In this ever-changing world, everyone is looking for their own happiness and blessings. However, blessings do not come from the sky, but from our hearts. Born from the heart, Jiren has his own natural appearance. A person's appearance reflects a person's heart. A person's blessing is often written on his face. So, how can we have a "blessed phase"? Let's do it together.
First of all, inner tranquility is a noble appearance. If a person's heart can remain quiet, he can see the essence of things in the prosperous world, not be confused by superficial phenomena, and not be bound by worldly interests. Such a person can be calm even in the face of adversity; Even in the rolling red dust, you can still be independent. A person's nobility emanates from quiet, quiet and elegant. Like a clear spring in a mountain stream, it can refresh people's hearts and spleens and soothe all noise and glitz.
Secondly, humility and low-key are noble appearances. In "The Mean", it is written: "Water is low into the sea, and people are low into kings." "Only when water flows low can it converge into the sea, and people can be humble and low-key in order to achieve great things. Historically, the struggle for hegemony between Chu and Han ended with the defeat of Xiang Yu and the establishment of a dynasty by Liu Bang. In fact, Xiang Yu himself has an excellent background and resourcefulness, but because of this, he has become arrogant and invincible, and he often has the courage of a horseman. On the contrary, Liu Bang is just the opposite, keeping a low profile, often listening to the opinions of others, and often seeking advice on how to govern the world with a humble heart, and finally achieved a generation of hegemony. As the old saying goes: the wood is beautiful in the forest, and the wind will destroy it. If a person is too outstanding and sharp, he will easily be hated by others, and he is clumsy, humble and low-key, which is a kind of clever wisdom in life. People who are really capable do not show their daily dew, but when they encounter problems, they often make a splash.
Moreover, generosity and tolerance are noble. "Xingshi Hengyan" wrote: "If you don't think twice, you will regret in the end, and people can endure and worry about themselves." "If you can endure what ordinary people can't endure, you will become a person that ordinary people can't. The size of a person's mind determines the height and breadth of his life. Through the ages, there will be a large number of people who have achieved great things. During the Warring States Period, Lian Po was a famous general of Zhao State, he made great achievements, was worshiped as Shangqing, Lin Xiangru "returned to the end" meritorious, and maintained the dignity of King Zhao in Mianchi, so he was also promoted to Shangqing, and was above Lian Po. Lian Po was not convinced by this, he was angry, embarrassed everywhere, and threatened: "When I meet Xiangru, I must humiliate him." However, Lin Xiangru chose to back down, he said: "The Qin State is so powerful, I dare to reprimand him in the court and humiliate his ministers, am I afraid of Lian Po?" But I think the reason why the Qin State didn't dare to send troops was because of me and Lian Po, and if the two of us fought, we would definitely not be able to coexist. Lin Xiangru's words later reached Lian Po's ears. Lian Po was ashamed, and went to Lin Xiangru to ask for guilt with a thorn on his back, and since then he and Lin Xiangru have become very good friends. A broad-minded person is generous, open-minded, and will not be careful, let alone truthful in everything. Such a person can calmly face the setbacks and tribulations of life. In the practice of life, cultivate a pattern of inclusiveness and tolerance, and ultimately achieve an extraordinary life.
Finally, contentment and optimism are noble. "The Burrow" wrote: "Si is the Burrow, but I Dexin." "People who know how to be content, even if they are in a humble room, will live a good life and be as happy as a fairy. Tao Yuanming, as a representative of pastoral poets, once wrote such a poem: "Planting beans in the south of the mountain, the grass is full of beans and seedlings, the morning is desolate, and the moon and lotus hoe return." "Even though the bean sprouts are not as tall as the weeds, I am still happy, I get up early to hoe and come back in the evening. Tao Yuanming's life has been bumpy, and he has never met a good Bole. wanted to work for Wang Ningzhi, but couldn't give full play to his talents; Liu Yu and Liu Jingxuan joined the army, but the world became too fast, and they had to resign in the end. When most people were still up and down in officialdom, Tao Yuanming looked down on fame and fortune early on and pursued the idyllic life he longed for. Although he lives an ordinary life of eating and drinking, and living in the alleys, there are wine, poems and friends, but Tao Yuanming still enjoys it. Contented people can always see hope in ordinary life, as the saying goes: "Those who are content are poor and happy, and those who are not content are rich and worried." "Knowing that contentment is the true wealth of the heart, such a person is full of energy, not only to warm themselves, but also to illuminate others.
A good life is one who can follow one's nature and live the way one wants. That kind of life, even if it goes through twists and turns, is great. There is no way to be lucky or bad. A blessed person, no matter how he goes, will be respected and praised by others. If you want to have a "blessed phase", work towards these four aspects! Tranquility of heart, humility and low-keyness, generosity, and contentment and optimism are the four qualities that will be the key to your path to happiness. Let's work together to live our own wonderful life!