Xiao Wang and his colleague Xiao Zhang have always had a good relationship, the two have worked overtime together, worked together for many years, and have become close friends. Xiao Wang felt that the two could communicate frankly about anything and could talk about anything. Gradually, however, he found that Xiao Zhang began to deliberately distance himself from him, and he was no longer as enthusiastic as before. Xiao Wang was puzzled and didn't understand why the relationship between the two had faded.
One day, Xiao Wang finally couldn't help but ask Xiao Zhang: "We have known each other for so many years, and our relationship has always been good, why have you been avoiding me recently?" Xiao Zhang hesitated for a moment, and finally spoke: "To be honest, the few things you talked about recently have made it difficult for me to accept, and I am also reflecting on our friendship." ”
Xiao Wang was confused, and asked Xiao Zhang again and again what was going on.
Xiao Zhang was silent for a while, and finally whispered, "I'll list it and tell you." ”
First, Xiao Wang has often picked on Xiao Zhang's mistakes in his work recently, but he is unwilling to admit his own problems.
Remember that report that was submitted last week? The report was full of errors and omissions, and the boss criticized it all the time. Xiao Wang pushed it all to Xiao Zhang, saying that Xiao Zhang didn't sort out the data, so he didn't write a good report. Xiao Zhang was very uncomfortable at the time, but he still didn't say anything.
Second, Xiao Wang is enthusiastic about Xiao Zhang's success, and his words are full of comparison.
Last month, Xiao Zhang was promoted and raised, and Xiao Wang congratulated him on the surface, but in fact, he chewed his tongue behind his back and criticized Xiao Zhang for not understanding management. Xiao Zhang felt that if Xiao Wang was sincerely blessed, he would not speculate about others like this, and he would have to compare himself with himself.
Third, Xiao Wang inquired about Xiao Zhang's privacy and asked questions, which made Xiao Zhang very uncomfortable.
Xiao Wang always wondered why Xiao Zhang had been taking leave recently, whether there was a big problem at home. also hinted that Xiao Zhang was secretly in love. Xiao Zhang suddenly realized that Xiao Wang inquired about the reason for his leave, but he didn't really care.
Fourth, Xiao Wang saw that Xiao Zhang was becoming more and more successful, and was worried about being compared, so he began to slander Xiao Zhang.
After Xiao Zhang was promoted, Xiao Wang intensified his ill words about Xiao Zhang behind his back, and even slandered Xiao Zhang for relying on relationships to get to the top. Xiao Zhang was very sad when he heard this, he really didn't expect Xiao Wang to be so jealous of himself.
After listening to Xiao Zhang's confession, Xiao Wang suddenly realized. It turned out that it was his words and deeds in these things that hurt Xiao Zhang. He solemnly apologized to Xiao Zhang, promised to pay attention to his words and deeds in the future, and sincerely congratulated Xiao Zhang on his achievements.
However, the nature of the country is easy to change, and the apology is only lip service after all, and the two eventually drift apart.