It is often said: talking about money hurts feelings.
That's true. To find out if a relationship is worth it, it is really necessary to talk about money. Gold is tested with fire, and people are tested with money. A person is sincere and false, not in the mouth, but in the heart; A love is hypocrisy, it is practical, not in ordinary times, but in the wind and rain. When the sky is clear, you will walk with you, but you are a general friend. The one who holds an umbrella for you when the wind and rain is a lifelong friend.
When the scenery is beautiful, a friend knows you. When you were in trouble, you made friends. Don't think that there are a lot of people around you on weekdays, call friends and call brothers. But when you are really in trouble, and the trees fall and scatter, they hide and flee.
Time, will see everything clearly
Last week, when I was cleaning up, I went through the cabinets to clean up the garbage and found a necklace engraved with the words "share weal and woe". After looking at it, he shook his head, smiled slightly, and threw it in the garbage basket.
Once, how simple, I deliberately bought a pair of necklaces, "confidants in adversity, share weal and woe", one was given to the best friend I thought I was, and the other was left for myself. However, the world is unpredictable, who would have thought that what he once thought was his best friend would become the person he least wanted to think of; Who would have thought that once such a good girlfriend would have a day when she fell into the well.
Now, when I see it again and think about the past, how ridiculous and ironic.
Just like Liu Tong wrote in "Your Loneliness, Although You Are Defeated": "Those friends you once thought were very good, those people you thought would always go together, I don't know when they got separated on the way." ”
Even if some people meet you for the first time, they will hit you off at first sight and put sweet words on their lips, but after a long time, you will eventually find that those are just his plays!
So, don't think that some people are the stupidest and unreliable. Because after a long time, you will find that his heart is very true.
So, don't feel like the vows you once made can stand against everything. Because after a long time, a drop of water can also pierce the stone, and people can also change their minds.
When you are in trouble, you know that people are expensive
I saw a very classic passage on the Internet: Those who help you without opening your mouth are intimate friends; If you just ask your mouth to help you, you are a good friend. You opened your mouth and promised to help you, but in the end, what didn't help you was a friend of wine and meat; There is another kind, not only does not help you, but also has to step on it, and that is not a friend.
So, how many friends do you think you have?
can eat, drink and have fun with you, but you can't find anyone in trouble;
He who can drink with you and have a good time, but he is selfish in everything does not count;
People who can talk to you but can't understand you don't count.
Thousands of worlds, vast sea of people. In fact, many times, if you don't suffer once, don't fall down once, you never know if the so-called friends around you are real friends.
Because, when you are sick, you know who loves you, when you are drunk, you know who you love, when you have no money, you know who is good to you, only when you are in trouble do you know who cares about you the most, no matter how much rhetoric is not as good as a person who sends charcoal in the snow.
Therefore, don't think that the person who always contacts is a friend, don't think that the sweet-mouthed person is a confidant, a true or false friend, you will know it after a long time, and you can see it clearly in the midst of adversity. True affection, no matter when, will never leave, and true friends, no matter what, will do their best.
Time will be like a sieve to help us screen out the truth, and it will also be like a mirror, reflecting the other party's sincerity.
Only when the leaves fall do you know autumn, and when you fall into trouble, you know your friends
There is a saying: "People can't teach others, just teach people once, suffering losses is the same as eating, eating too much will grow." ”
Like us in the past, we are innocent, sincere to everyone, think about others as much as possible in everything, and always feel that everyone can exchange hearts for hearts, have true feelings, be moved, and be able to stay with each other and share weal and woe. As a result, in the long river of years, everything has subverted cognition, the world is unpredictable, and people's hearts are unpredictable.
They will come to you when you are glorious and glorious, and they will also leave indifferently when you are at a low point.
As the saying goes: the wall falls down and everyone pushes it. No one can guarantee that they will have a smooth journey, maybe when you are brilliant, there are countless friends, but you are down, who is a human being, who is a ghost, reality will tell you.
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