"Hello lawyer, I have been married to my husband for almost 20 years, and I thought he was my lifelong partner, but I didn't expect him to go to court to divorce me regardless of the relationship between husband and wife. Ask a lawyer to help me save this marriage! In March 2023, Feng Yimei called Beijing Guanling Law Firm for help, and she choked up on the first word, as if she still didn't believe that her husband was so ruthless.
From Feng Yimei's account, lawyer Guanling learned that she and her husband Song Ying are both from Harbin, Heilongjiang, and the two belong to remarriage. In 2004, they were introduced to each other, and their family backgrounds and growth environments were similar, and after a period of contact, their relationship quickly warmed up, and then they registered their marriage in January 2005. After marriage, due to Song Ying's work, Feng Yimei moved to Beijing with her husband to live and live.
Because Feng Yimei has a strong personality, she and Song Ying often quarrel over trivial matters, but she thinks that these contradictions will gradually disappear over time in the process of getting along with husband and wife, and she doesn't take it very seriously.
In 2009, when dealing with the housing issue of family members entering Beijing with the army, Feng Yimei and Song Ying's parents were never able to reach an agreement, and eventually a quarrel broke out. When Song Ying returned to protect her parents, she accused Feng Yimei of being short-tempered and strong-tempered, and filed for divorce from her for the first time.
Feng Yimei felt very aggrieved, she had been doing her best for her family for many years, and there was no principled difference between her and Song Ying, even if there were occasional quarrels, it was just a daily trivial matter in a normal family. After Song Ying calmed down, she didn't mention the matter again, and the two sides tacitly opened the page.
When the time came to 2016, Feng Yimei underwent surgery due to lung disease** and needed someone to take care of her daily life, Song Ying didn't have so much time and energy due to work, so Feng Yimei temporarily moved back to her hometown in Harbin to facilitate her family's care.
Since then, the two have gathered less and separated more, Feng Yimei gradually felt that Song Ying's attitude towards her was becoming more and more indifferent, she thought that this was the reason for the long-term separation of the two, and expressed tolerance and understanding for this. Who knew that one day Song Ying brought up the old matter again and filed for divorce from her again.
The reason for Song Ying's divorce this time is different from last time, he needs to be hospitalized due to hepatobiliary mass from August 2022 to March 2023**, he thinks that when he urgently needs family care, Feng Yimei doesn't care about him, which makes him completely chilled. In the face of her husband's accusations, Feng Yimei felt helpless, she herself was not young, she had been recuperating for many years because of surgery, her physical health had not been good, and she was unable to take care of others at all, which was not what Song Ying said.
Song Ying made up her mind to divorce this time, but seeing that Feng Yimei always disagreed, she directly took a step forward and filed a divorce lawsuit with the court on the grounds that the two parties had been separated for a long time. Feng Yimei, who received the complaint, was heartbroken, she thought that she had been married to Song Ying for nearly 20 years, and the two parties must have feelings, so she came to Beijing Guanling Law Firm for help, hoping to save this marriage. After research and judgment, Guanling Law Firm accepted the commission and appointed lawyer Chen Yunliang and lawyer Gao Kaili to undertake the case.
After lawyer Guanling intervened in the case, with rich experience in handling marriage and family cases, he helped Feng Yimei comprehensively analyze whether the marital relationship between her and Song Ying still has a basis for survival from multiple perspectives such as marriage foundation, postmarital relationship, reasons for divorce, the current situation of the relationship between husband and wife, and whether there is a possibility of reconciliation.
After the lawyer of the crown leader comprehensively analyzed the evidence in the case, **Feng Yimei appeared in court to respond to the lawsuit and proposed:
First, according to the law and social customs, husband and wife should respect and love each other, understand each other, and properly resolve any conflicts they encounter. Feng Yimei and Song Ying have been married for nearly 20 years, and the two parties have a good emotional foundation.
Second, Feng Yimei and Song Ying did not separate because of emotional discord, but because Feng Yimei needed someone to take care of her and live in her hometown, which did not constitute "separation" in the legal sense. The evidence submitted by Song Ying was not sufficient to conclude that the relationship between the husband and wife had indeed broken down and there was no possibility of reconciliation, and she implored the court to grant a divorce to the parties.
In the process of litigation, Guanling's lawyer actively mediated between Feng Yimei and Song Ying, tried his best to build a communication channel, and persuaded both parties to cherish each other's feelings and solve the conflicts in daily life and getting along through joint efforts. Song Ying's attitude gradually softened, and she no longer insisted too much in the following trials.
The court adopted the opinion of Guanling's lawyer and rejected Song Ying's claim.
Lawyer Guanling helped Feng Yimei save her marriage, so that the two could understand and support each other in the rest of their lives, and return to a harmonious family relationship. As the saying goes, "no one in the world is perfect, don't ask for extravagance, understand and understand for a long time", with the help of this case to share with readers and friends, husband and wife should understand each other, be considerate of each other, and tolerate each other, so that they can love each other for a lifetime and grow old together.