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On the night of the National Day in 1959, the Tiananmen Tower was brightly lit and full of people, and a grand fireworks show was about to begin. Su Zhenhua brought his children to enjoy the grand fireworks.
He takes care of 6 children by himself, and he has to take care of both the small ones and the big ones, and he seems to be in a hurry. Wang Guangmei saw it, walked over and took the child in his arms, and persuaded him after helping to coax him: "Lao Su, you have to bring so many children alone, and you have to be both a father and a mother, it's too hard!"
If there's a suitable one, find another one! Su Zhenhua smiled and said, "I can still handle it." Later, the news of Su Zhenhua's divorce reached ***, and the chairman also advised him to find another suitable person.
Actually, Su Zhenhua didn't expect that he would get divorced.
Su Zhenhua, whose name is Su Qisheng, is the seventh child in the family, because his parents were forced by family pressure to name him "Su Qisheng". His family made a living by working long hours for the landlord, but there were too many people who had no choice but to eat, too few people who earned money, and the family often lacked food and clothing, and suffered hardship.
Su Qisheng grew up with rice soup and sweet potato rice under the gift of his grandmother, but unfortunately, when he was 10 years old, his grandmother and father died one after another, making him dependent on his mother.
His life was full of hardships and hardships, and he was often bullied and oppressed by landlords and bullies, which made his heart always burn with the unyielding fire of life.
In 1926, the fifth brother Su Ximei died heroically in the Northern Expedition, which made Su Qisheng extremely sad, and his fists were clenched, as if he wanted to turn all his anger and grief into strength.
He picked up the red tassel gun, joined the children's group, and fought against bullies and bad gentry with the children's members. At the age of 16, Su Qisheng joined the Communist guerrillas and fought fiercely against the Kuomintang reactionaries.
Due to the arrest of him by the Kuomintang, he had to leave his home. Before leaving home, in order to leave him a root, his mother asked his adopted daughter Yu Jiaofeng to marry him, which was his first wife.
On the wedding night, Yu Jiaofeng and Su Qisheng should have been immersed in joy, but they could only feel the endless pain of parting. At Yu Jiaofeng's insistence, she sent her husband away in tears and relied on her mother-in-law for her life.
The next year, she gave birth to a son for Su Qisheng, but tragically, she had a difficult birth when she gave birth, and because she could not get a doctor, she died of massive hemorrhage. This woman's life has just begun to bear the pain of her husband's death, and before she has time to raise her son, she passed away tragically.
Yu Jiaofeng's death made Su Qisheng's heart like a knife, and his heart was full of guilt and longing for her.
However, what has happened, he can only turn his grief into motivation, exert his maximum energy in the revolutionary ranks, and hope that the people will no longer be bullied and will not die tragically because they have no money to see a doctor.
A year after Yu Jiaofeng's death, Su Qisheng joined the Red Fifth Army, and his son was handed over to his mother to raise. ** I admired this brave and motivated young man very much, thinking that his previous name was too popular, so he gave him a new name "Su Zhenhua", hoping that he could revitalize China.
Su Zhenhua did not live up to ***'s expectations. In the revolutionary ranks, he worked hard, worked diligently, and soon became the leader of the army. Not only can Su Zhenhua fight, but also write.
In the early stage of the outbreak of the Anti-Japanese War, he devoted himself to education with what he had learned, set up schools in the rear, studied the ideas of the first class in depth, and wrote many articles to promote them, cultivating a large number of talents for the front line.
These efforts of his were highly praised by ***, who once called him "a model of intellectualization of workers and peasants". At the same time, during this period, he also met his second wife.
Second marriage: love and emotion are intertwined, Su Zhenhua's second wife Meng Wei, the two met and fell in love at Yan'an Anti-Japanese Military and Political University.
Meng Wei, an honor student of Nanyang Normal University in Henan, went to Yan'an to study at Kang University at the age of 17 with full of revolutionary enthusiasm. Su Zhenhua is the captain who organizes these young people who love the motherland to study.
Meng Wei is not only beautiful and moving, but also talented and excellent in academics, Su Zhenhua appreciates her very much, and always unconsciously wants to do her best for her. In that bitterly cold winter, the teachers and students carried coal from the mountain to the bottom of the mountain, and Su Zhenhua was worried that Meng Wei was overworked, so he quietly loaded some of her coal into his basket.
In his daily life, as long as there is food, he will leave some and secretly deliver it to Meng Wei.
Love cannot be concealed, and Su Zhenhua's care makes Meng Wei feel warm. Although at first due to the age gap, Meng Wei was a little hesitant. However, whenever she recalls Su Zhenhua's love for her, her heart is full of warmth.
What's more, Su Zhenhua is still so good. So, in 1940, with the approval of the organization, 28-year-old Su Zhenhua and 19-year-old Meng Wei held a simple wedding and stepped into the palace of marriage together.
In the smoke of war, they conceived seven children together, but the cruel conditions caused their eldest daughter to die early. After experiencing the hardships and hardships of the war, they supported each other and walked through those painful years together.
However, the trivial life of peacetime puts their emotions to the test. Su Zhenhua went to Guizhou to hold an important position after the liberation, and was busy with the revival of the country after the war, so he neglected to take care of his wife and family, which made Meng Wei begin to feel that her husband no longer valued her, and a little thing would make her emotions agitated.
Meng Wei was injured by the war, often hallucinated, easily anxious and irritable, and quarreled with Su Zhenhua more. In 1954, Su Zhenhua was transferred from Guizhou to serve as deputy political commissar and director of the Political Department of the Navy, and devoted himself to the construction of the Navy, which caused Meng Wei to have a greater opinion of him, so he filed for divorce.
Su Zhenhua thought it was just his wife's little emotion and didn't care.
Su Zhenhua comforted Meng Wei and specially sent a driver to pick her up and take her to and from work, but Meng Wei was unwilling to accept it, insisting on taking the tram home and not letting others point fingers. In the face of his wife's stubbornness, Su Zhenhua took her six children to pick her up and give her love and warmth, but Meng Wei was still cold and didn't even want to take a look at the children.
In 1957, Meng Wei proposed to Su Zhenhua to break up, she admitted that she married him because of poor consideration, but she didn't love him, and this emotionless life made her unable to continue.
She said that she recently met her long-lost first boyfriend, who has been waiting for her, and she feels that she can't live up to him. Su Zhenhua humbly tried to keep him, and asked him how he could have no feelings, for the sake of the child, don't divorce.
When Su Zhenhua filed for divorce, Meng Wei calmly drafted a divorce agreement and then moved into the unit's dormitory. In fact, Meng Wei's boyfriend was just fictional, which made Su Zhenhua look forward to her again.
However, no matter how persuaded by friends, leaders or relatives, Meng Wei was determined to divorce. In 1958, Su Zhenhua went to the Soviet Union for work reasons. When he came back, he heard that the child was sick, but Meng Wei didn't take care of it, which made his heart completely cold.
Su Zhenhua couldn't stand Meng Wei's neglect of the children, so he resolutely decided to divorce. After the divorce, Su Zhenhua not only had to work, but also took care of the daily life of his six children.
Every time he went out, he had to hold one child in his arms, hold the hands of the two children, and let the two children pull the corners of his clothes, and the older children followed closely behind him. Since the navy had just been formed, Su Zhenhua was as busy as if he was fighting a war every day, and his comrades-in-arms felt sorry for him and persuaded him to find another partner.
However, Su Zhenhua resolutely refused, saying that no matter how difficult life is, he will stick to his responsibility and love for his children.
The news of Su Zhenhua's divorce spread all over the country, and even *** knew about it, and he kindly persuaded Su Zhenhua to find another suitable partner. In the fall of 1959, Fang Qiang, the leader of the Navy, introduced a dancer Lu Dylan to Su Zhenhua.
Lu Dylan is Su Zhenhua's third wife, and they are close to each other, and they depend on each other for life and death. Lu Dilun, who is 23 years younger than Su Zhenhua, is an excellent dancer and also serves in the Navy Military District.
She had heard of Su Zhenhua and deeply admired his noble qualities.
After several contacts, Su Zhenhua was deeply attracted by this progressive, kind and beautiful girl. However, due to the large age gap and the fact that Su Zhenhua already has 6 children, this made Lu Dylan's parents and brother object to their relationship.
The outside world also talked about this relationship, some people accused Su Zhenhua of liking the new and hating the old, and some people suspected that Lu Dylan was plotting against Su Zhenhua's property. Despite this, the relationship between the lovers was not affected, but in the face of external pressure and doubts, they chose to avoid the relationship for the time being.
Su Zhenhua worried about his six children whether he would drag down Lu Dylan, and Lu Dylan was panicked because he felt that he was not qualified to be the stepmother of his six children. Fortunately, Dylan Lu eliminated all his worries in his encounter with ***.
At a dance party, after watching Dylan Lu's performance, I called her over, and affectionately said that she looked very similar to a person.
That's my mom! Lu Dylan shouted in surprise. It turned out that his mother had worked with the prime minister for a while when she was younger. After Deng Yingchao learned about this, she also invited Lu Dylan to her house to play.
Not long after, Lu Dylan told *** the story of himself and Su Zhenhua. **After kindly asking, there was support for their relationship. Under the guidance of ***, Lu Dylan realized that status and qualifications are not obstacles to love, but he thinks that having such an excellent husband can help him become a better person.
As for how to become a stepmother of 6 children, she firmly believes that as long as she truly loves her children, they will accept her. Under the persuasion of his comrades-in-arms, Su Zhenhua unloaded his ideological baggage.
In 1960, Su Zhenhua and Lu Dylan entered the palace of marriage hand in hand, and Marshal ** presided over their wedding. Although the two were mentally prepared to face the children, they were still a little caught off guard by the strong opposition of several children.
The children firmly believe that their mother is not gone and will one day return to their lives again, so they resolutely reject Dylan Lu. When Lu Dylan and Su Zhenhua handed them the candy, they threw the candy on the ground mercilessly, crying loudly: "I don't want your stinky candy." ”
The children also hung the famous Russian painting "Misproportionate Marriage" in a conspicuous place in their homes, pointed to the old man and young woman in the painting, and asked Su Zhenhua to give a speech.
When Lu Dylan went home alone, the children locked the door and didn't let her enter the house, only letting her wait on the stairs for Su Zhenhua to return. In the face of these children's behaviors, Su Zhenhua and Lu Dylan did not complain or blame, but silently cared for every child with love.
Su Zhenhua and Lu Dylan are a couple who love each other deeply, and their love is not only reflected in their deep affection for each other, but also in their love and attention to their children.
They worked hard to fulfill their daughter's dream of playing the accordion, brought in professional teachers for her, and did everything possible to meet the reasonable needs of other children. Their love also grew deeper after giving birth to two children in common.
Lu Dylan expressed his love for the children with his actions, and let the old clothes worn by his brothers and sisters be given to his children, and the children ate and used the same.
Although Su Zhenhua was subjected to **, Lu Dylan always stood firmly by his side and resolutely did not let him suffer alone. Their love story teaches us that the power of true love can transcend all difficulties and challenges.
She said she was more awake than ever. Even after the blow, she decided to stay by Su Zhenhua's side, caring for him, enlightening him, and facing various challenges in life with him, including picking dung, planting vegetable gardens and cultivating wasteland.
In order to save her husband, she wrote a letter to a trustworthy leader, detailing Su Zhenhua's whereabouts and living conditions. Eventually, the family was reunited.
Su Zhenhua contributed to the development of New China, regardless of his own health, and his dedication and care allowed the Navy to be built. Although the happy days were short, his contribution will always be remembered.
Although General Su Zhenhua left us, his widow Lu Dylan used her love and heart to integrate his children, and divided his inheritance of several thousand yuan equally among them, and also helped Su Zhenhua's poor relatives in the countryside.
Lu Dylan only left a bullet taken out of Su Zhenhua's ashes, and she missed her husband in this special way. Lu Dylan also collected Su Zhenhua's life deeds everywhere and compiled "The Biography of Su Zhenhua", leaving precious historical materials for future generations.
Su Zhenhua's life is a life full of love, he can fight for love desperately, or he can let go calmly. Love is not only to share glory and wealth, but also to share joys and sorrows, as long as it is with you, even if it is bitter and sweet.
Reference: Douding.com |Su Zhenhua's daughter recalls her father's old and young marriage, Pingjiang Township Friends Network |Reminiscing about my lover Comrade Su Zhenhua Author: Yu Chen Editor: Leftover Grass Past Wonderful Article Recommendation: More than 800 points in the college entrance examination!
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