Wang Yangming once said: "If you learn to turn against yourself, if you blame others, you will only see that others are not, and you will not see your own wrong." ”
In life, some people will always stare at the mistakes of others, but they can't find their own problems, so they will fall into the trap of blindness.
Each of us has two burdens, one is our own problem and the other is the fault of others.
But many people put the mistakes of others on their chests and can easily see them, but put their own mistakes behind their backs and deliberately ignore them.
In the journey of life, we will always encounter all kinds of difficulties and setbacks. Sometimes, we shift the blame to someone else, believing that it's someone else's fault that gets us into trouble. However, if we can't introspect and realize our mistakes and shortcomings, then we will never be able to get out of the situation and not be able to truly grow and improve.
Introspection is a very important quality. Only through self-examination can we discover our own shortcomings and problems, and can we better correct our mistakes. When we face setbacks and difficulties, we should not blindly blame others, but seriously think about our own problems and find ways and means to solve them. Only in this way can we truly overcome difficulties and achieve our goals.
Introspection is not an easy thing to do. Sometimes, we turn a blind eye to our mistakes or are unwilling to admit our shortcomings. At this time, we need to use external forces to help ourselves. For example, we can ask others for their opinions and suggestions, and listen to others' opinions and feedback, so as to discover our own shortcomings and problems. At the same time, we also need to learn to be tolerant and tolerant, and not to feel hurt or angry because of the criticism of others.
In the process of introspection, we need to keep a humble heart. Don't think you've done a good job, but always be vigilant and take your problems seriously. Only in this way can we continue to make progress and constantly improve our ability and level.
Finally, I would like to say that on the road of life, detours and setbacks are inevitable. And knowing how to introspect is the best weapon to overcome difficulties!Through self-reflection, we are able to better understand ourselves, discover our own shortcomings and problems, so that we can better overcome difficulties and achieve our goals. Therefore, let's always be vigilant, take our problems seriously, and be a person who keeps improving and growing.