a beautiful photo.
So what does the old man think?
The smile on the face of many old people when they take posthumous photos is bright, except for the ** no color, but they themselves like it very much, there are old people to show the children, the children feel black and white ** is very scared, but when the old man is really gone, and then look at the gentle smile and kind gaze on the **, but it is so touching, I am glad that the old man took such a **, otherwise it will ......Otherwise, how can you always remember and remember.
In fact, in addition to taking posthumous photos, many elderly people in the last days of their lives, in order not to cause trouble to their children, began to prepare for their future affairs early.
From the selection of shrouds to the purchase of the cemetery, they arranged the things after their departure clearly and properly, they have a deep love for their children, raising children all their lives, and they don't want to add a little burden to their children, and they don't want their children to suffer even after they leave.
Some elderly people even explained in advance which restaurant their children would go to eat after their deaths, because that restaurant was the most delicious.
I'm out of this world, but I want you to eat well and be happy, because I can't cook for you anymore, my child. ”
Therefore, how can people who have not left miss it from time to time?
Because in this world, there is one less person who loves himself unconditionally.
In the past, when the camera was not popular, the old people had no conditions to shoot, and now everyone has a smart camera, taking pictures is no longer a luxury, but the old people use the elderly machine, and our young people's lenses, there are mountains, rivers and flowers, that is, there are too few ** for their relatives.
When many old people leave, they don't even have a ** that can be used as a posthumous portrait.
Therefore, if there is still a chance, use your mobile phone to record your relatives, you may not feel it at the time, but in three or five years, when you look back at the time, you will see that the people who love you are slowly and quietly aging, and you will find that time has already left a mark in the years, for us to remember and miss from time to time.
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