Is a man truly in love with you, or is he playing with your feelings? When a woman decides to play her hole cards, she must observe them carefully.
There are many men who can really pretend to be the lover of your dreams, to get close to you, to satisfy you. If you simply think that he has fallen in love with you and easily surrender to him, then you will definitely suffer in the end.
Feelings are often not as simple as you think, and the interaction between men and women may start from the heart, or it may have been planned for a long time.
Of course, it's not that a man is really that good and can do it seamlessly, so that you don't see that he's half wrong. The key is whether you look at him from a different angle, whether you just listen to what he says, or whether you look at what he does.
Generally speaking, men will treat you like this, just flirting with you, not sincerely.
1.As soon as you are in trouble, he disappearsSuch men, when everything is going well and glamorous with you, will surround you, bring you flowers, send you home, and even pluck the stars in the sky for you.
However, once you are in trouble and need his help and support, he suddenly disappears from your world like a magic.
Such men, their love is only on the surface, and what they love is only the smooth sailing you, not the real and difficult you. They are afraid of trouble and are afraid of taking responsibility, so once you get stuck, they will choose to run away.
Such a man is obviously just flirting with you, not really falling in love with you.
2.Reluctant to spend too much money for you
Although money can't be everything, to a certain extent, whether a man is willing to spend money for you or not can indeed reflect how much he values you.
If a man is always calculating with you and has to calculate every penny with you, then it is likely that he does not really love you, but is just flirting with you.
A man who truly loves you, he will be willing to give everything for you, including his time, energy, and money. He will give you a special gift on your birthday, take you to a good meal when you are lost, and don't hesitate to lend a hand when you need help.
The man who is reluctant to spend money for you, he will only cry poor in front of you and find all kinds of excuses to avoid paying for you. Such a man obviously doesn't have a real heart for you.
3.Promises made to you are almost never kept
Some men will make all kinds of beautiful promises when they pursue you, so that you are full of expectations for the future.
However, when you really need him to make good on these promises, he always has all kinds of reasons to shirk them. Such men, their promises are just sweet words used to make you happy, and they have no real meaning.
They may not really want to be with you, but just enjoy the process of pursuing you and enjoying the feeling of being in control of you.
A man who truly loves you, he will do what he says, and he will prove that his love for you is sincere with practical actions. He will remember every word you say and will be there for you when you need him.
The man who only says that he won't do it, and doesn't fulfill his promises, is obviously just flirting with you.