The word "same wife" may be relatively unfamiliar to everyone, but there are 10 million "same wives" in my country who suffer from the unequal treatment of marriageThey are all full of longing for a beautiful marriage, but they are in a predicament.
Sichuan talented girl Luo Hongling is one of them, she met a high school classmate by chance, and since then she has been infatuated, but she doesn't want him to be just a pawn and a fig leaf for her husband.
In 2011, 30-year-old Sichuan Korean professor Luo Hongling met high school classmate Cheng by chance.
At this time, Luo Hongling only knew something about ChengHis parents divorced when he was a child, and he has been helpless since then, and after graduating from high school, he went directly into society because he had no money to go to college.
I don't know why, hearing what happened to him, Luo Hongling felt extremely distressed, and she didn't know where she got the courage, so she took the initiative to walk up and hug him and said, "In the future, I am willing to take care of you and give you warmth." ”
Cheng's body stiffened, without the excitement of anticipation, Luo Hongling only felt that he might have not been cared for by others for too long.
Luo Hongling is a well-known "good girl", she is not only beautiful, but also has a gentle personality, but also has outstanding talents, and is recognized by the school as a "literary youth".
Among them, "A Typical Comparative Investigation of "Matchmakers" in Chinese and Korean Classical Marriage and Love Literature" was rated as an outstanding master's degree of the year in China. He also visited South Korea on behalf of the Chinese youth delegation.
After graduating in 2007, he became a professor of Korean in Sichuan and is also studying for a doctorate.
Such a girl with excellent character and learning, but the emotional journey is not very smooth, although she has also dated boys, but she neglects love because she is busy with her work.
So when she met Cheng, she secretly decided in her heart: she must love him wholeheartedly in the future.
is different from ordinary men and women in love, they basically have no affectionate actions except for chatting, and Cheng has never even touched Luo Hongling's hand.
Luo Hongling just felt that he respected himself, butThe authorities are obsessed with bystanders, Luo Hongling's friend once reminded her: "Your boyfriend is very abnormal, he doesn't have a problem with his sexual orientation, right?" ”
was vetoed by Luo HonglingShe is an open-minded, kind, and passionate girl who loves someone and should trust him wholeheartedly.
From beginning to end, she felt that Cheng was too lacking in love, so she was so indifferent to her feelings, so she cherished this relationship even more.
Cheng didn't have a job, so she divided her income into three parts, one for her parents and one for Cheng, and she left a little living expenses, and all her part-time income was given to Cheng, just hoping that he could be happier.
Under her gentle love, Cheng soon proposed to Luo Hongling, but she didn't know that it was the beginning of her nightmare.
That day, she called Cheng home for dinner, this is a day she will never forget, she was cooking in the kitchen, Cheng suddenly hugged her from behind, and whispered in her ear: "Marry me, okay?" ”
They have been in love for half a year, and such intimacy has never been thereFor a while, Luo Hongling only felt confused, and nodded with a red face.
In January 2012, they registered their marriage, and in this way, she inexplicably became Cheng's fig leaf, and with the cover of marriage, Cheng was even more unscrupulous.
The so-called "Spring Festival is worth a thousand gold", it should have been a candle night in their cave room, Luo Hongling looked at her husband with a little shyness in anticipation, after all, this is the most memorable day in a woman's life.
Unexpectedly, Cheng just symbolically hugged him and said, "I'm too tired, go to bed early." After saying that, he went to the guest room, leaving his wife alone in the new room and weeping silently.
After marriage, Cheng Mou, who is empathetic, gentle and considerate, and has a melancholy temperament, is like two people before, he is busy every day,Always looking for all kinds of excuses to avoid going home.
Every day, Luo Hongling waited for him to come back when he was tired of the meal, hot and cold, and even fell asleep on the sofa, but when it was dawn, she couldn't see her husband's shadow.
That day, Luo Hongling couldn't bear it anymore, so she called him **: Can you go home early, this is still our honeymoon. ”
Cheng said that he was in the gym, Luo Hongling didn't understand why he worked out all night every time, is it really that he is not attractive?
Faced with such an embarrassing problem, she couldn't talk to her parents, and she couldn't talk to her friendsIn the eyes of outsiders, Cheng is handsome, tall, gentle and considerate, and a rare good husband, but in fact, this is just a play he played in front of outsiders.
In the first month of their marriage, they only spent 5 nights in one room, which was begged by Luo Hongling, and Cheng also dealt with it hastily.
She thought that she was not attractive enough, so she searched all kinds of information on the Internet, how to improve her temperament, how to make herself look feminine, and how to make her husband like her, but everything she did was in vain.
The husband is not interested in her, but he is not interested in women, and there are many ambiguous objects in Cheng's mobile phone, but unfortunately they are all men.
Many gay wives marry not only to give themselves a fig leaf, but more importantly, to complete the task of inheritance, but Cheng doesn't need it, because his parents don't care about him, he just needs a pretense of marriage.
However, paper can't hold the fire, and Luo Hongling soon learned his secret.
On May 20 of this year, Cheng returned home early, which made Luo Hongling feel overjoyed and hurriedly prepared a meal, Cheng said: "I'm tired, take a bath first." After saying that, he took off his coat and went to the bathroom.
It was this negligence that made his secret leak and pushed Luo Ailing into hell.
Just when Cheng left, a text message came from his mobile phone, Luo Hongling instinctively picked it up and looked at it, and suddenly the blood in her whole body coagulated, it was a message from a man, and the content was ambiguous.
Her heart seemed to have fallen into a bottomless abyss, and she kept falling down, but she couldn't hit the ground, her hands trembled and she looked at his mobile phone, there were actually several gay dating software in it, and Cheng was also ambiguous with 3 men at the same time, and there were many unsightly **.
What's more, some of them were taken in their apartments, and they were so presumptuousIt turns out that the husband has been ignoring him, not because he is not attractive enough, but because he has no interest in women at all.
When Cheng came out of the shower and saw Luo Hongling holding his mobile phone in a daze, blood suddenly surged up, and he snatched the mobile phone and said viciously:
"Now that you've found out, I won't hide it from you, I'm a gay, if you can't accept it, divorce. ”
"It's shameless to have sex with other men in my rented apartment, to have an affair with other men with the mobile phone I bought, and to use my money to buy gifts for other men, and you are cheating on marriage. ”Cheng scoffedHe was determined that Luo Hongling loved him and couldn't do without him, so he was even more unscrupulous, and used Luo Hongling, who loved him wholeheartedly, as a pawn in his marriage to cover his unknown side. Luo Hongling stayed up all night that night, she was ashamed to complain to others, and she didn't know how to solve it, and finally she decided to use her love to pull her husband back, hoping that he could return to normal family life.
In the end, she found Cheng first and reconciled: "I won't pursue the previous things, let's live a good life in the future, okay?" After thinking for a while, she blushed and said, "Let's have a baby." ”
He thought that he could tie his husband's heart with a child, but he didn't expect Cheng to say nonchalantly: "What kind of child to have, I am very satisfied with my life now." ”
But he forgot that all his life was based on his wife's pain, and that marriage could not be done by one person's efforts, and that their marriage would soon come to an end.
No matter how hard Luo Hongling tried, she couldn't save the heart that wasn't in her, until that day she saw those unsightly contents again, and after the big quarrel, she finally decided to let herself go, that was the first time she got angry, and it was the last time.
On June 14, they went through the divorce procedures, and if they separated like this, after a while, Luo Hongling would definitely start her life again.
However, Cheng did not plan to let her go, and at 8 o'clock that night, Cheng posted a message on Weibo:
"Teacher Luo, I'm sorry, I'm just a gay, I lied to you, and the purpose of cheating on marriage is to cover up yourself. ”For a while, students, colleagues, friends, and relatives all knew about her unbearable marriage, and they all looked at her with strange eyes, saying that the ugliness of the family should not be publicized, but Cheng wanted to make this privacy**.
Shame, anger, and grievances all came to her heart for a while, thinking of her wholehearted dedication, but it turned out to be a joke in the eyes of others, Luo Hongling felt extremely desperate, she locked herself in the house and cried loudly.
But I didn't want to receive a text message from Cheng again at this moment: "I'm going to eat hot pot, I'm not interested in **, I like **sx." ”
This and its humiliating words broke Luo Hongling's heart again, and it became the last straw that broke the camel's back, dialing the ** that she hated extremely much, and asked heartbreakingly: "What do you want?" ”
* The smile on the other end was extremely disgusting: "I know that you are Bingqing Yujie and care about your reputation, I want you to be as unsightly as me, this is just the beginning, I will post it on Weibo every day in the future." ”
She has been very well-behaved since she was a child, never let her parents worry about it, and she is still unwilling to confide her grievances to her parents at the moment, but she bears it silently.
One thought of heaven and one thought of hell! In the early morning of the next day, people found Luo Hongling who jumped from the 13th floor, she walked so resolutely, her young life stopped forever at the age of 31, and the doctoral application was in September, everything had nothing to do with her.
Left a short 19 words on her Weibo:
"The world is so tiring, so let's let it all end. ”She used her life to cheat on marriage, but unfortunately the price she paid was too great, No one's life is smooth sailing, since he has left, why not take his heart with him, why pay his precious life for the unworthy person.
Maybe for her, everything is relieved, but her parents are in the pain of the white-haired man sending the black-haired man, this is their only daughter, I am afraid that there will be no happiness in the future.
As a homosexual, Cheng's behavior is really shameful, and we sympathize with his flaws, but it is not a reason for him to hurt others. In order to cover up his unknown side, he took advantage of the weakness of a woman's feelings for no reason, and even lost his life.
As a woman in the new era, Luo Hongling has a wealth of knowledge, but she is too fragile emotionally and doesn't even know how to protect herself.
She is so good, she will definitely meet someone who loves him in the future. Even if no one loves you, you can live the meaning of life. You really shouldn't punish yourself for someone else's fault!
I hope that all people who are suffering in marriage can bravely take up the law to protect themselves, and they can't easily give up their lives in despair.
We come to the world for a trip, just like a trip If there is a fate, we will walk hand in hand, and if we don't have a fate, we will be brave and alone, Miss everyone is the same scenery, Tomorrow the sun is still shining, the flowers are still blooming, and beauty and happiness are what we really need to pursue.