To be a man, you must understand that relying on yourself is the last word!As a human being, you can't rely too much on others. While we can seek help from others, we must learn to be independent and learn to be on our own. It's their duty that others don't help you;Help you, it's their affection. Therefore, you should not just think about relying on others. In life, we need to have the ability to think independently and deal with problems in order to move forward better. If you have been relying on others, then you will never be able to truly live your own life, because there are some life experiences that you can only bear by yourself, and no one else can replace them. Don't be afraid to make mistakes, don't be afraid to fail, because only by experiencing it can you truly understand the meaning of life. Let's step out of our comfort zone and discover the true meaning of life!
Bitter, eat yourself;Tired, you can only experience the suffering of life, and the fatigue of life can only be borne by yourself, which is inevitable. When you are penniless, you need to learn to be self-reliant, work hard to make money, endure hardships, face them bravely, not be afraid of fatigue, and move forward firmly. Don't complain, and don't complain. As long as you have tenacity and will, you will be able to overcome life's difficulties and move towards a better tomorrow. If you just want to make money easily and happily, then it can be difficult to achieve your goals. People need to understand that making money is not an easy task and requires hard work and sweat. Most importantly, however, we must ask ourselves if we are physically and mentally exhausted or just mentally exhausted. Only then can we truly understand the importance of making money. No matter what difficulties you encounter, no matter when and where, no matter how hard you work, you must learn to rely on yourself and bear the hardships with your hands. Only in this way can we find joy in pain and feel happiness in exhaustion. Only in this way will a better life await you. 
Difficulties to overcome by ourselves In life, we will always encounter various difficulties. However, in the face of difficulties, you can only overcome them by yourself. As you overcome difficulties again and again, you will feel your own growth and you will find yourself stronger and stronger. The path can be challenging, but it's the process of forging strength within us. So, don't be afraid to face the difficulties, believe in yourself, and go and climb that mountain, and eventually, you will find that the peak is not that high. Difficulty is the best way to hone us. No matter how great the difficulties we face, we must show our inner courage and determination to fight against them. Even if we fail in the end, we should feel guilty. Because every setback we go through is designed to make us stronger, harder-working people. Only through the wind and rain can we overcome all difficulties and have a glorious future. Don't rely on others, meet your own challenges and overcome your own difficulties. Only then will you be able to climb to the pinnacle of life. Don't hold back, move forward, only your own efforts can bring real results. Don't let fear and worry stop you from moving forward, believe in yourself and you can be the best version of yourself. 
Happiness, to strive for oneself, to be a man, you must know how to pursue your own happiness. Happiness is not a gift waiting for you to give to yourself, but it needs to be pursued with your heart. If happiness does come directly to you, how can you really cherish it?Only happiness earned through personal struggle can make you truly feel its value. So keep moving towards the happiness you desire!Happiness, it's not far away, but it needs to be fought for by ourselves. If you don't show your heart to someone you love, you may miss the opportunity forever;If you aspire to have something, you have to work on it, or it may never be yours;If you want to succeed, you can't stop fighting, otherwise your dreams will just come to naught. Therefore, let's actively move towards happiness, seize the opportunity, and work hard to achieve our dreams. It is an unavoidable reality that everyone needs to strive for happiness on their own. If you don't strive for it, happiness will move further and further away from you. But as long as you put in the effort, you will find yourself closer to happiness even if you don't end up being happy. After all, happiness is not far away from us, and we only need to work hard for us to feel its warmth. 
In life, we must rely on ourselves to walk more solidly. Only we are the most reliable and reliable, because there are many things that only we can rely on. In the suffering, you must bear it yourself, and in the exhaustion, you can only face it yourself, and others cannot replace it;When facing difficulties, you have to overcome them on your own, so that you can become more courageous. In the same way, happiness is not in front of us, but must be taken by ourselves, so that we can truly reap the harvest of happiness!May you be positive and optimistic and have a good time!