The union between me and my husband can be regarded as a tortuous adventure. Seventeen years of ups and downs, there is sweetness, chickens and dogs jumping, and more is that the blood between relatives is thicker than water.
My husband and I met at a small time. We met when we were in the second grade of elementary school, and we played together. Later, when I went to junior high school, the children in many nearby villages were concentrated in one middle school. We are in the same class, he is so small, and I am the kind of big sister, I think he is very funny, so I treat him as a little brother. At that time, it was also a revolutionary friendship. In the three years of junior high school, the estrangement and suspicion between the middle school students such as you and him are not good with me, and you speak ill of me have led us to the road of enemies. It is no exaggeration to say that they are enemies, because whoever sees them will not only not speak, but will also turn their heads to the other side and turn a blind eye.
In the winter of 1997, he went to join the army. The night before leaving, he threw a farewell party and asked our classmates to ask me to attend. Thinking that others will become the People's Liberation Army and go to the border to defend the motherland, we can't go without the pattern, and follow our friends. Before I went, I bought a diary with a combination lock, thinking that I would go to a place where I was unfamiliar with my life, and I could pour out my lovesickness when I was homesick. That night was his highlight moment, full of friends, friends, eating and drinking, all practicing for him. Because the contradiction in my heart has not disappeared all these years, I just sit in the corner far away. In fact, I hoped that he would come to my table, and I sent him two parting words. But people didn't care about it at all. The next day, the devil sent him and his brothers to the house they rented, and when he saw that the diary I had given him was still in the house, I was angry and I tore it up, because since I didn't need it, why keep it. Later, he sent a letter back from the army, which was a letter written on a piece of paper in an envelope. I was very disappointed about this, after all, we used to have such a strong sister-brother relationship that the family wrote me a separate letter. Since then, they have cut off contact.
In this flash, it was the winter of 2001.
In other words, some fate is destined in the dark. One night, I had a dream about him: at our school, he and I came head-on, and one of his sleeves was empty. I'll admit, I panicked. So, I asked my classmates for his address and wrote him a letter about the dream, but I didn't hear back from him. During the winter vacation, I went to my house to visit my family, saying that he had replied to me, and also explained why he didn't bring the notebook I sent when he went back then, because the army was not allowed to bring those things. Although I was still angry in my heart, I was relieved a lot. My anger is mainly due to the fact that the relationship was so good when I used to be a sister and brother, but in the end, because of other people's records, the gossip relationship was so stiff.
Since then, we have released our previous suspicions, passed on the book, and opened the days of the letter to the heart. In the summer of 2003, it was time for him to go home to visit his family. It was also that summer, when I had my birthday, he bought me a big bag of food to send to my house, and took me to a restaurant in town to celebrate my birthday, which was unprecedented for me when I was in college. Then, I heard my best friend call ** and ask me for candy and say that I was already someone else's girlfriend ......Because people haven't said these things to me, it's hard for me to refuse. Later, because of the confessions of other old classmates, he confessed directly, and I also had the mentality of "hurting no one can hurt the heart of a PLA", so I promised him to try ......
So we tried, and in the early summer of 2005, we got engaged; On New Year's Day 2006, we entered the palace of marriage. In January 2007, the eldest daughter was born; In July 2007, he recovered; In September 2012, the second child was also born. At this point, our lives have been completed.
Seventeen years, from the incomprehension of the separation of the two places, to the current mutual consideration and affection for relatives, although there is also noise, there are chickens and dogs, but this is not life! May we continue to walk hand in hand through the next 17 years, and the next 17 years ......