At the beginning of man, nature is good.
Including the education we have been given.
It is also to be kind and simple.
But does it mean that we have to show the good side of humanity in the face of everyone?
Apparently not! 
There is such a saying in the market:
If a person is too honest, he will be bullied!
What does it mean to be an honest man?
In fact, it is too kind and has no principles and bottom line of its own.
When others trample on you, your choice is not to resist, but to endure.
Excessive kindness will make the wicked want to bully you more and more, resulting in tragedy!
The coat brother Zhu Zhiwen is a good example.
Zhu Zhiwen is an ordinary farmer in Zhulou Village, Guocun Town, Hezeshan County, Shandong Province.
Relying on his good voice, he became popular all over the country.
Like any other farmer.
Zhu Zhiwen is kind-hearted, always happy on his face, and rarely blackfaces.
After becoming famous, Zhu Zhiwen lent out a lot of money.
I thought the villagers would be grateful for his kindness.
The result is: in the eyes of the villagers, Brother Dayi is a cash cow.
I can't spend that much money at all, so I borrowed money just to help him spend it.
It is precisely with this kind of strange thinking.
As of now, more than 10 years have passed.
Brother Dayi still has more than a million to come back.
Around 2016, Brother Dayi opened its doors to receive fans and villagers.
It was supposed to be a good thing for win-win cooperation, but it turned out to be a nightmare for him and his family!
Why do you say win-win cooperation?
It's very simple, villagers can make money by shooting short **.
Brother Coat can gain popularity with a short **, increase his value and the number of performances.
This situation lasted for several years.
The villagers and fans did not touch Brother Dayi's bottom line.
It can be developed with the rapid development of the new era.
This thing has completely changed its taste!
Now, almost every day.
There are outsiders in Zhulou Village, from the beginning of Heze other towns.
Later, other cities in Shandong, and then to the current Shannan and Haibei, all over the country.
After there are more people.
Anything can happen.
People who count on filming Brother Coat can't see Brother Overcoat.
began to force their way into his home.
There are those who kick the door, there are those who climb over the wall, and there are those who take advantage of the coat sister-in-law to open the door and drill into it hard.
Once these people enter the door, they don't come out easily.
Recently.
There were a lot of uninvited guests at the door of Brother Coat's house.
They didn't come to shoot a short **, but to "ask for help" from Brother Coat.
In the past, when people borrowed money, they were all carrying gifts and were polite.
Nowadays, people borrow money, take nothing, and have a very tough attitude.
These people who ask for help are not young people, but middle-aged and elderly people, most of whom are in their seventies and eighties.
The reasons are also varied:
I'm sick and don't have money to see a doctor.
The child is getting married, and the family can't afford the bride price.
The business failed, and I hope that Brother Dayi can give some money to make a comeback.
It is worth mentioning that these people don't want two jujubes, they often want hundreds of thousands, millions.
It gives people the feeling that this is not to ask Brother Dayi for help, but to ask for an account!
The average person faces this situation.
The first time was a mild attitude, saying that he would not borrow or not.
If you have too many times, you will choose to call the police, or turn to conquest.
Because they do not have the responsibility and obligation to help the poor.
As for Brother Dayi, he has never taken any measures to let this situation develop.
Just recently, the coat sister-in-law was targeted by the old man who borrowed money as soon as she walked out of the alley.
put the words "you must give me 1 million, otherwise I won't leave".
The coat sister-in-law didn't say anything.
Get up and leave.
It can be seen that the coat sister-in-law is used to this kind of life, and the only thing she can do is to "ignore it".
If anyone does not offend me, I will not offend, but if anyone offends me, I will offend.
This is our attitude toward the wicked.
Brother Dayi doesn't want to offend passers-by, we can understand.
But if you blindly tolerate it, it will only make your family's life miserable.
Brother Coat