When it comes to relationships, deciding whether to be together or not is not an easy task. Once, I was faced with the choice of rejecting a boy who liked me for nearly half a month. Two of my girlfriends gave me very different opinions, one thought that I should stay calm and make a decision after communication, while the other advised me to take the opportunity and act decisively. When facing feelings and futures, how should you choose?
Girlfriend 1 thinks that I am very rational in this relationship, considering many aspects of my future with each other, and not making rash decisions. She noted that the boys were about to participateGraduate school entrance examination, and I am also thinking deeply about staying in Beijing. After all, feelings require both parties to work together, not on the spur of the moment. She suggested that we should communicate openly and clearly about each other's thoughts and intentions to build a stronger relationship.
Expanding: In this relationship, I deeply feel the importance of communication. Every communication is like breaking down one barrier after another, making our feelings clearer and clearer. The boy's understanding and wisdom made me more sure of my choice. Perhaps, it is precisely because we can be honest with each other and face it rationally that we can ensure that the road ahead will be more stable.
Unlike girlfriend 1, girlfriend 2 believes that if I really like the other person and the other person feels like me as expected, I can take the initiative in the face of confession. She emphasized that the act of "coquettishly asking for a face-to-face confession" may add a sense of ritual to the relationship. In addition, she believes that the issue of long-term development and marriage can be promoted slightly, and there is no need to be obsessed with it too early, and it should be gradually and step by step in getting along.
Expanding: On the road of feelings, it is especially important to take the first step bravely. Confession is a confession of feelings, and it is also a frank between the two. Perhaps, it is this courage that ignites the flame in the depths of each other's hearts and makes our relationship more intimate and determined. And happy and short-lived love is often easy to regret for life. Therefore, cherish the happiness in front of us, seize the opportunity of the moment, and perhaps there will be unexpected beautiful encounters waiting for us.
Faced with the different suggestions of the two girlfriends, I was also struggling with contradictions. On the one hand, it is rational and prudent, and on the other hand, it is brave and decisive. Perhaps, in the world of feelings, there is no immutable law, and every relationship has its own unique trajectory. I think it's important to be honest and honest about what you think, listen to each other, and make choices for the future together. Perhaps, in this way, you can find the most suitable answer for yourself and move towards your own happiness.
On the journey of feelings, perhaps we need to be calm and rational, or we may need to be brave and honest. Every choice in life, every decision we make, will affect our future. Whether it is a long stream of water or a surging passion, it is worth cherishing with our hearts. I hope that everyone who is facing emotional choices can find their own happiness and embark on a warm and beautiful love journey. Thank you for your care and suggestions, and thank you to everyone who reads this article. May every choice in love achieve the best future.