In the number of crape myrtle buckets, Zifu Zaiyin's Tianxing Ming Pan is known as the first plate in the world. The broken army star is in the palace of the husband and wife, so there is a later saying that the broken army is a husband, a son, and a slave.
1. Talk about the stars.
1. It is difficult to understand the nature of breaking the army, which shows that for many people, marriage is actually as bright as it is dark. Marriage is not a profound science, which is worth learning and thinking about. That's why I often hear people say, "He's actually." I don't know what he thinks", "Married for so many years, I think.
2. Breaking the army and turning gas into consumption is to show that the marriage itself must be ruined. Therefore, don't blindly ask for it, don't try to get them to meet all your requirements; Therefore, if there is no big victory, there should be no winner. On the other hand, today's so-called "mainstream" view of marriage is no longer enough to describe Honkai. One more thing to say here, not only marriage, but also the frequent chaos in society today, the most fundamental reason is the greed and arrogance of the human heart. Therefore, I said that I was born as a human being, and I can't help but read the Tao Te Ching
3. The blessing and misfortune of breaking the army is to show that the blessing and misfortune of marriage are unpredictable. Therefore, the ancients called it a lifelong event. Whether it is a blessing or a curse, there are fixed numbers and variables. Set a number of days, variables artificial. However, it is impossible for man to live only in the illusion of praying to heaven and earth, because heaven and earth are unkind and regard all things as dogs. Therefore, it is one's own decision that largely determines the good and the bad. Therefore, the ancients said that they would seek more blessings and suffer from themselves.
Second, talk about conversion.
1. The husband moves the blessing for the three-in-one, the migration palace is the wealth palace of the husband and wife palace, and the fortune palace is the official palace of the husband and wife.
2. Analogous to the triad of wealth and officials, the wealth palace on the surface represents people's attitude and use (treatment) towards money and materials, but in the final analysis, it is determined by people's ideas (concepts). The palace of wealth (treatment and concept) of marriage is the palace of migration, which is closely related to migration (the outside world). Therefore, good and bad depend on whether each other can resist each other outside.
3. In the same way, the Guanlu Palace represents the person's career and qi, so the Guanlu Palace (career and qi) of marriage is the Fude Palace, which is closely related to Fude (good fortune and virtue). Therefore, good and bad depend on each other's good fortune and virtue enough to carry this relationship.
4. If you can respect each other internally, you can study in morality; Outside can clean oneself, advance and retreat to a certain extent, and naturally be as safe as Mount Tai.
3. Talk about yin and yang.
1. The husband and the fortune are triad, plus the husband and wife palace of the opposite palace Guanlu Palace, the southern faction is collectively referred to as the three sides and four squares. But husbands, moves, blessings, and officials are all yang palaces. Lonely yin does not grow, and solitary yang does not grow. If there is no yin and yang, there is no treatment, how can it be auspicious?
Zeng Shiqiang Zeng Lao once said that you have to be careful to understand Chinese characters. Telling you auspicious is telling you that you are fierce, which is called one yin and one yang. There is nothing wrong with the triad of husband and fortune, but the specific union or division of an individual's marriage is the creation of the individual.
2. The husband and wife palace and the official palace of the opposite palace are collectively called the love line. Look at it separately and use it for the vertical body. In the husband and wife palace, Tai Chi is established, the husband and wife palace is the internal affair, and the official Lu palace is the external affair; Tai Chi is established in the Guanlu Palace, the Guanlu Palace is the main business, and the husband and wife palace is the sideline. Inside and outside, the main and the secondary are still yin and yang. Combined, the husband and wife palace and the Guanlu palace can be combined into one Taiji.
Therefore, if it is not a good career, a marriage must be good; It's not that a good marriage is necessarily a good career, and it doesn't have to be the best of both worlds. It's just a trade-off between yin and yang. How to weigh the trade-offs is a personal choice.
3. The four righteous men of the northern faction are husbands, officials, fathers, and diseases. The husband and the official are the yang palace, and the father and the disease are the yin palace. Yang Palace, Yang and Yin, anti-main quiet, main constant; Yin Palace, Yin and Yang, anti-active, main change.
The parents' palace is the field house palace of the husband and wife's palace, and it is the place where the marriage is hidden. Therefore, the ancients said that the door is right. But don't think it's just a relative balance of status and material. What is more important is the parents' own attitudes and concepts towards their children's marriage, as well as the parents' words and deeds, so that the children's attitudes and concepts towards marriage. How can a marriage be stable if the parents are very different?
The palace of misfortune (body) is the children's palace of the husband and wife's palace, and it is the continuation of marriage. After becoming a husband and wife, yin and yang are in harmony with morality, and they have children. How do you understand this? I'll give you an example, there are people who divorce because their spouse has gained weight and dislikes her for not looking good. If you can't tolerate each other's physical shortcomings, and can't care for each other's bodies like children, how can your marriage continue?
On the other hand, the conjugal palace is the Tian Zhai Palace (home) of the palace of ill fortune, and it is the place where the body is hidden. Therefore, marriage is also called starting a family, and marriage is the destination of the body. The house is just a place to stay, and a good marriage is a person's best reliance and destination, otherwise how can there be happiness and joy?
Fourth, talk about inside and outside.
1. The conjugal palace is the outer palace. In ancient times, men called their wives insiders, so according to this reason, should it be more appropriate to divide the conjugal palace into the inner palace? In fact, it is not difficult to find that the inside and outside are not divided purely according to people.
2. Let's put it this way. The inner palace shows self-reliance, but seeks self-reliance. It represents that everyone's life is different, they have their own path, and they have to bear the consequences for all their words and deeds. The outer palace shows the stones of other mountains, which can attack jade. It means that there must be something in others where you can learn and improve.
3. The reason why it is defined as the outer palace is to remind us that if we don't handle it well, we will become me and her, and we will have internal and external troubles. Of course, don't forget that the aforementioned one yin and one yang are the Tao. Although the conjugal palace is the outer palace. But the point is what kind of conditions do you value? What kind of spouse do you choose? How do you deal with it? If you handle all of this well, it's from the outside in.
The original intention of writing this article is simply to encourage myself, especially in this era of greed and people's hearts. It is also necessary to always be vigilant to seek self-reliance and pursue morality. All the views in the article are just my personal superficial opinions, and there will inevitably be errors and omissions, please bear with me. Space is limited, and it is only a rough part of it. If it can help everyone, it will be the best.