In 1971, Li Ne and a waitress entered the marriage hall, although their love was once hailed as a good story. However, as time passed, the differences in knowledge and life between them gradually emerged, and the conflict gradually escalated, which eventually led to their breakup.
* After learning that his daughter was divorced, he did not express sympathy, but said coldly: "This is the consequence of Li Ne's disobedience to me!" However, at the wedding of Li Ne and Wang Jingqing, **'s attitude changed dramatically, not only did he not object, but he also offered to buy a dowry for his daughter.
So, why is that? Why did the attitude of ** change so dramatically, and how did Li Ne respond?
Li Ne, the youngest daughter of **, although she has a prominent background, she is still unmarried at the age of 30. It turned out that Li Ne had a crush on a personable and talented boy from the same school when he was studying at Peking University, but in the end this relationship did not blossom.
The reason is that the male classmate has some concerns, because Li Ne's status is extraordinary, and she is the daughter of a national leader. Such concerns prevented Li Ne's first love from being continued.
In 1970, Li Ne was already 30 years old, and she began to look for a suitable partner for her, not to be a child, just an ordinary farmer or an ordinary person. Seeing that his father's gray hair increased, Li Ne promised to look for it.
In order to exercise Li Ne and let her get a better rest, ** let her go to the "57 Cadre School" in Jinggangshan to work. Because Li Ne is introverted and has no people she knows, she often works alone.
During a farm job, Xu Ning and Li Ne walked together. When Li Ne thanked him, Xu Ning waved his hand honestly and said with a smile, "We are all comrades." This smile deeply touched Li Ne and made her take a strong interest in Xu Ning.
She began to get to know him through various channels, and learned that Xu Ning's family was poor and he was currently working in the Beidaihe Management Office of the ** General Office, and Li Ne's good impression of him further increased.
The enthusiastic Xu Ning found that Li Ne did not hate herself, so she often invited her to play, chat, and even took the initiative to help her in farm work. As the days passed, the two hearts drew closer.
One night, when Li Ne and Xu Ning were walking, she suddenly stopped and said to Xu Ning, "Can we be together forever?" Xu Ning subconsciously agreed, but quickly changed his words: "No, no, you ......."You are the daughter of the leader, and I am just an ordinary person, and we are not suitable. ”
Li Ne retorted: "None of this is a problem, my father also said, let me find a farmer or a worker." Eventually, love triumphed over reason, and they quickly fell in love.
* Objected to her daughter Li Ne's marriage to the waiter Xu Ning, and after the staff reported to her, she decided to go up the mountain to "enlighten" her daughter in person. However, in this conversation, Li Ne insisted on marrying Xu Ning, and ** felt very angry and headache about it.
In the end, the two were unable to convince each other, and both were very annoyed.
Li Ne wrote a letter to *** requesting approval of her marriage to Xu Ning, which coincided with the morning of September 13, 1971, when *** was irritable and did not fully understand the content of the letter.
Fortunately, it was an old friend of *** who sent the letter, and he called the messenger in and asked: "How is the man's work?" How is the character? How is the relationship with Li Ne? The messenger replied: "His name is Xu Ning, although he is only a waiter and his education level is not high, he works very hard and is willing to learn."
Xiao Xu and Li Ne have a very good relationship, and it can be said that it is ...... love at first sight”
* After adding a circle to the report, Li Ne and Xu Ning got married. Although the ceremony was simple, the two had happy smiles on their faces. ** has always been dissatisfied with Xu Ning, the two were separated during their honeymoon, and Xu Ning was even sent to Shijiazhuang Railway Institute to study.
Li Ne and Xu Ning's marriage broke down due to the intervention of **, she took Xu Ning away, and Li Ne suffered great pain. But Li Ne was determined and would rather lose her husband than bow to her mother, and their marriage finally came to an end.
Dramatically, at this painful moment, Li Ne found out she was pregnant. **Trying to buy a dowry for her daughter, what is Li Ne's response to this? In May 1972, Li Ne gave birth to a boy.
When Yang Yinlu reported the good news to **, she replied indifferently: "I know." "I didn't ask if the adults and children were healthy, and I didn't go to see my daughter who had just given birth.
Li Ne's life is difficult, and his physical condition is not good, so he cannot take care of the child, and the child can only be sent to kindergarten. Knowing her daughter's difficulties, ** felt deeply guilty and said to the secretary: "Sending 8,000 yuan to Neva, it was not good for me at the beginning, if I hadn't agreed to her marriage, she wouldn't have ......."The secretary hurriedly comforted the chairman.
On September 9, 1976, he passed away. Since then, Li has ended her life in Zhongnanhai and moved to a courtyard house in the western suburbs of Beijing, where she lives with her son.
In the following days, she has been living a peaceful life, and even sometimes needs to subsidize her family through ** old books. Li Ne was raised by Li Yinqiao and Han Guixin, and Han Guixin also took care of her, so they have special feelings for her.
Seeing Li Ne alone, Li Yinqiao came up with the idea of introducing someone to her.
On this day, Li Yinqiao and his wife warmly invited Li Ne to come to their home as guests. After a cordial conversation, Han Guixin asked with concern: "Li Ne, you have been single for so long, have you ever considered finding another person?" ”
Li Ne sighed softly and said, "My mother is a member of the 'Gang of Four', which makes me have a lot of difficulties in finding a partner. Hearing this, Li Yinqiao was a little displeased, and he said: "But your father is *** and a great leader, this is an undeniable fact, and no one can change it." ”
Finally, under the guidance of Li Yinqiao, Li Ne met his old comrade-in-arms Wang Jingqing, and through in-depth understanding, the two decided to spend the rest of their lives together.
Before Li Ne and Wang Jingqing were ready to get married, they went to visit the ** who was in prison. changed his attitude greatly, and he was very enthusiastic about Wang Jingqing, and even said: "You have finally found a good home, by the way, I have some money here, you can use it to buy some dowry, which is the last ...... I can do for you as a mother."However, Li Ne shook her head resolutely and refused, saying, "You can keep the money, you take care of yourself." ”
In 1985, Li Ne and Wang Jingqing entered the palace of marriage hand in hand, and since then they have a trustworthy partner and live a quiet and happy life.