Today, I want to say a word about the character Le Ying in "Hot and Hot" created by Jia Ling. In fact, as far as the movie itself is concerned, there is not much to watch. If this person is not the well-known fat Jia Ling, the fat Jia Ling, even if the actress in the play is still a fat person, even if she really loses 100 pounds, she may not be able to have such a shocking box office effect. You say that she is over-publicized, the film is just about a fat man**, she can't eat grapes and say that grapes are sour. What I want to talk about today is:What kind of women should we be in this day and age?
1. Please save yourself again and again
Why didn't Le Ying and Jia Ling arrange a home for her in the movie? If it is really arranged, then Jia Ling's ** will not care for herself, but will be called pleasing men, and she will not truly love herself.
Does a woman's destiny have to be a man? Do you need to rely on men to realize your worth? Times have changed, and in this era of fragmentation, if you believe in men, or believe in others, it is doomed to be a tragedy. Your fate will always depend on others, but the direction of people will always be to loneliness. Even if you do meet a good partner, in case he gets sick when he gets old, can you be reliable? What if he leaves before you? Children? Will your children be there for you all the time? No.
When you are weak, even your parents and brothers may look down on you. In the name of your good, they dictate your life, like a bad critic, like a preacher who stands on the moral high ground.
Therefore, neither men nor women can pin their hopes on anyone. If Le Ying's final fate is to arrange a home that belongs to a man, then she has no own. We should never ignore human nature and over-glorify love and family affection.
In this era of fragmentation, ** is always there. If you look at the women who are full-time housewives, or who go all out to support their husbands' careers, they seem to fit the positioning of good women, but are they really happy? There are no chips and they can be replaced at any time. If a man doesn't divorce, it doesn't mean that he still loves, it may just be too much to replace you, but it doesn't prevent him from betraying you.
What's more, in this world, you can't live only on family, friendship, and love. When you don't have money, all the affection, friendship, and love will expose the ugliest side of human nature. If you are good for it, it is good, and if you are not good for it, it will be the best for it.
I once met a woman, about thirty-five or sixteen years old. The reason why she came to study English was because she was calculated by the person next to her, and the other party took out a loan in her name, and then wanted to embezzle the house she bought before marriage. As a result, this woman was too weak, and the divorce was not only a clean house, but also a dishonest executor, the WeChat account was frozen by the court, and the tuition fees were paid in cash.
At that time, she also signed up for a private lesson to learn yoga**. In fact, when I looked at the woman, she looked very pitiful with her beautiful face, soft and weak, gentle and gentle. I asked her about the purpose of learning yoga**, and she said that she still wanted to get married, and wanted to make herself more beautiful and beautiful. As soon as I heard it, I felt that women didn't love themselves, and they pinned all their sustenance on new men. Such a woman, at best, is just another scum. What a man is like depends on how you are. What's more, why pin your life on a person who has nothing to do with you. In this way, your fate is completely led by the nose by others.
2. Except for money, nothing in this world can save itself
Why is it that on the fifth day of the Lunar New Year, many people are worshipping the God of Wealth, and no one worships Yue Lao? Is it because people don't want love? No, it's that this thing is too illusory, too fleeting. Because today he can love you, tomorrow he can love others. Don't kidnap a person with morality, you can't fight against humanity. Morality and responsibility can't make you happy, but you can love yourself.
Even if Yue Lao helps you find a lover, what can you do? Are you not strong yourself, are you with a salaryman? When he soars one day, you are basically cannon fodder. Never believe in the love of the people at the bottom, and don't believe in those so-called emotional values. Because the other party has nothing but poverty, so he can only use emotional value to serve tea and pour water to please you.
What's more, even if a person is really a peerless good man, most likely just a man who can lick dogs, he can't be a person with a successful career. Without gold, do two people live on boiled water? All good things need money. For example, if you are sick, it can't cure all diseases, but money can.
In this era of insatiable desires, don't expect good, you have to think about any and all possible bad things, so that you can have the courage to be reborn in Nirvana, instead of encountering things and messing up.
Therefore, on the one hand, Jia Ling's "Hot and Hot" borrowed the power of capital, and on the other hand, she made money with this film. In an era when people need money to survive, ideals cannot continue to live, and ideals must be based on the economy to be possible. Are you worried about whether the rental house has next month's rent, and the ideal is useless? As long as you don't have any money, even if you're an artist, you're going to have to fuck off.
Why did other professional directors take the initiative to withdraw from the Spring Festival file? Is it that they shoot the ** badly? Doesn't Zhang Yimou's movie have depth? No, it's deep, but he's not grounded. If you don't get grounded, you have to die.
It's the same with people, you have to be grounded.
3. I hope that every woman can become a Jia Ling-style woman
In the past, Jia Ling was chubby and relied on being funny to please the audience. It can be said to be a kind of flattery, if she is not funny, she will basically lose the audience. But the comedian has sprung up every day, updating and iterating, and there is a high possibility that she will be replaced. The audience is fickle.
But however, she chose a glamorous turn from comedian to director, with commercial operations and gimmicks every time. Last time, it was the deceased mother who was consumed, attracting circle fans. She didn't continue to lie flat and continue to use this old-fashioned method, this time she came ruthlessly, ** let the actors in the play transform, and she also transformed. The movie is over, but the discussion about Jia Ling is far from over, and her counterattack and inspiration are still continuing.
She hit everyone's pain point: Repeated reductions and defeats. She adopted reverse thinking: I just want me to be a big fat man, and you recognize that the fat man can't lose weight so that everyone can see the selling point and hope. The characters in the play are integrated with the director, and there is a deep sense of substitution. Only by bringing in can empathy, and only then will someone be willing to pay for the box office.
Some directors say that we are not here for the box office, why don't we make movies for the box office? Is it a playhouse? Don't you need to eat at home? Capital does he agree? Do the big stars and actors in the play survive by spirit? I believe that all art should originate from life and be based on life. Without the purpose of profit, all ideals cannot be implemented.
I hope that the feminine spirit that we learn from this is that you believe that people have the power to change everything, and you think it is impossible because you are not hard enough on yourself. If you are not ruthless, you do not bother to ponder, how can you solve so many problems in life? If we give up on ourselves, no one can save us.
You see, Jia Ling has lost weight and become beautiful, and more people have paid attention to her, and she is the focus. The point is, this matter is in her own favor. People who become beautiful and beautiful also become confident, and the skills they have learned after disappearing for a year are to be cruel to themselves and do big things in a muffled voice. If she hadn't done big things in a muffled voice, it is estimated that she would not have such a large area of influence. The key is what she was fat before, everyone is used to her, how can a fat person be a fat person, such a fat person.
She has lost weight, attracted more attention and attracted more money, her charm has improved, and the number of people looking for her endorsement interviews has also skyrocketed. So, we're going to amaze ourselves, and when you start to get better, everything around you will be fine. Investing in yourself is the greatest courage to face life.