Lantern Festival, to the people I care about the most

After the Spring Festival, it is the Lantern Festival again.

On February 24, it is another year of Lantern Festival.

In ancient times, people would guess lantern riddles, eat Lantern Festival, enjoy fireworks, look at the bright moon on this day, and pray with their loved ones for the year after year.

However, with the acceleration of the pace of life, many people can't wait for the Lantern Festival, so they have left their hometowns and returned to their respective jobs.

The hope for reunion in our hearts and the longing for our loved ones have become more and more intense.

In this lively Lantern Festival, I have a few words from my heart that I want to say to the people I care about the most.

To parents

Alone in a foreign land as a stranger, every festival is full of relatives.

Every time this kind of reunion season, our thoughts about our parents will grow crazy in our hearts.

Especially for the wanderers who have just finished the New Year and immediately went to a foreign land, their hearts will be even more sour.

I still remember that when we do less and do more, we always think that our parents nag and manage too much;

Later, after going through the world, I found that only parents are people who do not care about gains and losses, regardless of returns, and desperately protect their children.

No matter what grievances we suffer, our parents will always silently shelter us from the wind and rain;

As long as we want, our parents will do their best to satisfy us.

We always think that we can always be cared for by our parents like this, and we always think that we will be able to accompany our parents well when our careers are successful, and when we are not busy when we come back.

But I forgot that the years are cruel, and time never waits for anyone.

As we ran, our parents were getting older, and they could only stand where they were, watching our figures fade away again and again.

There is a saying:In this life, people only owe their parents.

Along the way, we have been with our parents too little and owe them too much.

While your parents are still alive, please love them well.

When I can get together with my parents, I can talk to them about the past and cheer for my family;

When the two places are separated, they should pay more attention to their health and greet them about their current situation.

You must know that the luckiest thing in life is to go home and have someone waiting, and someone to call "Mom and Dad" to respond.

This Lantern Festival, I want to make three wishes for myself and all the sincere and loyal children:

One wish, all parents in the world can be healthy and live a long life.

Second, I hope that all children in the world can be happy and filial piety.

Three wishes, the mountains and rivers are safe, the world is safe, the family is round, the moon is full, and people are reunited.

To lovers

Someone said: "Being loved is like winning the lottery, and falling in love is winning the jackpot." ”

In the vast sea of people, it is a beautiful thing to meet a person who loves each other, and walk from green silk to white hair, from red face to old age together.

Although in the process of walking hand in hand, there will inevitably be some friction between the two people.

will also be worried about firewood, rice, oil and salt, and silver money, and I don't know what to do.

But no matter how much we quarrel and stumble, you and I firmly believe that each other is the person we love the most.

So I have a lot to say to you on this day.

Because of you, I felt love and companionship in the most difficult and helpless moments;

Because of you, after a hard day's work, I have a small home to rest my body and mind.

Between you and me, there is not only love, but also the righteousness of treating each other with all sincerity, the tacit understanding of never abandoning, and the unforgettable kindness.

I couldn't be more grateful for every day I've been with you.

Mu Xin once wrote a very beautiful sentence:

The old days have become slower

Cars, horses, and mail are slow

There is only enough to love one person in a lifetime.

No matter how things change in the world, no matter whether life is good or bad, you are the only one in my life.

On the romantic day of the Lantern Festival, I would like to pass on this sentence to you.

May henceforthThe moon is always in the sky, and the sweetheart always lives.

Every ordinary day has a small piece of warmth, and you and I can spend every moment of reunion together.

To a friend

"Zengguang Xianwen" said: Acquaintances are all over the world, how many people can know each other?

Many people have a huge social circle, but there are many friends who can drink together, and there are few friends who can make friends all night.

If you can meet a few close friends, it is really a rare warmth and luck in your life.

And I am fortunate to have met you in the vast sea of people in my third life.

In front of you, I don't have to defend myself, I can take off my mask and be myself unscrupulously;

When I am with you, I can forget about many stresses and worries for a while, and talk happily with you.

Along the way, you have given me the best friendship and let me experience the understanding and sympathy from the depths of my soul.

No matter what happens, you stand firmly by my side;

Support me when I encounter setbacks, and help me when I am down.

I remember all these kindnesses, big and small, in my heart.

Although in the busy days, we can't be as inseparable as before, and we don't have as many opportunities to get together as often.

But I believe that a truly good friendship can always withstand the big waves and sands, and can always stand the test of time.

I remember that we used to get together and sing Zhou Huajian's "Friends":

Friends walk together for a lifetime, and those days are no more. In a word, a lifetime, a glass of wine.

Now that the Lantern Festival is here, let's hum this old song again, and together in our hearts, we will make blessings to our best friends:

I wish the years are quiet and the friendship is not old; Time flies, and we don't disperse.

To the child

People often talk about what is the purpose of having a baby? Passing on the family line or raising children to prevent old age?

I saw a touching answer:For the sake of giving and appreciation.

Yes, every child is the palm of their parents.

From the moment they were born into the world, we have a weakness and concern in our hearts.

As our child grows up, we always want to give him more, but we still worry that we are not doing enough.

At this moment, we suddenly understood the sentence: love is to do our best, but still often feel indebted.

But love also flows in both directions.

When we do our best for our children, the love and companionship of our children also give us energy.

Many parents have this feeling, no matter how hard and tired, as long as they see the innocent smiling face of their children, no matter how much bitterness will disappear.

That's why psychology describes parent-child relationships like this:Raising children is also a self-healing for parents.

Because of our children, we become stronger, more optimistic, and braver.

I remember that the writer Liu Yu once wrote in a letter to his children:

May you have good luck, and if not, may you learn to be merciful in your misfortunes. May you be loved by many, and if not, may you learn to be tolerant in your loneliness.

May you be able to sleep until you wake up naturally every day for the rest of your life.

I hope that you will be surrounded by endless love and grow carefree in the days to come.

I hope that you can spend every day in the future without worry, without any disasters, become the person you want to be, and pursue the life you want.

And I will always be behind you, escorting you.

To yourself

Dear Sanmao" said: What a person should value most is himself.

But what many people ignore the most in this life is precisely themselves.

Think back, how long has it been since you've loved yourself well?

How many surprises have you prepared for yourself over the years?

When you get along with others, do you often wronged yourself in order to cater to others?

Carnegie saidLoving oneself is the foundation of all love.

Now it happens to be the Lantern Festival, and it is also the ancient Valentine's Day, on this romantic day, you must not forget to love yourself and say thank you to yourself.

Thank yourself for not giving up when you were most tired and suffering;

Thank yourself for carrying all the ups and downs of life.

Thank yourself for going through countless ups and downs, but still have the courage to meet challenges and face every unknown tomorrow.

So in the new year, take time out to be kind to yourself.

Life is only more than 30,000 days, what troubles can't be seen? What sorrow can't be let go?

No matter how big it is today, it will be a small thing tomorrow; No matter how big it is this year, next year will be the story.

Life is the present, and living the present well is a kind of fulfillment.

In the days to come, don't wronged yourself for others.

Those who cherish me, I cherish them; Whoever forsakes me, I forsake him.

Adjust the focus of your life to yourself, try to love yourself, and love others by the way.

Jiang Xun is right in "Six Lectures on Loneliness":

The first object of love in life should be yourself, write poems to yourself, talk to yourself, be quiet in a space, and listen to your heartbeat and breathing. I believe that when this life goes out, it will not panic.

When you start loving yourself, the whole world will start to love you.

Sheng Chazi Yuan Xi wrote:

On New Year's Eve last year, the flower market was lit up like day.

The willow tops on the moon, people about after dusk.

As early as more than 1,000 years ago, Ouyang Xiu wrote the excitement and beauty of the Lantern Festival with just a few lines of poetry.

Now the sea of lights is like yesterday, the excitement is still there, and as far as the eye can see, there are fireworks in the world.

After the Lantern Festival, the winter is gone, the earth returns to spring, and the spring flowers bloom again in the year.

With this beauty, I hope that in the days to come, the full moon will be spent, people will be at ease, and all the beauty will come with the spring breeze.

Happy Lantern Festival to everyone I care about!