The writer Sanmao once said:
If love is not practiced in real life, such as dressing, eating, counting money, sleeping, it will not last forever. ”
Indeed, there is truth in every relationship. At first, each has its own reasons, but whether they can stay together for a long time ultimately depends on their respective personalities.
Whether you're a man or a woman, you're actually choosing a life partner in your search for your significant other.
Therefore, you have to carefully judge whether the other person is trustworthy and whether they will always be worthy of your trust.
In general, if your partner is experiencing the following symptoms, it is likely that they have a bad personality, so even if you fall in love with them again, it is best to keep your distance.
01 Selfishness and selfishness.
The philosopher Bertrand Russell once said, "Of all the moral qualities, goodness is the most needed in the world." ”
However, for selfish men, their behavior tends to be self-centered, and they have to judge everything according to whether it is good for them or not.
You work hard for him, and he takes it for granted.
But when you ask him to do something, he criticizes you in turn. Do you want to do something about it? ”
Isn't that what everyone should do? "Don't think about other people's feelings.
He is affable when he is in a good mood, but when there is a disagreement or quarrel, he becomes a different person and becomes strict with you.
Whatever you do, always think you're right.
With such selfish people, you need to be a little more responsible, a little more tolerant.
Over time, you'll get stuck in endless internal friction.
02 Arrogant and boastful.
I've heard this before. "Pride and complacency are terrible traps, and this trap is one we dig ourselves. ”
In fact, overconfidence is often a trap. The failure of one person.
Such people are often unrealistic, always focused on superficiality and pretentiousness, the result of which is counterproductive, loss of dignity and trust.
Lack of competence is not something to be feared. The terrible thing is that they still have to pretend that they are capable when they are obviously incapable. This not only embarrass you yourself, but also those around you. Moreover, it is also a reflection of a person's true character.
So, if you meet someone who is arrogant, it is wise to leave him as early as possible.
03 Skepticism and lack of understanding.
Author Zhou Guoping said:
Good love is resilient and can be separated, but it is constantly separated. Lovers are not bound to each other, but separated. "Having a strong sense of love is a sign of self-confidence. No one restricts anyone, and in the end no one can live without each other. This is true love. ”
I strongly believe that in a relationship, both parties should do the same. Have your own space and freedom, not tied to each other or restricted.
If two people love each other and trust each other, they won't try to change each other or control each other's behavior.
Instead, they will respect each other's choices and decisions, giving each other enough freedom and support.
This love is resilient and does not break easily even in the face of separation and tribulation.
Despite all the ups and downs, in the end they still rely on each other and support each other, and neither of them can do without the other. This is true love.
The English philosopher Russell once said:
For most people, a good life is a life inspired by love and guided by knowledge. ”
It depends on the person's personality. Dating a good man is painful, and the damage is like falling into the abyss.
It can be said that the personality qualities of a man greatly affect how happy you are in your relationship with him.
I hope I can keep my eyes open and find the right person for the rest of my life.