At the wine table, the leader asks you to raise a glass of wine and toast the guest, and the person with low emotional intelligence answers "yes", and the person with high emotional intelligence responds like this.
Hey, wine table culture, this is an unfathomable science, even more complicated than those interstellar wars. You think it's as simple as a toast and a toast? Ha, then you couldn't be more wrong! The mystery in this is more difficult to fathom than the mechanisms in those ancient tombs!
It is said that on a sunny evening, Xiao Li attended a banquet on behalf of the company. The leader waved his hand casually during the banquet, just like the spring breeze in the landlord, "Xiao Li, you come, give a toast to the guests." "It's a trick job, and there's more inner drama in Xiao Li than in Hamlet.
Xiao Zhang, who has low emotional intelligence, may respond mechanically with "yes" at this time, and then, like a robot, walk straight over, raise his glass stiffly, and toast stiffly, making the atmosphere colder than an ice cellar.
However, our Xiao Li is different, he is the kind of person who can waltz at the wine table!
Xiao Li smiled slightly, and walked forward with light steps, with three points of enthusiasm, three points of respect, and four points of humor. He raised the glass of wine, not simply as a toast, but as a vivid play, and every action was full of meaning.
Leaders and guests, I am fortunate to be able to drink this cup with you at this table today, which is really a blessing for three lives. Xiao Li's voice was like hiding a box of chocolates, sweet to the heart.
This glass of wine is not only a tribute to you, but also an expectation for future cooperation. May we, like the wine in this glass, become more and more mellow after the brewing of time. Xiao Li's words not only amused the listeners, but also made people feel the sincerity and expectation.
After Xiao Li finished toasting, the guest almost didn't crush the wine glass in his hand, because he had never seen such a good talker. The leader was also full of joy, and thought to himself: "This kid, it's not simple!" ”
This is the charm of emotional intelligence, you see, a glass of wine, not only the wine is drunk, but the heart of the person is also won for you. It's like a boat sailing in a sea of wine, not by rowing, but by the wisdom of the pilot.
At the end of the dinner, everyone remembered Xiao Li, because he didn't just toast, he toasted a kind of art, a kind of wisdom of life. It's not simply "good", it's about bringing out the best in yourself.
So, you at the wine table, do you want to be the Xiao Zhang who can only respond mechanically, or the Xiao Li who can waltz at the wine table?
There is no impermeable wall in this world, your emotional intelligence is high, early in the evening, the kind of beautiful moment that can make people forget the troubles of the day. Xiao Li, an ordinary soldier in the workplace, is facing a big test at this time - how to deal with the sudden roll call of the leader at the company's annual dinner and toast the guests with a glass of wine.
People with low emotional intelligence, faced with such a situation, may mechanically answer "yes" and then move their steps stiffly, like a soldier executing orders, lacking naturalness and agility. However, this is talking about a response with high emotional intelligence, so what kind of scene does it have to be?
Xiao Li, he knows, this is not just a toast, this is a dance, a performance, a game about workplace wisdom and interpersonal communication. He stood up, and with that smile that was neither grovelling nor overly ostentatious, he walked toward the guest.
Ladies and gentlemen, it is a great honor for me to be here with you on such a night. At the beginning of Xiao Li's words, they were as gentle as the night breeze, which warmed people's ears.
He picked the wine glass in his hand, the movement was unhurried, revealing a kind of confidence and calmness, "This glass of wine is a tribute to you, but also an expectation for future cooperation." May our collaboration become more and more fragrant and mellow as time goes on. ”
Xiao Li's words are like a delicate embroidery, which not only has the delicacy of the pattern, but also loses the flexibility of the fabric. His eyes, his gestures, and his every word are silently conveying respect and expectation.
The guest was a little overwhelmed by this toast, he was used to those simple and direct "cheers", but he did not expect such a wonderful prelude. The colleagues around him were also dazzled, thinking that this Xiao Li would shine tonight.
After the dinner, everyone dispersed, but this scene at the dinner became a topic of conversation after dinner. Xiao Li's emotional intelligence not only allowed him to shine on this small stage, but also invisibly increased his weight.
Emotional intelligence, sometimes that's it, doesn't say much, but every sentence said must be just right; Not much has been done, but every step must be solid and steady. Such a person, no matter how he goes, can be like a fish in water, and he can become a bright spot in the crowd.
So, what would you do if you were in such a situation? Is it a simple "good", or can you turn a simple toast into a wonderful performance like Xiao Li? It's not just a matter of a glass of wine, it's a game of wisdom, it's the art of life.