The long-awaited winter break has finally arrived, and college students are heading home. For them, coming home means spending time with their families, sharing the moments of each other's lives, and mending the bonds that have been estranged by going to college. Going home used to be a particularly precious moment, but with the rapid pace of university life, it's becoming less and less frequent. Whenever college students come home, parents always greet them wholeheartedly, even though they are still busy preparing everything for their children. Parents are particularly concerned about their children's situation at school, whether their lives are stable, and whether they eat regularly. For this reason, they will carefully prepare the food that the child likes, for fear that the child will not take good care of himself because he is busy. However, some college students go home like a catastrophe, and they don't expect that a winter vacation will almost kill them, and all this comes from the love of their families.
Winter break is a valuable opportunity for college students to spend time with their families, and every vacation gives college students time to go home and reunite with their families. However, as job incomes increase, more and more college students choose to stay and work in big cities, resulting in time with family becoming more precious and scarce. While relieving the pressure of their studies, college students are working hard to get along with their families and make up for the regret of not being able to go home often because of their busy schedules. However, it is not always smooth sailing for families to get along.
There is a college student who has a deep affection for his family and is looking forward to getting along with them. However, his experience almost made him "go down", which was really a wheel war of righteous annihilation. When he came home during the winter vacation, his father asked him to taste the wine he had made. Although the college student was wary, out of respect for his father, he tried a few bites. Unexpectedly, this led to severe diarrhea, and even fainting, and finally emergency medical treatment. After recovering, the college student couldn't hold back and drank the fish soup cooked by his mother in one breath, but he was stuck in his throat by a fish bone and was forced to go to the emergency department again. At this time, the grandfather took out his chef card to show his professionalism, hoping to appease the emotions of the college students. However, it turned out that the college student was sent to the hospital again for food poisoning, and it turned out that the grandfather, who was a professional chef, also missed the time when he didn't cook the fried green beans. After this series of incidents, the grandmother made a stern count on the whole family and tried to comfort everyone with her best mushroom soup. However, the accident happened again, leaving the entire family in a situation where they were hospitalized for the fourth time. Looking back on this series of laughable experiences, everyone was full of emotion, and they didn't expect college students to encounter so many twists and turns when they came home from vacation.
This series of incidents has sounded the alarm bell for parents. It was originally a happy event for college students to go home during the holidays, a continuation of family affection, and a warm time for family. However, parents' overly intense expectations and behaviors towards going home can lead to some unintended consequences and even turn into a farce. Some college students complain after returning home that their parents ask them to go to bed early and wake up early too strictly, while parents complain that college students are addicted to their phones all day long and sleep lazy. In fact, this is a gap in expectations and understanding between the two sides. Empathy, rational communication and mutual understanding can achieve the best educational results.
Returning home may seem like a "troublemaker" experience, but it's also a family reunion. College students look forward to returning home to relax and spend quality time with their families. However, parents also have high expectations and requirements for their children. During the winter holidays, try to understand and meet the expectations of the other person as much as possible, and at the same time adjust your own expectations appropriately. Communication and understanding are the keys to maintaining family relationships, and I hope that every college student can get along with their families happily and spend a warm winter vacation.