Don't run for a while today, talk about life! Today is the twenty-seventh day of the lunar month, and there are still 4 days before the Spring Festival. I think there are hundreds of millions of people looking forward to it at this moment: the children are looking forward to the New Year's money, the office workers and bosses who have been on vacation have been reunited with their families, and the colleagues who have not yet taken the holiday are also looking forward to it. This is the biggest traditional festival in China, and it touches everyone's heart.
The month before the year was extremely exciting and happy for strangers. Because they know that it won't be long before they can return to the hometown where they gave birth to him, see their parents and relatives, and spend the reunion together. However, once the Chinese New Year's Eve passes, everything returns to the ordinary, facing the upcoming parting and day-to-day work. So,The process of expecting happiness is blissful, and once obtained, the happiness index immediately drops.
More than ten years ago, before I got married, whether I was studying abroad or wandering north and south, I would go home and return to my parents during the Chinese New Year. But since I took my parents to live with me, every Chinese New Year, to be honest, I am still very envious of those who can return to their hometown for the New Year. Even if I recall the experience of buying a Spring Festival train ticket a month in advance more than ten years ago and looking for a ticket seller to buy a ticket, although I hated those ticket sellers at that time, but now that I think about it, that is the beginning of the real New Year.
There are many ways to go home, but the destination is only hometown. I know that many people are frustrated every year because they can't get a train, bus or plane ticket, but at the same time, they may also envy us for being able to bring our parents to celebrate the New Year. Of course, some people will say that they will go back to their hometown with their parents for the New Year. But this is not always feasible, because the elderly may have become accustomed to living in a place, and suddenly changing the environment may not be adaptable, such as staying in a heated place, and suddenly going to a place without heating can be fatal for the elderly.
So,Man, human nature is to look at a mountain and look at the mountain, and he is naturally jealous of life. We are always envious of what others have and ignore what we have. We always see the happiness of others and ignore our own. Human nature is inherently jealous, and I will never argue with that. Because this is human nature, we cannot change it, we can only learn to accept and understand. Learn to cherish what you have and be grateful for what life has to offer, maybe that's what we should do.
Finally, I wish you all a Happy New Year! Auspicious Year of the Dragon!