Life is an indispensable part of the Chinese civilization system, carrying the deep respect of the Chinese nation for thousands of years. Life is the source of civilization, the birthplace of legendary history, the cornerstone of all human achievements, and the primary guarantee for the safety of human life and property.
Life is precious and hard-won and cannot be described in any words.
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Parents work hard to raise their children, not to watch them grow old, but to hope that they can be safe and happy. We should not see staying alive as the last resort, but as the most important thing to do.
Because, what we once thought was insurmountable, may become insignificant in a few years. The sky we once thought was about to collapse may only be temporarily obscured by dark clouds.
The Chinese nation has always firmly believed that as long as it perseveres, the miracle of rain and sunny weather will always come again. Hope is a precious treasure that can only be obtained through hard work, and it is the driving force for us to move forward in life.
On the road of perseverance, we may discover new ideas, such as realizing that the true meaning of life is not just to survive, but to live more meaningfully, and small difficulties cannot become stumbling blocks to survival.
The emergence of funeral customs has condensed a lot of wisdom in life, such as the rule of three non-standing tombstones, which concretely reflects the complexity of funeral culture and the mystery of erecting tombstones.
The deceased is great, and the wrongs are retribution, first of all, we must take into account the issue of feng shui, from the burial of the deceased to the holding of the funeral, it needs to be based on good feng shui and good luck.
The Chinese nation adheres to the concept that the dead are the greatest, and believes that the grievances and hatreds of life should pass away with the wind. The act of retribution is not recognized by the Chinese nation, and the road of revenge is endless, which will only lead to endless suffering.
In order to solve this problem, the Chinese people advocate that hatred disappear with the dead, and that the resentment of the previous generation will not affect the next generation. In this way, there can be an end to hatred and avoid falling into a vicious cycle of suffering.
At the same time, the Chinese nation does not ignore the rights and interests of the living, life and death are interdependent, and both are indispensable.
Recognizing the preciousness of life is not only to protect one's own life, but also to respect every life. We can't ignore someone else's because our own lives matter.
Every life should be treated equally, and the external aura does not determine the value of life. In the face of disaster, all lives should be treated with equal respect, regardless of their status.
Therefore, people often lament the meaning of life after the death of the deceased, and the mistakes made in life should not be the reason for the living to attack the deceased. After all, the dead are gone, and no matter what the living say, they can't change reality.
The Chinese people firmly believe that the deceased can live in a positive and loving way to resolve resentment in the next life. For ordinary people, after death, people around them will erect a monument for them, as evidence that the deceased proved that they once existed, and it is also a reminder to relatives and friends.
If the deceased has knowledge and feels the thoughts of the living, the resentment in the heart may also dissipate. People are carriers of loneliness, but they cannot completely lose the care of others. Erecting a monument can not only prove the existence of the life of the deceased, but also arouse people's nostalgia for the living, so as to avoid loneliness becoming the norm, making people lose their seven emotions and six desires, become numb and lose their curiosity about the world.
Tombstones are erected to express the remembrance of a deceased loved one, because the living need an outlet to release their long-standing long-term longing for the deceased. The souls of the deceased do not want to be completely forgotten by the world.
However, not everyone is suitable for setting up a tombstone after death. Especially for the elderly who are lonely and widowed, although they have a close relationship with their neighbors, the cost of erecting a tombstone is a large expense, which may cause unnecessary disputes.
Therefore, people such as widows, widows, and loneliness need to be carefully considered when setting up tombstones.
1.Money is hard to come by, and for those who are living in poverty, this cost is undoubtedly worse. Waiving fees for some poor families is a good deed, but it can cause dissatisfaction among others.
What we can do is to do our part when the deceased is settled, and for those who have no descendants, the cleaning of the tombstones is necessary. 2.There is zero tolerance for offenders, both ancient and modern, and their crimes cannot be ignored.
Therefore, the wicked do not deserve the same treatment as the good deceased.
The rule of the monument is that only the deceased who are qualified to erect the monument can receive this honor. If you are not qualified, erecting a monument without permission is not only a challenge to social morality, but also gradually rejected by society.
People tend to be frightened and upset when the cause of death is unknown, believing that erecting a monument to them will bring bad luck to them. This was common in the past, but now, with the erection of the monument, people's attitudes have changed.
This cumbersome process is the insistence of the inheritors of ancient culture, and it is also a respect for life itself. Although it is somewhat in conflict with the fast-paced life, it is this sense of ritual that reflects the strong national color in the funeral culture.
As the saying "three do not stand, spiritual sustenance", some rules cannot be broken, because this is what the ancestors have identified through the test of time.
Crossing the gap between the times and technology, and meeting with loved ones is a memorable moment. Funeral culture is more about the spirit of our sustenance, when we are separated from the yin and yang of our loved ones, the fiery emotions in our hearts can not be told, respect for the deceased is to remind us to cherish the people around us, life is sometimes tough as steel, sometimes fragile as paper.
When vulnerability comes, if you don't wake up, it will be too late to regret it until the last moment of your life, and the remorse in your heart can only be told to the dead.
You only live once, don't let your heart tie your life. From now on, be kind to life, every struggle on the edge of life and death can bring permanent pain. Only by staying alive can we meet a better future.