500 Words Introduction: Home is everyone's first home, and parents are the closest people. However, some people experience a different kind of pain and depression in this warm place. Ignorant parents are like a mountain, silently suffocating their children. This article will delve into the painful experience of having a stupid parent, and how to face and grow up in this environment.
Parents' ignorance and dominance have brought a heavy burden to their children's growth. When children need love and support, they are confronted with the ignorance and dominance of their parents, as if they are imprisoned within a high wall. I experienced a toothache once, but my parents misunderstood and ignored me until the toothache got worse to the point where it was unbearable, and they reluctantly took me to the doctor. This feeling of incomprehension and unsupport made me feel lonely and helpless.
Expansion: In this environment, children often hide their pain and difficulties, fearing ridicule or blame from their parents. They have learned to endure alone, to find a ray of light in the dark. Parental dominance often prevents children from making their own choices and decisions, their opinions are ruthlessly suppressed, and individuality is stifled. This kind of restraint makes children's minds bear a huge squeeze, and for a long time, it will make them feel inferior, anxious and even depressed.
Communicating with ignorant parents is often a challenge who are stubborn and unwilling to listen to their children's opinions and ideas. Every communication is full of contradictions and conflicts, as if it is impossible to find a point of resonance with each other. As I have experienced firsthand, every time I communicate with parents, they always have preconceived notions that it is the fault of their children and are unwilling to understand and support them.
Expansion: Poor communication leads to tension and alienation in family relationships. Children crave to be understood and supported, but their voices are often not heard in the presence of ignorant parents. Parents' reprimands and criticisms are like a sharp blade that hurts children's fragile minds and makes them closed and vigilant. Poor communication also exacerbates estrangement and misunderstanding between each other, making the family an indifferent group that lacks warmth and affection.
The stubbornness and reluctance of parents to admit mistakes make children feel helpless and hopeless. When children try to point out their parents' mistakes, they are often met with strong backlash and accusations, making them feel that they are unable to change and influence the status quo of the family. Sometimes, parents' self-esteem and face prevent them from facing up to their mistakes, like a high wall that isolates their children from the softest part of their hearts.
Expansion: Parents' stubbornness and inability to admit mistakes often lead to deadlock and indifference in the family. Children crave the understanding and support of their parents, but in the face of their parents' dominance and stubbornness, they can only choose to remain silent and resigned. The self-esteem and face of parents have become an invisible barrier to communication and understanding between each other. Children crave apologies and corrections from their parents, but parents often let them down and despair.
Summary: Having stupid parents is a suffocating feeling, and their ignorance, dominance, communication barriers, and inability to admit mistakes make children feel lonely, helpless, and confused in the family. In the face of such difficulties, children need to learn to be strong, self-reliant, and strive to grow into an individual who can support and fulfill himself. Foolish parents will not forever restrain their children's development, as long as their children can strengthen their hearts and strive for true happiness and growth, they will eventually be able to come out of the shadows and have a bright future.