In "Flowers", Fang Mei is a character who has never shown her face, but from Tao Tao's point of view, you can know that this woman is very strong.
Once, Fang Mei should also be very gentle, but with the passage of time, people will change. Tao Tao didn't care so much about Fang Mei, in his eyes, Fang Mei was a tigress-like existence.
But in reality, is it really that bad? Let's talk about their marriage
How to describe Tao Tao's heart? When Tao Tao was in the play, the song "I Am a Little Bird" that belonged to him sounded very appropriately.
From their daily life, it can be concluded that when they got married, they had feelings for each other, and there was no so-called blind date or parental order. After all, it's already the nineties, and you can still make your own decisions about marriage.
What's more, Tao Tao once mentioned that Fang Mei was pregnant when she got married, and if it wasn't for the accident on the wedding day, it is estimated that Tao Tao's children would be able to run all over the ground.
Therefore, it is very likely that this incident will become Fang Mei's heart disease.
When a woman becomes pregnant, she begins to look forward to the arrival of the child. is like Zhong Xiaoqin in "Thirty Only", although the child was conceived by accident, she will unconsciously look forward to it.
Because the role has begun to change, Fang Mei will regard pregnancy as a first-class event. But Tao Tao won't think so, it's not that he doesn't work hard, but when he works hard for a long time without saying anything, he will inevitably lose his heart.
When the two of them worked hard to no avail, Fang Mei's temper became worse and worse, and Tao Tao was no longer patient. The days after the two of them got worse and worse, Fang Mei was no longer gentle, and he began to dislike going home after closing the stall.
However, marriage requires two people to work together and support each other. No matter how bad the life is, if you can face it together, Tao Tao and Fang Mei can also be happy.
The image of Fang Mei that we learned in the play is the Fang Mei in Tao Tao's eyes, but is this really the case? Is Fang Mei really that unbearable?
In many ways, in the words of some people around her, Fang Mei is not as bad as Tao Tao said. It's just that the days are more boring because of the long flow of water, and Tao Tao often doesn't go home, so it is difficult to maintain a good relationship between husband and wife.
Although Tao Tao often wanders outside, he has never done anything out of the ordinary.
As the saying goes, house flowers are not as fragrant as wildflowers. With Fang Mei's short temper, there is the gentleness and loveliness of the little sister-in-law.
The appearance of the little sister-in-law made Tao Tao ignite a small fire in his heart. A small gift given by the little sister-in-law at random made Tao Tao blush and heartbeat.
In everyone's eyes, although the little sister-in-law is single, Tao Tao is a person with a wife, no matter how you look at it, it is not suitable. If Tao Tao has a mind on his little sister-in-law, then his marriage will be very dangerous.
But when the little sister-in-law quietly sent a key to Tao Tao, Tao Tao was moved, and even when he went to the door of the little sister-in-law's room, the key had been inserted into the keyhole, and he just had to open the door, and he could successfully be with the little sister-in-law.
Fortunately, he stopped at the last moment, whether he was afraid of Fang Mei, or whether he controlled it himself, he didn't make a mistake in the end.
He is struggling, just like the lyrics sing "I am a little bird, I want to fly but I can't fly high", he longs for freedom, wants to leave Fang Mei, not be bound, and similarly, he has a sense of guilt for Fang Mei in his heart.
You know, if a person really wants to hide something, he will try to hide it, how can it be found by others? But when Fang Mei cut the key out of the fish's belly, we knew that Tao Tao didn't think the little sister-in-law was so important in her heart.
Even later, when he met his sister-in-law again in the mall, he felt a trace of regret when he saw her bulging belly. But in the end, he still didn't cross the hurdle in his heart, and he still lived with Fang Mei.
After that time, when Tao Tao didn't go home and Fang Mei couldn't find him, she was anxious to go to Tokyo at night to ask Reiko for help, hoping that Reiko could help her find Tao Tao.
And Fang Mei is pregnant, and she is mentally nervous, which makes her see red in Tokyo at night.
Everyone could only help send Fang Mei to the hospital, and Ah Bao also found Tao Tao. While waiting on the bench in the hospital, Po reminded Tao Tao to make a decision early, either divorce or live a good life.
He longs for freedom, worships Po in his heart, and wants to be as chic as Po. But he couldn't, he also figured out at that moment that he was a person with a family, and Ah Bao was alone, how could he compare?
After thinking about it for a long time, he finally figured it out and wanted to live a good life with Fang Mei, take his wife and children, and be chic together.
Tao Tao is very selfish, but he is weak in his heart. If he could divorce Fang Mei directly, then he wouldn't have let things get worse.
In his married life, he had a messy life, just blindly trying to escape from the "grumpy" Fang Mei, but he didn't think about settling his heart.
In real life, how many people live like Tao Tao?
It is said that marriage is the grave of love. In fact, it's not, it's just that marriage has shortened the distance between the two people.
When you fall in love, most of the contact is beautiful; But after getting married, most of the contact is each other's shortcomings.
If both parties do not tolerate and understand each other, then marriage is the grave. On the contrary, it is the beauty of a long stream.
"Flowers" Fang Mei didn't know that Tao Tao had been to the little sister-in-law's room long before the key was discovered