John Lennon said
In the journey of life, the most rare thing is to have someone to accompany you through the ordinary years. ”
True love is not only a vigorous romance, but also the warmth of a long stream.
Every woman wants to find a man who truly loves her, but a man's love is not expressed in words, but hidden in the details of life.
If you want to know how much a man loves you, send him these four words, and maybe there will be an answer.
I miss you
In the busy city, time is like a grain of sand in an hourglass, sliding down all the time.
Love, in this complicated world, is sometimes extraordinarily precious.
When a man truly loves you, his thoughts about you are like stars in the night sky, shining quietly but not disturbing.
When you tell him "I miss you", he will respond to you as soon as possible.
He will drop everything at hand and give you a loving response.
Because he knows that distance is just a powerless excuse for sincere love.
There are thousands of ways to express love, and the most sincere one is to miss each other.
Love is the sustenance of the soul and the destination of the soul.
As the poet Xu Zhimo said:
I will find my only soul mate in the vast sea of people, and I am fortunate to have it. ”
A man can always keep you in his heart and respond to your thoughts at all times, that is the best proof that he loves you deeply.
Sometimes, love doesn't need flowery rhetoric and exaggerated expressions, just a word of thought can touch the softest corners of the heart.
Writer Sanmao once said:
"Love will not last long if it does not fall into the real life of dressing, eating, sleeping, and counting money. ”
If a man truly loves you, he will always pay attention to your needs and take your feelings to heart. And missing is the truest portrayal of love.
So, when you want to know how much a man loves you, you might as well send him these four words: "I miss you." ”
People who don't love you, even if they are very close, are just fooling and perfunctory to you, and even find you annoying.
And the people who love you, even if the mountains are far away, will respond to you with enthusiasm.
I'm sick
Henry David Thoreau wrote in the book:
"True love is to find happiness in daily trivialities, and to feel the beauty of life in the ordinary. ”
There are always moments in life when we feel vulnerable and helpless, and a man's love and companionship is the best.
When you are sick, the man who loves you deeply will worry about you, be anxious about you, will drop everything, come to you, and give you meticulous care.
Some time ago, my colleague Lily had a fever, a headache and a cough, and she was completely unrefreshed.
So, she sent a message to her boyfriend saying that she was sick.
The boyfriend immediately replied to the message, asked her and the leader to ask for leave, and appeared downstairs in the company at a flash speed to pick her up.
When he got home, he cooked a bowl of hot ginger soup, sat on the edge of the bed and fed her spoonfuls of it, gently comforted her, wiped her sweat, took her temperature, and even told her bedtime stories to put her to sleep.
That whole day, her boyfriend stayed by Lily's side and never left a step.
In the evening, the boyfriend still insisted on staying with him for a simple reason:
You're not feeling well, I can't sleep. ”
Lily said that it was at that moment that she understood what love was, and it was also that moment that she felt like she would be hand in hand with him for the rest of her life.
If a man truly loves you, when you are sick, he will be desperate to protect you and tell you with his actions:
You're not alone, I've always been.
Love is not an instantaneous spark, but a long-term insipidity and perseverance.
True love is the fit of the heart, and it is the mutual support in the ordinary.
Only a man who truly loves you will be willing to do his best to give you warmth and companionship when he is vulnerable and helpless.
I have no money
Wilde said: The amount of money and time a man is willing to give for you is the best proof that he loves you. ”
Love doesn't need money to prove its worth, but money can be a manifestation of love.
A man who truly loves you will not hesitate to give you financial support when he hears you say that you have no money.
He will not despise you and will not alienate you because of it. Instead, he will care about your predicament, offer you help, and make you feel his warmth and support.
As the writer Qian Zhongshu said:
The person who truly loves does not love much or less, he gives his whole son to the person he loves.
If a man truly loves you, he will be willing to lend a helping hand and help you through difficult times when you are financially struggling.
Such a man will not only support you financially, but more importantly, give you encouragement and strength mentally.
He'll tell you, "Don't worry, I'm here."
On the contrary, a man who does not love you, you can talk about love with him, about poetry and distance, but not about money.
Just like Emma in Madame Bovary.
When all goes well, her lover can give her all the romance and tenderness.
Let me feel like a princess, enjoying the sweetness and beauty of love.
However, when she is in debt and unable to repay the debt, both lovers instantly turn their faces and are full of disgust for her.
Some people say:Wondering if a man loves you or not is simple, talk to him about money.
It's straightforward, but it makes a lot of sense.
A man who truly loves you will lend a helping hand when you are financially strapped because he understands that love is not just sweet words, but also a sharing of adversity.
When a man is willing to support you financially, or even share the financial pressure with you, it means that he not only loves you, but is willing to spend the rest of his life with you.
There is a saying: Why do I like you, I have asked myself this question many times, I don't know the answer, I only know, you are at ease with me, and when you are not there, I am worried. ”
A man who truly loves you may not understand romance, but he will always put you in the most important position in his heart.
He will give you to run for you, give you company, and give everything to protect you.
If you meet such a person, please cherish it.
Because, the most confident thing in this world is not respect and equality, but unscrupulously giving you favoritism.
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