The second brush of Deep Love and Rain knew that Ru Ping was not green tea

Wen Yu Pian.

Recently, because of a ** clip of Yiping jumping off the bridge, I watched the whole "Deep Love and Rain" for the second time.

I still remember when this drama premiered, I was in junior high school, and I watched this drama at that time:

hated Aunt Xue, annoyed Ru Ping to death, and loved He Shuhuan miserably.

Anyway thoseLove and hate, good and bad clear emotional view of right and wrongIt can be implemented on everyone in the play.

At that time, everyone undoubtedly liked the show.

It wasn't until many years later that everyone began to complain about Qiong Yao dramas, and there was a contest between "love and legs" and a dispute between "Shuhuan scum, Ru Ping".

However, when I was sick and bored, I re-watched this drama, and I couldn't help but reinterpret this drama with the intention of "looking for answers, ** actually", with my current cognition.

I want to say that this drama is still a good drama, no doubt about it!

I'll write a series, talk about it"Shuhuan is not scum, Ru Ping is not green, Aunt Xue is not bad, and the three views are not destroyed".Partners with common interests can continue to pay attention to the following.

This article mainly talks about: Ru Ping is not green tea.

At the time of the story, Ru Ping was less than 19 years old and studying Chinese at St. John's University in Shanghai.

Beautiful, knowledgeable, gentle and lively, her hair is often curled and tied in half, and a light and delicate pink knot is tied on the top of her head.

Ru Ping's delicate beauty is the playful beauty of a lady that I only know how to appreciate until now.

Before Yiping, Ru Ping and He Shuhuan had known each other for more than half a year, and Ru Ping also liked Shuhuan for more than half a year.

Despite the divine assistance and strong matchmaking of his brother Lu Erhao and his mother Wang Xueqin, the relationship between Ru Ping and He Shuhuan has never been painful, itchy or slow.

The reason for this is Ru Ping's reserve, and He Shuhuan has never had a strong feeling of love for him.

Ru Ping's reserve is "taken for granted", before Yiping didn't appear, she was a little dizzy by the atmosphere baked by everyone, so she had an illusion-

I thought that Shuhuan should be hers sooner or later.

She is so happy and smooth, she is used to letting everything fall into place under the blessing of Wang Xueqin, naturally.

As she often says:

You can't escape, and you can't rob it if it's not yours.

1. There is no substitute for a lover.

Why is Ru Ping not green tea?

Green tea means "scheming", which is to achieve the goal with the purpose, step by step, design everywhere, and make everyone feel that you are a good person, harmless to humans and animals.

Ru Ping never thought of breaking up Lu Yiping and He Shuhuan, let alone deliberately devised something to divide their relationship.

She just waited for He Shuhuan all the time, offering her compassion and tenderness when He Shuhuan was vulnerable.

Now that I have brushed it for the second time, I really see a 19-year-old good girl, for the sake of what she loves, constantly fantasizing - disillusioned - silently waiting - bravely confessing - letting go of herself - unconditional love.

Lu Ruping's love history is actually her growth history.

Lu Zhenhua has 9 wives, each of whom has their own children, and you will see that all of your sons have a sense of superiority, and they can easily get their father's attention.

Daughters are different, they have to do everything they can to get their father's affection.

A daughter who is accustomed to competing for her father's love will bring this sense of competition to her love when she grows up, Yiping needless to say, she not only has to compete for her father's attention, but also put on a battle armor for her mother and fight at any time.

So you see, when there was no Yiping, Ru Ping was more passively waiting for He Shuhuan to come close to her, and Yiping's appearance awakened her inner sense of crisis and competition.

Lu Ruping, who grew up under Wang Xueqin's powerful aura, learned another rule of survival: retreat as advance, and softness to overcome rigidity.

Wang Xueqin looked low in front of Lu Zhenhua, and of course Ru Ping also learned a thing or two.

She can't be Wang Xueqin's domineering, she can learn from Wang Xueqin's "empathy".

And Lu Ruping, who is highly educated and has tasted Wang Xueqin's hardships, is genuine in her empathy and consideration.

She pities others as much as she pities herself.

Let's talk about Ru Ping's growth history.

Lu Ruping is a typical people-pleasing personality.

A good girl who was a good parent when she was a child, she will be a good girlfriend of her lover when she grows up, do what she likes, and infinitely lower her love requirements.

She said to He Shuhuan more than once:

I will love you with my life;

I don't care if you settle for the next best;

I can lose my self ...... in front of you

Ru Ping's first growth was to chase the lovelorn He Shuhuan to Suiyuan.

Everyone said she was wrong to do so.

I don't think so.

She is brave and takes action to chase the person she likes, and I think this is a huge leap forward for her to face her real needs.

Courage to make mistakes and take responsibility for mistakes is the beginning of "right" and "good".

Thinking back to you and me when I was 19 years old, we are not necessarily as brave as Ru Ping, we always refuse to face our true feelings, or avoid covering up, and are always extremely immature.

It was precisely because He Shuhuan saw a "different" Lu Ruping that his will collapsed and he chose Ruping again.

Ru Ping's second growth was after witnessing the life-and-death love of Shuhuan and Yiping's "two fires", she did not collapse or give up on herself, she bravely did a series of psychological construction again, accepted and forgave them, and took the initiative to have a "reconciliation of the century" with them.

She clearly told He Shuhuan, who still wanted to leave a corner for herself:

I don't want you anymore......

I won't fantasize about anything anymore......

What is the use of that corner of yours that I can't eat or wear?

In the original book, Ru Ping's ending was a tragedy, she reported to Wang Xueqin, lured the wolf into the house, and made Lu Zhenhua bankrupt.

Lu Zhenhua slapped her to the ground.

Lu Ruping couldn't believe that her mother would let people loot her property.

Dad hated him, Mom lied to her, her lover abandoned her, she was in great pain, so she committed suicide by drinking bullets.

In order to rewrite Ru Ping's tragic fate, Ruby Lin's version of "Deep Love and Rain" has Du Fei, a male angel.

He has always been by Ru Ping's side and brought laughter to Ru Ping unconditionally.

We say:Good love can ** our past and present lives.

This is absolutely true.

It's a pity that we always fall into the cycle of "tragedy of past lives" repeatedly, thinking that what we are familiar with is safe, but we don't know that this sense of security is an experience that we have repeatedly "wiped" with pain, and this experience may only allow us to take a breath in an environment that is not conducive to us.

Don't forget, we have other choices, just like Ru Ping at the beginning, she felt that there was only one father, and she had to constantly compete and work hard like her mother to get his love;

She reproduced this painful experience into her own love, and tried her best to chase after He Shuhuan, who didn't love her in her heart.

As everyone knows, Du Fei, who is really suitable for himself, has been by his side from the beginning!