Wife, I want to discuss something with you. At the dinner table, her husband Yang Bo suddenly said seriously.
I was cleaning up the dishes and chopsticks, and when I heard his words, I looked at him with a serious face, and I couldn't help but be a little curious, "What's the matter?" ”
Let's get a divorce. Yang Bo said.
I thought I had misheard, so I was stunned for a moment and asked him again, "What?" ”
Divorce. Yang Bo repeated, "Let's get a divorce." ”
I think it's funny, isn't he telling a joke today? So he said casually: "Okay, I'll draw up the divorce agreement later, and you can sign it." ”
I thought he would laugh, but he looked serious, "Are you serious?" ”
I replied, "Joking, of course." ”
Then I asked him again, "Did something happen to you at work?" ”
He's been running for bureau chief for half the year, and I can understand the pressure on him at the moment.
Yang Bo said that he was not joking, and said that he had signed a divorce agreement before me, "Didn't you want to divorce a long time ago?" Now that I agree, why don't you want to? ”
I can't help but be a little annoyed, usually when we quarrel, I just say it casually, but now he really takes it seriously and makes his own decisions.
He said we've been fighting since I gave birth.
Yang Bo said again: "I work during the day, and when I come back, you will sleep, and I have to heat my own food." ”
I immediately debated with him: "You are busy and tired after a long day of work, what about me?" In order to take care of the children, I quit my job, and it is very hard to take care of the children every day, I cook the meals, and I have to coax the children to sleep, what is wrong with you coming back to warm up the food yourself? ”
How do you think you got everything you have now? Now that you're the director, do you think it's your ability? Let me tell you, if it weren't for my constant calling ** to my dad for your work, would you be where you are today? I said angrily.
Believe it or not, I can let you sit in the position of this director, and I can also let you come down with a **! I glared at him.
Yang Bo frowned and looked at me, "I sat in the position of the director today, do you think you can destroy it as a **?" ”
As soon as I thought that he had signed a divorce agreement without permission, I became angry, "Okay, divorce!" I'm going to draw up an agreement! ”
Seeing that I was really angry, Yang Bo was a little flustered, "You don't have to prepare, I have already signed, the real estate and car in my name will be given to you, and the deposit will be half for each person." ”
The more I thought about it, the more angry I became, and when I drafted the agreement, I deliberately left the child custody item empty.
Actually, the reasons he said before for divorcing me were all excuses, because I once got up in the middle of the night to go to the toilet, and saw his mobile phone light up, and someone gave him WeChat.
I took the phone and saw that his phone had a password, which he had never used before. And when I clicked on the avatar that sent him WeChat, the chat in it had been deleted very cleanly, only the current sentence "Have you slept?" I miss you. ”
I was annoyed at the time, but kept convincing myself that maybe it was just the wishful thinking of that person, and I still believed in my husband.
But unexpectedly, now he and I have filed for divorce.
In the evening, I drew up the agreement and asked him to sign it. Yang Bo probably didn't expect that I would really draw it up, and he was stunned for a few seconds before taking the agreement.
He probably glanced at me and saw that I had custody of the child, so he asked me what I meant.
The meaning is clear. I said without hurrying.
The custody of the child is mine, and you only have visitation rights. In other words, after I move out of the house with my children, you can only visit them once a week, for two hours at a time, with my consent. ”
Yang Bo understood, he looked at me with a grim face, "Are you threatening me?" ”
I looked at him calmly, "You can understand that too. ”
Recently, he has been wanting to go up to another level, if the news of his divorce breaks out at this time, even if he has the opportunity to be promoted in the future, there will be no more people to support him.
Yang Bo was clearly seriously considering what I said.
After thinking about it for a long time, he finally relented, "Except for the child's visitation rights, I can do everything else as you say." ”
A triumphant smile on my face didn't show it, "Okay." ”
The next step is separation.
Two months after the separation, Yang Bo came to me to talk about the divorce. During this time, he seemed to have aged several years all at once, and there were more gray hairs on his head. A discovery of conscience, perhaps? He began to count his sorry and my complaints about him.
Your temper has become worse and worse since you got married, and I admit that I was at fault. But can't we all take a step back? I can accept that you continue to work, and you can change your temper a little. ”
I raised an eyebrow, "It's too late to say this." I stopped looking at him. As for how much of what he said was true and how much was false, I didn't bother to tell if it was true.
A man who is almost forty years old, who has been promoted, thinks that I have no job, and wants to abandon me, to say something ugly, he comes back and begs me to get back together, and I feel disgusted.
After the divorce, I asked my dad to get through the leader's **, and soon after, he was also dismissed.