Text: Zhou Peng. In this world, love is desirable, but it is also very hurtful.
When she meets a man who is as gentle as jade, a woman is cared for and loved all her life. However, once you meet someone who is unladylike and meets the wrong person, it seems that your life has been rewritten, and your life will be dark from then on.
A woman wants to be cared for by her beloved man all her life and be with her for the rest of her life.
Admire the moon together in autumn and the snow together in winter. For the rest of my life, I just want to stay with him sweetly and happily.
However, not all love has fruit. Men have two behaviors, either they are attractive or they don't love you at all.
A girlfriend of mine, her boyfriend often chats with various women under the guise of work.
The girlfriend is very insecure and asks him why so many people of the opposite sex are looking for him. He said that he works in the beauty industry, and it is normal for many women to contact him.
Chatting with them is just to improve your performance.
However, my girlfriend found out that he was either sending flowers to this sister or buying jewelry for that sister. It seems that he can have a hot chat with everyone, and no matter who asks him out, he will not refuse.
He said that he was a friend and a buddy, but even he himself might not be able to distinguish what love was and what friendship was.
My best friend saw through his personality, and knew that she couldn't get his sincerity, couldn't be his only one, and couldn't feel his loyalty to his feelings, so she decided to leave him.
Ni Yining wrote in "Give Me a Reason to Fight in Armor Again": "What can give people a sense of security is never love but preference. ”If a man is a "** air conditioner", he is good to everyone, and he makes friends with a mentality of "casting a wide net and being able to fish", and it is difficult for him to be serious about his feelings.
The man with a heart of flowers is like a duckweed swaying in the wind, without roots. Wherever the wind blows, it will drift.
He has a lot of women's *** who can flirt with anyone. However, he will not admit that he is distracted, he will say that he is busy for the cause.
can speak sweetly to anyone, without a word of truth. Seems to be passionate about everyone.,But never give your heart to anyone.。
Such a man always feels that he is charming, in fact, he does not love you at all. The more people who love you, the more they will be attentive to you for the rest of their lives, and they will not let you live a very insecure life.
Xu Huanshan in "Thirty Only", when he first met Lin Youyou, he had a good impression of her.
He couldn't help but glance at Lin Youyou more, with a different emotion.
Lin Youyou was encouraged and continued to pretend to be sunny and enthusiastic, approaching him.
He allowed Lin Youyou to approach him step by step, understand his private affairs, have more physical contact with him, and the two became more and more intimate.
It seems that Lin Youyou took the initiative to attack, but all this can only be carried out with the acquiescence of Xu Huanshan.
Lin Youyou chased after his city and wanted to have further development with him. He likes to be treated as a hero by little girls, and he likes this feeling of being adored.
At this time, he had forgotten his responsibilities to the family, his loyalty to his wife, and he had betrayed the family physically and mentally.
When a man takes an ambiguous attitude towards the woman who pursues him, it means that he has been moved.
An adult married man can clearly sense what the girl's intentions will be when she approaches him. Not refusing is a kind of indulgence.
If a man does not refuse the pursuit of the opposite sex, he is giving her a chance.
Even, if a woman has a good impression of him, he will want to indulge in it, arouse the curiosity of the woman, and let the woman fall into the trap he set step by step.
A man does not refuse the approach of friends of the opposite sex, not because he is attractive, but because he does not love you at all.
I don't care enough about you, that's why I don't care about your feelings. I don't love you enough, so I can't leave my whole heart to you.
The man who loves you will manage his feelings wholeheartedly, keep a distance from the opposite sex around him, and give you a full sense of security.
Whether a man loves or not, a woman has the answer in her heart.
Shakespeare said, "True love cannot be expressed in words, but deeds are the best expression of faithfulness." ”When a man is in a relationship with you, does not give you a sense of security, does not give up the opportunity to associate with any person of the opposite sex, then he is not taking the relationship seriously.
If he has one or more pursuits of the opposite sex, has not seen his explicit refusal, and has never seen him take the initiative to mention that he has a girlfriend, then it means that he still has fantasies about other members of the opposite sex and is not true love for you.
When a man truly loves a woman, he will show that he belongs to his heart and maintain a clear sense of boundaries with other members of the opposite sex.
I won't be passionate about other women.,I won't chat with the opposite sex casually unless necessary.,Instead,I'll leave a true heart to you.。
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About the author: Zhou Peng, an emotional writer, takes dreams as horses and words for a living. Carefully build Zhou Peng's meditation classroom, committed to cultivating the mind, improving cognition, and surpassing oneself. Grow together along the way.