It is terrible to have low self-esteem and always think that you are worthless.
1.Thinking that they are worthless and have low self-esteem, they dare not do what they want to do in the first place. It's like I like to draw since I was a child, and I want to go to the Academy of Fine Arts, but my parents oppose it, so I don't dare to fight for it. Later, I kept doing the work I didn't like and wasn't good at, and the worse I did, the more I felt that I couldn't do it. Because I felt that I couldn't do it, I didn't dare to leave, I didn't dare to try, and I couldn't dare to move a step.
2.If you think that you are worthless and have low self-esteem, you will be easily moved and become a scum-sucking physique. As long as there is a man who is a little nicer to you, a few sweet words, you will feel how you can match someone to be so good to you. Or marry someone you don't like, and feel that you have someone who likes it well, how dare you want to find something good to like.
3.If you think that you are worthless and have low self-esteem, you will be cowardly, dare not resist, and obey your orders. Since I was a child, I was fostered by my parents at a relative's house, under the fence, and I miss my parents very much, but I dare not say that I want to go back to my parents, if I insist on going back, even if I cry and go on a hunger strike, my parents will definitely take me back. But I never thought of resisting, I have been silently suffering, hiding behind the door and crying, and then like nothing.
4.If I think that I am worthless and have low self-esteem, it is easy to arm myself with external things, so that others think that I am valuable and vain. But I still have no sense of security and happiness in my heart.
If I think I am valuable, then I know what I am good at and what I like, I dare to insist, and I will not take a wrong step in life, and I will be passive again.
Thinking that you are worthless and inferior, it will be a vicious circle, and the worse environment and mood will make you feel bad. Then the environment and mood will be worse, and you will feel that you are really bad. Round by round, hell is endless.
I was rich, I was worthy.
You are always valuable, even if you don't do anything.
It turns out that loving oneself is like this.
Don't make it too hard for yourself, get yourself out of the environment you don't like, let yourself do what you love, ask yourself what you want, what you want to do, who you want to be with or don't want to be with. It's all up to you. We must dare to fight for it and dare to insist on our own ideas.
Some people say that reading is useless, how can you break your own inherent thinking without reading?
No, good book, it made me see the demon deep in the nucleus of my own cell.