happy birthday to taodear tao...Happy Birthday Thank you for choosing us.
Hello Daoyi, congratulations and congratulations on reaching the important milestone of turning two.
These 24 months have been a game-changer for my life, and I think the same is true for your dad, because of the physiological differences, the ups and downs may not be as great as what my mother experienced, but it is definitely a watershed moment in life.
I once asked your dad, do you remember the old days? Still want to go back?
We looked at each other, shook our heads with a smile, and sighed that the past life was so far away, and we didn't want to go back, because every day with you is like the sun rising from our home, and then the sun shines on all the humble corners.
1-9 months for you.
Originally, there was no such letter, and the proposal was an assignment left for me by a reader of a radio anchor a long time ago. So there was such an opportunity to take a break from the busyness and think.
If I were to condense these two years of parenting in just two words, I would think I would only be grateful.
So this letter is written to you by my mother, to myself, and to the world in which you live.
I hope that the day when you can read and feel it, the earth will reach a new dimension supported by these two words, and of course I look forward to this day as soon as possible, anytime and anywhere.
I don't know how long you've been choosing your mother in heaven?
But as your greeter, I waited for a while, went through twists and turns, and crossed life and death before ushering in my fate with you.
Perhaps because of this, your presence makes us cherish it so much that we feel that every breath is blissful, and although it is accompanied by physical pain at first, it is nothing compared to your birth.
Before you arrived, I also experienced the biggest upgrade in my life, completely starting the journey of inward and no longer seeking outside.
Guided by various fates, I received this sentence before you arrived:
It is not that we created this life, but that this life chose to come to this earth through us. ”
I didn't know much about it, until every day after you appeared, I began to understand the true meaning of this sentence little by little.
10-18 months for you.
So I am more and more grateful to you for choosing to give us, as caregivers, the precious opportunity and blessing of being born again alongside your birth.
The word mother has gone through a long period of time from the beginning when it has nothing to do with itself, to the relevance of various external standards, and then to internal acceptance, and it is still evolving.
Compared to my mother, a caregiver is more in tune with my identity and a sense of relief.
It wasn't until I got closer and closer to myself, when I began to have the power to support the earth little by little, that I first felt the weight of this title, which had nothing to do with the outside world.
19-24 months for you.
What is Mom?
At this stage, my experience has turned into an insight: Mom is an anchor.
Share a favorite lyric: anchor you back down, which means to return to the center of gravity and land with both feet.
I am your anchor, your father's anchor, the anchor of our small family, the anchor of my original family, and the anchor of the small world around me.
The ancients were really very wise, and they had already told us the order in the classics: self-cultivation, Qi family, governing the country, and leveling the world.
The cultivation process of this anchor is really hard, starting with the physical test, going through the ghost gate of production, the long recovery period, the painful early stage of breastfeeding, the cliff-like hormonal decline, the first year without a good night's sleep, when this Ye Xiaozhou is about to be overturned in the wind and waves, the wave will subside slightly, and the physical test will be over.
Then the beginning is the upgraded version of the mental test, the chicken feathers began to circle, flying in an orderly manner, several times almost blocked by the chicken feathers and the nose was about to suffocate, you only remembered that you still have a built-in feather duster, began to clear a little bit, to slowly drink chicken feathers and coexist peacefully, and even dance with chicken feathers, and at this time, the next stage of the test is also going to kick off.
So the forging process of this anchor is really also a process of transformation.
However, there is a premise, that is, we can successfully clear the customs without complaining, and this process is also the journey that we will embark on in this life.
So I still go back to thanking you, I really didn't expect that nurturing could become a convenient method of cultivation, so that I have so much patience and willingly practice anchor kung fu in endless trivialities.
Before you were born, I thought your dad was my best friend, and after you were born, your dad's strategic position was upgraded and he became a comrade-in-arms.
This way overcomes obstacles, because of him, whether I open the way in front or he explores in front, we are each other's best backing, and with backing can we rush forward without hesitation; With the backing, you can occasionally nap and recover the physical strength that has been dissipated in this minute.
The stage test question for marriage is parenting.
Fortunately, the teammates chose the right one, otherwise it would be hard enough to upgrade and fight monsters along the way, not alone, but too hard.
There is no particularly specific division of labor, everyone has work in their eyes, they are considerate of each other, so as to reach a balance, all the big and small things in this family, are everyone's big and small things, there is no one more valuable than another thing, all the pay for this family are of equal value, the reason is very simple, meet the right person, it is not easy to implement.
It seems that you not only choose your mother, but also your father is quite reliable.
Thank you to your grandfather and grandmother, although they are far apart, but the care is always the warmest.
Back and forth, they have a lot of worries and worries, and now you will finally call your grandfather and grandmother, hoping that they can accompany you for a long, long time, as well as your grandparents and other family members who have always loved you and thought about you.
You have traveled through seven countries and cities, taken countless trains and planes, met too many friendly human beings, and because of this, you are also full of kindness to the world, you will wave and say hello to everyone on the way, although you are new to the city, but you are like an ambassador of the earth.
Walking on both sides of the continent, we are grateful for every safe departure and arrival, which is known to those who have been on the road all year round, and those around us who are worried about those people.
Finally, thank you for your presence and for bringing our journey to the earth into this unknown, but colorful journey.
You will eventually meet your own friends, you will eventually have more and more time that you want to belong to yourself, you will finally embark on your own journey of life exploration, and we will eventually become parallel from two intertwined threads.
But we will watch over you and bless you until the end of our lives, and even so, we will watch over you in an invisible form.
But until then, let's hug each other, be companyed, and enjoy every moment you need us.
Of course, we will not hesitate to push you further into the world again and again, and we will always be your harbor.
Thank you for bringing us the miracle of each day, thank you for awakening our life, thank you for your presence.
A new year old, healthy, safe, nothing else to wish. I also wish all the children in the world health and safety.
2024 Beginning of Spring, Paris.
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