In reality, the partners at the bottom are very unconscious, and they will only play with you, make trouble, quarrel, and drag you back like they play on TV. If you don't have a stable life and have big goals, it's better to stay single for the time being.
Growing up is always a lonely journey, and no one will know what you've been through.
2. Ordinary people should not pursue to be a good person, but to be a strong person.
You don't have that much energy, if you go and be a good person, not only will you not be rewarded, you will die quickly. A good person will not be rewarded, but a strong person will be rewarded.
And for ordinary people, health is the biggest investment. If you have a car and a house, you are overdrafted, and you are old and sick, these people will not be very happy. Serious illness costs money like running water, and there are many people who return to poverty due to illness after a lifetime of hard work. Even if you don't own a house, as long as you are healthy, your happiness index is higher than theirs.
3. The more ruthless, treacherous and cunning, cold-blooded and ruthless, do your own thing, and do it if you don't accept it, the more people appreciate you and admire you.
The more honest, kind, and soft-hearted you are, and the more kind-hearted you are, the more people will bully you and take advantage of you.
4. In this world:
80% of people are led into the abyss by their own desires.
20% of people use other people's desires to improve themselves.
It is precisely 20% of the people who hold the direction of the future of 80% of the people.
5. When you live a transparent life, you will find that in addition to making money, everything else is lazy.
6. Different levels of survival rules, the bottom: the same end, the middle class: full of complaints, and the high-level: black and white all-in-one.
7. Feelings will deceive you, but money will not. It's as much as it is, and it solves real problems for you.
8. I tried very hard to make myself affectionate, righteous, gentle, and funny, trying to be a good person in the eyes of others, only to find out in the end that in fact, as long as I had money, it was enough.
9. Pain often stems from the pursuit of happiness, and if you don't deliberately pursue happiness, you can reduce a lot of pain.
Life is full of suffering. Don't deliberately pursue happiness, because it is only a subjective emotion after all. The best state of life is calm, not sad or happy.
10. Some people's lives take a lot of time to contend with their own character, the shadow of their childhood, or their original family, or a certain profound influence. So their path will be slower than others.
11. Many immature bottom-level giant babies will have a fantasy: it is too difficult to struggle alone, if there is someone who can understand me, tolerate me, care for me, accompany me, and support me. It's a pipe dream.
In reality, the partners at the bottom are very unconscious, and they will only play with you, make trouble, quarrel, and drag you back like they play on TV. If you don't have a stable life and have big goals, it's better to stay single for the time being.
Growing up is always a lonely journey, and no one will know what you've been through.
12. The genes of the rich are creation, and the genes of the poor are taking.
13. To make friends, you must make friends with like-minded people and the same values, don't waste time and feelings on inappropriate people, otherwise you will part ways sooner or later.
14. Give up proving yourself to others and give up proving yourself to yourself. Focus on doing what you are supposed to do and solve problems without distractions.
When you go your own way, there is less and less urge to prove something. You'll also be relaxed and free.
15. Most people in life can't succeed, if you are determined to make some achievements, you must always be vigilant and not to be assimilated by those around you.
If you want to achieve something, you are destined to take a lonely road, and you are destined to face the doubts and opposition of most people. You have to face this pain head-on and endure it, there is no other way.
16. The sickle and the leek are just two kinds of characters, and we must choose one of them. What role do you play in relationships?
17. Everything in the world should be measured by money, interests, and results, but you have to measure it with feelings, and don't destroy who you destroy.
18. Being planned in the future is the top romance.
19. Understand that you are your own nobleman. When you really encounter the most important test in life, you will find that you should not ask for the sky, the earth is not spiritual, and the people are ignored. Everything can only be done on your own, a calm and strong heart.
20. When you have no power or power, don't say that you are a good person, maybe you just don't have a chance to be bad.
21. Cooking is not about cooking rice, you have to wait until the firewood, rice, oil and salt are ready before putting it into the pot. A lot of things come suddenly, and you have to bite the bullet in a hurry. By the time you're ready, you're gone.
22. Forget about ethereal dreams, stay away from those who talk loudly, set practical goals, and pay attention to every detail in their implementation. Train and try again and again, and eventually you will achieve the results you want.
23. If you want to keep the relationship with anyone, don't take it too seriously. As long as you take it too seriously, you are bound to lose.
It's like if you love someone too much, that person will definitely not love you. It's so strange that human beings want to be taken seriously and are afraid of being taken too seriously.
24. In this life, the most important thing is not to please others, but to please yourself. When you live well enough, there will naturally be people who appreciate you, and there will naturally be people who want to be close to you, and they will not leave at all without you deliberately keeping them.
25. Our lives do not exist because we like others.
26. Once people put their thoughts and expectations on others, they will become weak. Are you concerned about what other people think of you? But the lion never cares about the opinion of the sheep.
27. Powerful people live for themselves, and weak people always meet the needs of others and live for others everywhere, but as a result, they live as others don't need, and they suffer all their lives.
28. The rich have the thinking of leaders and the thinking of the strong, while the thinking of the poor is that they have no thinking, they always like to go with the flow, get by, have no goal for wealth, and have no plan for the future.
29. Many women's eyes after marriage are their family's one-third of an acre, and all they can see is their husbands, children, and endless family trivialities.
30. Most people would rather die than think, and many people really don't think until they die.
31. You love money, and money loves you. When you nourish wealth with love and joy, it will come back to nourish you.
32. I am always vigilant against people who can speak and have high emotional intelligence. People's time and energy are limited, and if you put too much effort into being a person, it is impossible to spend your mind on doing things.
33. The love and marriage of ordinary people is to send their own and future generations' labor force to the society for the purpose of passing on the ancestry, and by living together in a partnership.
The marriage of the rich is the integration of resources and the inheritance of property to the next generation, as for the love of the rich, it is one kryptonite game after another.
34. People who have never really done anything will be afraid of failure. Because of the fear of failure, I dare not act. Those who have really done things will understand: making mistakes is the norm, and failure is the norm. Smooth sailing and the fulfillment of wishes are extremely unlikely events.
35. Gregariousness should be to buy a pair of shoes of the right size, rather than cutting their feet to fit the shoes. Don't give up what you want to do most in order to cater to a certain group. Sometimes, gregariousness is the beginning of the Fall.
36. Watch less bad news and negative energy news, no matter how interesting it is, it has nothing to do with you. Negative news can weaken our energy, destroy our inner peace, and make us fall into negative emotions and have no mental strength to act.
It seriously affects our physical and mental health and life, makes ourselves and those around us feel uncomfortable, and invisibly increases our sense of guilt, which is not conducive to mental health.
For those bad news and all kinds of negative news, reduce the frequency of attention, in order to protect our body, mind and inner peace.
37. Some friends still lack understanding of society. You have to know that the biggest difference between people is class, not city.
You feel like you're in a first-tier metropolis, but you're at the bottom, and you can't enjoy the resources of the metropolis at all, maybe you're the resources themselves.
38. In modern society, migrant workers are most likely to have two misunderstandings:
From a small place to a big city, I thought that the class had increased; I got into the car and thought that the class had improved.
In fact, this is the result of the development of the productive forces, and you are still the same class. An ordinary code farmer with an annual salary of 300,000 yuan is really called an information industry worker; The administrative secretary of the office building, the real name is the bookkeeper.
39. The human brain produces tens of thousands of thoughts every day, most of which have no value, or even only negative value. Emotions are actually the excrement of the brain's thoughts. If you take your thoughts seriously and analyze them carefully every day, it's easy to get caught up in them.
Those who like to talk to the tree hole often do not get better, but only continue to be depressed, forever dark and depressed. It is difficult for such a person to achieve anything.
40. Under normal circumstances, no one will dig out their minds and deceive you with all their hearts. No one will spend a lot of time and energy, and a lot of manpower, material and financial resources to dig a pit for you.
Unless you have two things: beauty or money. That's why beautiful and rich people have to be a lot smarter than the average person to not be unlucky.
41. If ordinary people want to stand out in the same circle, they don't need to fight for any talent. As long as you dare to embrace anxiety, firm in your goals, and then act without fear of setbacks for 10 years, from 20 to 30 years old, the accumulation of advantages in just ten years is enough to throw off your peers. Perhaps for those who are congenitally superior, that large section is nothing; But for ordinary people, it is already a completely different life. 42. Most of the people who like to be alone are actually people with very good conduct.
These people never get together, they don't mess with right and wrong, they just like one person, do what they should do well, enjoy their clean spiritual world, and clean life circle. This kind of person deserves deep friendship.
43. If you hate the people around you, the best way to express your dislike is not to quarrel with them, but to be diligent and leave them harder.
Then they will disappear from your life forever, almost like dead.
44. From the moment we were born, fate prepared a script for us, if you just act blindly as you like, there will definitely be no good results. I must know as early as possible: who I am, what I am suitable for, and what field I can work in. We need to understand what we are good at, what our advantages are, and then concentrate on this field, choose and trade-off, conquer the city, and continue to grow.
45. People are very cheap, if you are not afraid of losing anyone, you can get whom, if you are not afraid of losing the whole world, you can get the whole world, in any interpersonal relationship, arrogance is much better than inferiority.
46. Whether it is for boys or girls, living in the expectations of their parents is a kind of torment. Therefore, it is better to become a "joke" as soon as possible, and it is better to puncture the dreams of your parents at the age of 18 and let them down completely, especially those irresponsible garbage parents, otherwise, they will still think that your life is up to them.
47. The kindness of the strong is exchanged for gratitude; The kindness of the weak is exchanged for contempt.
48. It's too important to have someone around you who has always encouraged you and affirmed you, and that seemingly useless and exaggerated compliment seems to save your life every time you fall.
49. Loneliness is the normal state of life, what you have to do is not to get rid of it, but to live in peace with it, only then will you understand that you actually have nothing, and you will no longer be afraid of losing. The secret to a happy life is to make a decent pact with loneliness.
50. In the matter of happiness, the feeling of time freedom is the 1 in the front, and with 1, 0 can be added in the back. People who are not free in time will not have true happiness, which is one of the reasons why the higher the level, the stronger the sense of happiness.