We have all experienced the ups and downs of life, and faced some major events, difficulties and past trials.
There are things that we can't predict, but we have to face; There are some things that we can't handle, so we can only accept them helplessly; There are some things we can't change, we can only choose to forget.
Life is like this, when we are besieged by difficulties, the best way to deal with it is to learn to see things farther, wider, and lighter.
The so-called major events refer to major choices, choices related to the direction of our destiny. For example, career planning, lover choice, children's education, and so on.
Many people are troubled by such questions, think about it, and doubt life. In fact, we might as well take a longer view.
Think about it, ten years from now, when you look back on the choices you are anxious about today, is it really worth the pain? What exactly are the criteria for making decisions? Is it money and status, or interest and inner desire?
Life is short, and in our lifetime, we still choose to make ourselves happy. Studies have shown that happy brains live longer. So, when you're struggling with life decisions, think about yourself in 10 years and ask him what she really wants.
Sometimes, we also face seemingly insurmountable obstacles. At this time, you might as well broaden your horizons. In life, no matter how careful we are, there will still be accidents. The so-called non-dividing thoughts, people will be lucky.
If what has already happened cannot be changed, then why harm yourself? It's better to look at life with a smile, because when you face it with a smile, you can be relieved and deal with it positively. Just like what Mr. Sun Yat-sen said after encountering various political failures: the road is the goal, the cause is the corner, and success is in sight. He is never discouraged by temporary setbacks, but always embraces the future with a broad mind.
There is no winning general in life, and if you fall, you will get up, this is the posture that a brave man should have.
The past is like a bird's feather, which is scattered with a light flick. However, many people are worried about the accident and are haunted. Actually, we don't have to, because the future is long. Looking at life, we all have regrets and misses. But so what? Be tolerant of your past self like a child who enlightens you. Because at that time, you are also living to the best of your ability.
Don't say anything, if you had done it yourself, the outcome would have been different. In fact, at that time, you were such a choice, such a result. The past has happened, and now I have nothing to regret?
There is only new hope and a new beginning. With gratitude, we still have countless opportunities to chase and strive for better results in our minds.
In fact, the most romantic thing in life is to still be full of hope in the face of ups and downs of fate. This kind of tenacious character and broad-mindedness will also make us calm and wise in our pursuit.
Learn to see the big things farther, the difficult things wider, and the past more lightly. In this way, even if there is no way out of doubt, and the future is long, you and I can still move forward lightly.
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