At the crossroads of life, everyone will face some important choices, and marriage is undoubtedly the most critical one. It is the intersection of emotions, but also the integration of family and life. So, when "suitable" meets "disliked", how do we choose?
For many people, marriage is the mutual attachment of two hearts and the destination of love. But the reality is often not what we want, and sometimes, we meet a person who is suitable in all aspects, but does not have that heart-warming feeling.
Some people say that marriage is about two people living together, so it is more important to find someone who is suitable in all aspects than to find someone who just likes you.
Because love is a short-lived thing, but life is long.
Instead of burning yourself out in a short period of passion, it is better to slowly grind in the long days.
That sounds reasonable, but it can't be one-size-fits-all.
After all, everyone's perception and pursuit of life is different, and the understanding of the word "suitable" is also very different.
However, there are also many people who are determined not to marry someone they don't like.
They believe that marriage should be based on mutual liking and love, otherwise it is disrespectful to oneself and each other. They would rather wait or look for someone who is both desirable and suitable than live their lives with it.
In this matter, there is no absolute right or wrong, only suitable and unsuitable.
Everyone's life experiences and values are different, so their views and choices about marriage will also be different.
What we need to do is to respect everyone's choices, and at the same time take responsibility for our own choices.
For those of you who are struggling with this question, give yourself a little time and space to think about it.
Don't rush to make a decision, and don't be swayed by the voices outside.
Calm down and ask yourself what your heart really wants.
Is it the romance and passion of pursuing love?
Or do you value the stability and blandness of life more?
No matter what you choose, believe that you have the right to pursue your own happiness.
Conclusion:
Finally, I would like to say to those who have already made a choice: whether you are married because of love or because of the right marriage, please cherish this marriage.
It's not easy to get married, but do it and cherish it.
I hope that everyone can find their own happiness and satisfaction on the road to marriage.