The relationship between people is like saving money. If the money is spent, it is the end of the fate. Don't expect anything more.
Smart people will always save money in it and manage the relationship well. But stupid people will always consume and never save money. Until one day, this money runs out, and it is too late to save.
When people reach fifty, if there are often three phenomena between brothers and sisters, it often means: money is spent. Fate has fallen like prosperity.
The rest of the road can only be left to the natural course.
01 I haven't been in touch for a long time, and I don't miss it
In this world, any relationship needs to be maintained. It's like a machine, if you want to run properly, you have to maintain it, right?
Between brothers and sisters, if they really have a heart for each other, they greet and worry from time to time.
Instead of saying, pretend that the other person doesn't exist.
Even, as if there is no such person as the other party.
It's a pity that many families have long been like this. In fact, fate is over.
For example, a few relatives in my family can do it for two years a year without hitting **. It's as if there are no relatives like us.
And what's more, when they need money, they'll come to the door. And the reasons are varied.
They never seem to think: How are we doing? Is it a lack of money? Rather, it keeps taking.
Feelings we are money bags, and we are wronged.
Even if we refuse, we will be scolded. It's so speechless.
In reality, if you can't remember to contact you for a long time, or as soon as you get in touch, you should have seen through him.
It's obvious what your place in his mind is.
02 Attitude after meeting
In reality, brothers and sisters who have been destined for each other are in their hearts, treating each other as disgusting people, or even enemies.
Therefore, when speaking, it is very bad to often carry a gun with a stick.
This attitude, if you encounter it often, you have to figure it out.
I have a relative at home, and when everyone sees her, she often doesn't choose to say anything unpleasant.
Even children, she doesn't let go, and she loves to make things difficult.
It is enough to see that this relative no longer treats us as relatives.
I won't say why.
In reality, brothers and sisters who really have a good relationship are those who support each other. After meeting, it was a smiling face.
After meeting, there are always pimples, and all kinds of difficult words are the end of fate.
The content of the speech represents the knot in the heart. It's as simple as that.
03 The other party's malice is not obvious
Between siblings, if they treat each other, there is already a lot of malice. Or completely negate the other party.
That means: this fate is over.
The two of them are not people of the same world.
It's useless to try to redeem it.
For example, if what you say is denied by the other party, this is a denial of your point of view, or even three views.
How you live and work, and the other party denies it, which is a denial of your lifestyle.
Then the other party always blames you for his bad life, saying that you don't help and are too ruthless. This is to have a grudge against you, and the responsibility for his bad life is thrown on your head.
There are even many things that have nothing to do with you, and he wants you to take the blame.
These things all show that your fate is over.
Brothers and sisters don't have blood ties to get along well.
Whether people can get along with each other is a very deep knowledge.
Look at character, character, and cognitive level, everything must be seen. It's not that simple.
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